posted August 11, 2007 05:43 PM              

Recently I met a guy who I had a really intense attraction to. It was honestly from the second I saw him. When our eyes met, I felt this churning in my stomach, and it made my heart race. it was more intense than just butterflies. we kept staring at eachother all night. of course, being the astro-nut I am, I managed to get his birthdate later on. and I found out that we have a Venus opposition Pluto aspect. (his Venus, my Pluto)

posted August 11, 2007 06:05 PM            

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Umair's Pluto conjunct Angie's Moon:

Angie's emotional responses to Umair are very intense. If Umair is physically attractive to Angie, then the attractive power of Umair over Angie is extremely powerful. However, the attraction tends to have a love/hate quality to it, and you feel drawn to each other, but also wary and distrustful of each other. It is likely that you feel both drawn to each other and repulsed by each other at the same time! The emotional response to each other is intense and complex, and the ultimate outcome of this deep, complex emotional tie is difficult to predict, but one thing is certain: this is not a lukewarm relationship and you 'get under each other's skin', evoking intense feelings from each other. Angie can easily become obsessed with Umair!

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Ummmmm... yeah Lol!

posted August 11, 2007 06:17 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted August 11, 2007 06:17 PM              

I found this about that specific aspect.Hope it helps!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/001933.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/002063.html
http://www.nodeorama.com/viewtopic.php?id=2874

posted August 11, 2007 06:17 PM            

As you can see, the moon hits the deeper core of a person's preferable nature. Venus more reflects the astetic preference. So just rule out the moon and add in the pluto in the mix and you'll kinda get an idea as to the intensity of the attraction in question .

posted August 12, 2007 06:29 AM            

I've said this before.. I had generational Pluto opposite my Venus with everyone in my year level at school, and some people at university at the moment. I am not by any means attracted to all of these people.

I was only romantically attached to one guy, but he also had Mars on my Venus.. Thus he had Mars opp Pluto in his own chart.. so in some ways we were similar..

posted August 12, 2007 06:43 AM              

I haven't dealt with the opposition personally but have with the sextile (and so has a close friend of mine). All I can say is once it gets into you, watch out! It'll probably work great for a working relationship but these aspects are also incredibly difficult to shake off in case you are trying to let go of someone.

It might be a good idea to pull up a composite here and see if there's any Venus/Pluto action going on there. And also whether the composite Venus or Pluto make any aspects to the opposite planet in your individual charts. If they do, expect things to get serious.

posted August 12, 2007 06:53 AM              

Power, control, fear and obsession DO play a major part here. It is totally intense, very confusing as well. It seems we can't let go from each other, at least not mentally/psychologically - even though letting go would be the reasonable thing to do.

The first meeting occurred under "unreal" or "coincidental" or maybe even ... "fated" circumstances, more than half a year ago. None of us could help "falling for the other", it confused and overwhelmed both of us, right at the beginning - that's at least my impression. Some "taboo" factors about all that as well. ("Impossible" or "forbidden" love.)

The strange thing is: Although I am PLUTO and it is his VENUS, I felt from the beginning that he'd be the "stronger" person here, that he'd hold control over everything, that is: controlling me, keeping me on arm's length in a way. I feel that I am under his spell very much - I don't feel plutonically powerful at all! Just the opposite seems to be true: He seems to be dictating the frequency of our meetings and "how far we go" momentarily.

Meanwhile we had some interesting/heavy conversations and I found out: He really seems to like me (I'm not sure whether he is really "obsessed" with me) - but he is SCARED in a way - he feels attracted by me and threatened at the same time. It seems that he does anything NOT to fall for me too deeply. And that makes me powerless, in a way. He seems to struggle to resist me, he even alluded/admitted this in a conversation we had. Lately he told me that he wanted to see me again, that he's thinking about me all the time - but that he's not sure whether it'd be "good" to come together once more, physically.

He said that he'd be afraid that if we got involved more deeply there'd be the possibility for "hurting each other" seriously. I don't know why he feels this way - and, again: All I can do is back off a little and show him/proof to him, that I am serious about him and have GOOD intentions only. I have to show some patience here, which is sometimes very hard for me to do. So he dis-empowers me/my Pluto in a way.

The longer we linger on, the more I get the feeling that all this is unavoidable and that it could be ... really complicated ... really strange and risky ... but: long lasting (maybe). In any case: TIME seems to be major factor here. From my point of view I can say: I won't give up too easily on this one! Of that I am sure.

Hope that this gives you an impression of the PLUTO/VENUS conjt. in synastry.

posted August 12, 2007 02:37 PM              

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It might be a good idea to pull up a composite here and see if there's any Venus/Pluto action going on there. And also whether the composite Venus or Pluto make any aspects to the opposite planet in your individual charts. If they do, expect things to get serious.

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posted August 12, 2007 07:32 PM              

I think this is a really good point to make. For eg. I have a natal sun trine pluto..therefore EVERYONE around my age has their pluto trine my sun... Everyone around your same year level has all of their outer planets (starting from jupiter) at a near degree..

So considering all this...would you say that the major aspects too look at when reading the synastry of similar aged couple would be the personal planets to the others personal planets?

posted August 13, 2007 08:10 AM              

in sinastry:

His Pluto falls on my 1st house./Mine falls on his 4th house.
my venus sextile his pluto/his venus semisextile my pluto)

we also have venus/mars skuare and venus/mars semiskuare;sun/mars skuare and sun/mars sextile.

Composite
venus8in 9th)semiskuare pluto(in 3rd)

Davidson
venus(in 1st) oposes pluto(in 3rd)

Natally
JOHN: venus semisextile pluto
ANA: venus sextile pluto

Recently i discovered some aspects that points me as becoming obssessive of him - this is kind of freaking me out cause i do see obssessive behaviour as a bad path to follow hihihi - but lookin on to all these posts,it seems that venus/pluto gives a lot of intensity:thats completelly true,as we also felt that right on the moment on ( and we just have less important aspects in sinastry)!