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posted June 25, 2008 02:27 PM         

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I had a falling out with this cancer guy I am dating, It was over a girl and he said not to call him, and when i deliberately call or text him, he calls me to say "didnt I tell You not to call me?". What should I do? I relly like this guy and would want to feel his love, and i am capricorn, who just wants things to go smoothly

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posted June 25, 2008 02:38 PM         

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Don't call him? He doesn't want you to ~ unless he doesn't really mean it and is playing games. If that's the case, given you like things to go smoothly that should be a warning light.

Any more chart details? I wonder if Pluto is involved somewhere.

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posted June 25, 2008 03:44 PM         

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Well I tried not to call him, but i test if he would answer,and he answers everytime. I told hime to ignore the call the, he said "the phone is noisy", if the call cuts off he calls back untill i answer just to tell me to stop calling

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posted June 25, 2008 03:54 PM         

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Yeah you should chill on trying to contact him and if he wants to seek you out after some time then he will..He has his reasons for telling you not to contact him respect that and yourself..

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posted June 25, 2008 04:03 PM         

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Ok, then. The funny part is he still wants his birthday gift.

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posted June 26, 2008 08:33 AM         

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as far as i understnd , he wants you to call .period!

the next question is he playing games?
that is be difficult to answer , may be he is , may be he is not! it can be decided by the tone only.

btw, i have my doubts about his integrity .
did you guys have a very serious relation earlier ?

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posted June 26, 2008 09:22 AM         

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In response to cancerrg-We going out for 4 months, i been to the house, spend the weekends, he comes to mine, sleep etc. His family tells me he talks about me and wait for for me to call, then 2 weeks before the falling out he asked if we having a fling or what? I side track the question cause I didnt know waht to say, then i told hime we taking it one day at a time.....I havent contacted hime since the day after the argument and i found out today I am pregnant and I am afraid to tell him, so i told his brother

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posted June 26, 2008 09:28 AM         

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Hello and Welcome to LL Red Rose

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posted June 26, 2008 09:32 AM         

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Thank You Lindaland, can u honestly give me some insight based on waht I wrote from top to present.

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posted June 26, 2008 11:22 AM         

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WHO had a fling, you and him or you and somebody else?
Yep, he definitely wants you to call. Like she said, whether it's because he wants you or he just wants to look like the stud with this girl still calling him is another question. Believe me, they do that. It's probably more common with cancerians but I know a certain pain the in a-s Capricorn who has been known to do it too so...

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posted June 26, 2008 11:34 AM         

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He asked if we were having a fling, as i said i told him we taking it one day at a time. As for the pregnancy, i dont know what to do, he dosent have any kids yet and i have a 5 yr old

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posted June 26, 2008 08:50 PM         

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Wow, I was going to say be careful that he doesn't set you up for a telephone harassment charge but I guess you will definitely be in contact now.

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posted June 26, 2008 08:59 PM         

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Are you going to bring another child into the world with no father??

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posted June 27, 2008 09:06 AM         

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Nope Azakalash, I spoke with him told him Im not bring it

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posted June 27, 2008 09:07 AM         

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I hope you guys are able to have a REAL discussion before you decide anything final.

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posted June 27, 2008 09:09 AM         

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The child is in the world already. You just make a decision like that with so little thought. If this is even the case that you're pregnant, and I'm beginning to doubt that...

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posted June 27, 2008 09:14 AM         

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Honestly I have thought a lot about this, and i do not what to have that maternal attachment, this guy dissed me by inviting a girl he met 3 weeks prior to his birthday, to a party and she started asking me questions and by talking I found out, he is interested in her. I think that is total disrespect, he then gets mad at me. That mean he dosent want me, he is freaking player, why would i want to bring his child ALONE!!!!

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posted June 27, 2008 10:40 AM         

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Red Rose I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. It is hard to bring up children without their fathers or a good solid father figure in their lives for that matter. However, I just wanted to say that no one is ever "alone". I truly believe that everything happens for a purpose, and that all children are a blessing. It is up to you to decide what you are going to do, however I do think that you and this guy should sit down face to face and have a good conversation, since I'm sure he heard about this pregnancy through his brother instead of you, he is most likely hurt about that. Even though he is the one giving you the brush off. So pray first, then have a conversation with this guy, then make your final decision.
God Bless

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