posted October 30, 2008 10:14 AM            

If I find a woman attractive and I get "that" feeling, I know my Sun is Trine her Pluto. I has happened to me about 3 times (where I could check synastry) and it was the Sun-Pluto connection everytime.

It's like my heart skips a beat upon first sight. So what about you guys and girls? Which aspect does it for you?

posted October 30, 2008 10:20 AM              

other ones that for me that have been close, but grow stronger eachtime you see them are venus pluto.

then lastly its between mars venus and mars pluto.

posted October 30, 2008 01:12 PM              

Were there a conjunction, trine or opposition (orb: 2°) between

Sun - Venus
Venus - Venus
Venus - Mars
ASC - Sun
ASC - Venus
ASC - Mars

or even

Sun, Venus and Mars in conjunction / trine / opposition to Uranus, Neptune or Pluto?

(progressed - progressed, and progressed - natal).

posted October 30, 2008 03:34 PM            

What's more is that Pluto always plays an integral part in the Davidson chart as well (i.e. always in the 1st house). Ah, the joys of being Plutonian!

posted October 30, 2008 03:40 PM            

GG- the reason why you like the Sun-Pluto trine is because your Moon is conj Pluto, so latently you are programmed to like the plutonic feel of a woman. Given that your Sun is in Gemini, the lady's Pluto will be in Libra and thus you get the Libran and Plutonic feel from the lady. So in effect, you are indirectly creating something like a Sun-Moon (and Pluto in your case) trine with your Sun such that the lady has her Moon replaced by an equally compatible Pluto. Hope that makes sense.

I think this is a good example as to how natal chart details can influence a person's "love at first sight".

A similar example is that I have Pluto on the DC and I have experienced the Sun-Pluto trine as well, so I might seek this synastry as well. Yes it felt amazing but I also had my Moon conj his Ura, my Venus sextile his Ura. My Ura is also in the 7th. As Roxy Music says: "But I still won't forget the thrill of it all."

posted October 30, 2008 03:48 PM            

darkdreamer - I looked at p.synastry when my SO and I first met, using the orbs you suggested.

p.Asc cnj n.Dsc
p.Venus trine n.Mars

posted October 30, 2008 03:57 PM              

so you are one of these cases that confirm WEstran`s theory perfectly.
I am proud of you. You loved to the astrological rules.

23,

greatly put. It is exactly how I see it (even having in mind that the Pluto-aspects should be tight).

posted October 30, 2008 04:14 PM            

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But I suspect one Pluto-aspect to my Venus is not enough (as it is so generational; the guy would have to have some natal Pluto-aspects, too. But show me someone with hard aspects between Venus and Pluto and Mars and Pluto natally, and I am lost

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Yes I can see your problem with the generational issue and I think you are right in your analysis about need more personal Pluto contacts.

I'm similar to you and I agree with analysing aspects to provide the attraction and to see what you like in the other. I have an attraction (and often quite immediately) to people with hard aspects between Sun and Saturn. My Sun and Saturn oppose each other in my natal chart. Likewise, I have Sun square Ura so it makes for an interesting mix if the person can replicate that for me. Otherwise, I tend to attract fatally and immediately men with hard aspects between Uranus and/or Venus/Moon.

I think also important is the instant familiarity that Jane talked about. That might be things like Moon in aspect to the nodes, otherwise something like common aspects between people in their natal chart or replication of planets through 1st and 7th.

Eg, yes I'm sorry, had to do it again

Me: Mars in Gemini (which is my chart ruler). Of course Mars describes partially (with Sun) the type of man I seek.
My Mars: opp Neptune, trine Moon/Pluto, sextile Jupiter/ASC

JT: Mars in Aries (his chart ruler), his Mars aspects: trine Jupiter, trine Pluto, opp Neptune but also conj sextile Sun/Venus.

I have Moon in 7th, he has Moon in 1st. I seek a male that might be Martian in appearance (Mars sextile ASC) but also Gemini, he is a Gemini and Mars in Aries in 1st. I have Libra DC, he has Sun-Venus conj. I could go on further

I think this is a good example of the more subtle applications of synastry and what we are looking for. However, the impact on me seeing for the first was immediate, I've never been floored in my life by a picture before.

posted October 30, 2008 04:30 PM              

yes, those parallels and complimentary connections in the natals are pretty amazing.

I have a similiar thing in my synastry with Jude.

Me: Sun in Sagittarius, Venus in Capricorn
Him: Sun in Cappy, Venus in Sagittarius

Me: ASC conjunct Mars and Neptune
Him: ASC conjunct Venus and Neptune

Me: Venus square Pluto
Him: Sun square Pluto and Mars in Scorpio

As we have this ASC-ASC-conjunction and have been born in neighbour signs, most of our planets are spread in the same houses which gets repeated in the synastry

Him: Sun, Mercury, Venus and Neptune in 1st house
Me: Sun, Mercury, Venus and Neptune in 1st house
- and of course having those planets in each other`s 1st house

Him: Mars in 12th house
Me: Mars in 12th house
- synastrically Mars in each other`s 12th house

And so on, I guess you can speak of astrological familiarity here