posted February 12, 2008 09:23 AM              

I am curious how a man with venus in leo and mars in virgo behaves with his GF? his perceptions abt sex, intimacy ...wud he have interest in these at all and how does he express and how to win him over.

posted February 13, 2008 03:26 AM              

Mars in Virgo - this has more to do with how we go about getting things in general. How we defend ourselves, assert ourselves, and take action. In Virgo, Mars is very by-the-rules (I'm not sure what rules he plays by, tho!) Here's a good description (from Kevin Burk):

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Mars in Virgo is peregrine for all but the last 6°. Virgo’s practical nature helps to ground Mars, but Virgo’s obsession with the little details has a tendency to keep Mars occupied with the small stuff rather than with the big picture. Of course, Mars in Virgo will actively defend its position that it’s the details that are really important. Think of Mars in Virgo as Dustin Hoffman in the movie Tootsie: Hoffman plays an actor so obsessed with the little details (such as whether or not a tomato can sit down in a commercial!), that no one wants to work with him. Mars in Virgo is happiest when it is able to be of use – then the energy and drive of Mars is focused on being helpful, and on trying to make the physical world a better place.

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posted February 13, 2008 01:33 PM            

So he'll be serious in relationships and have very high standards. However, aspects to mars can alter this, particularly if it is aspecting a planet with the sign of a dramatic sign like Leo. He'll most likely show his affection by serving you and providing for you.

By having a venus in Leo, he desires a fiery and proud woman who wears stylish clothes and has a regal presence or at the very least he prefers women are bold and exude confidence.

posted February 13, 2008 06:34 PM            

Aww...that's cute! Yeah, some guys can get a little bit possessive even when you're not their girlfriend.

posted February 16, 2008 06:10 AM            

Like I said, the guy I know is a tart (lol!) when he's single and loves that physical gratification, but he also stayed in 2 long term relationships when anyone else would've run screaming. I'm guessing thats the emotional connection.
He's also very sensitive to other's feelings (I think thats the cancer sun) and quite insecure when it comes to woman he actually likes. Something I didn't realise as he's very confident in all other areas (even with his 'casual' flings).

So maybe your cancer will WANT to be the venus in leo in love, but his sensitive cancer sun and reserved virgo mars will hold him back- possibly more loyal and steadfast (taurus moon, cap asc) which in the long run I think will possibly make him rely more on the emotional than physical but maybe in the shortterm he expresses it more physically?