posted May 02, 2008 04:31 PM         

I have been reading this forum for a while and thanks to you guys I've learnt a lot about astrology! But I am still a newbie and would really love to get some help with interpreting this synastry. It is of myself and my boss. We were born in the same small town and we've known each other since when I was a child, but we've only been working together for two years, in the shop he owns. We have a good relationship overall, it's easily the best work experience I have had so far. Let me add that I am happily married and that I am not interested in my boss in a romantic way, but I think our relationship is much deeper and much more complicated than it looks... hopefully you guys will help me to understand more about it, and about him too, especially considering how hard he always tries not to show too much of himself.
I am very interested in that Pluto/Vertex-Moon/NN conjunction, if it should be considered even if it's out of sign orb and how it could eventually manifest.
I added a few asteroids as well because I thought their aspects could be of some interest (my Karma conjunct his Sun and his Karma trine my Sun, for instance).

Sorry for my bad English and sorry if I asked too many questions! Thanks in advance to all those who will help me.

posted May 03, 2008 05:53 PM         

Yes, he is married, but things aren't going well between him and his wife. I suspect they will divorce soon.
You are right, he is a very serious person, at least when it comes to work (not sure in his private life... ahem). He's an aerial installer and he's out for the most part of the day, so I am usually on my own in the shop. I think he trusts me completely when it comes to taking care of his shop, otherwise he wouldn't leave me alone for so many hours. He is indeed a bit harsher to customer than I am, but he certainly knows how to deal with them. He always looks calm and has a lot of patience... he definitely learnt to hide his emotions very well! Although I can usually tell what mood he's in only at a glance... there are days when he still hasn't said a single word and I already know if he's feeling OK or not. I read somewhere that it could be the effect of my Moon on his first house, not sure if this is correct though. This placement should also make him feel protective of me and I think this is true also. We definitely understand each other instinctively, without having to say a thing, which at first I thought was very odd, considering how different we are. I also think our relationship is spiritual in nature, I always felt it was predestined in some way. In our composite chart, we have an exact Moon/Neptune conjunction in the ninth house, widely conjunct (5 degrees) our composite north node. Some sites say that Moon conjunct Neptune is a bad aspect to have, but I always felt that in our case it's just a confirmation that ours is a spiritual union. I am posting the composite chart, just in case you'd like to have a look and see if it confirms what you already saw in our synastry.

Thanks again, Quinnie! Your help is much appreciated.

posted May 04, 2008 10:38 AM         

This relationship is certainly important as far as I'm concerned. My work experiences have always been pretty bad and this is the first time in my life that I feel satisfied with my job. Not everything is perfect, of course, but overall I can't really complain. He's a boss everyone would probably want to have, he forgives almost everything to me, even when I make silly mistakes (I have concentration issues and at times can't focus properly on what I am doing). I have been told it could be because of his Jupiter in aspect to my Venus, but the trine is a bit large so I honestly don't know. But he also gets on my nerves very often, when he's in a bad mood it's impossible to even talk to him.