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posted July 06, 2008 12:13 PM         

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What are your thoughts and personal experiences with Venus-Neptune aspects?

With someone, their Venus conjuncts my Neptune closely in Sag. That person also has a Venus-Neptune conjunction nataly (which my neptune conjuncts their Venus-Neptune conjunction).

Ive read the usual cafeastrology and interprets from other sites. I'm interested in your personal thoughts, ideas, and experiences.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon (conjunct Pluto 0º in 2nd house)
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posted July 06, 2008 01:06 PM         

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Hi GG

Venus/neptune is magical... if it's conjunct/trine or quincunx and within 3 degree orb.

It's romantic, spiritual and binding... l think this combination can make one keep falling in love with the person you share it with

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posted July 06, 2008 01:33 PM         

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I agree with Lara - it's magical. This aspect may make you fall in love with someone who you didn't consider attractive in the beggining of the relationhip - then all of sudden you realise- you are madly in love with them. Its that magical.
You wouldn't mind sacrifising your old habits, old life, old friends for this one. Its like your first love - pure.
Usually the partner with the natal Venus/Neptune aspect will start working his/her way with you and before you realise it - you are in with both your feet and you want more and more.
(Sorta taking the fun pill *ecstasy*)
After a while, the relationship usually gets drown in disillusionments and too high expectations.

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posted July 06, 2008 01:36 PM         

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i have that conjunction natally. i must say it's pretty much terrible, in the sense i have an overly romantic view on what relationships can do.

every single affair for me, i think that it will turn my life around 180 degrees and it will change me forever. i'm not the sort of person who takes weeks and months to initiate a relationship. when i meet someone who clicks, i find myself in his bed the next morning. also even when the relationship is obviously ending, and even if it is myself who's feeling is dying, i still have this unrealistic vision that something like a miracle will descend to us and change everything. even though i know in the head that's not happening. and i feel stupid. inevitably the fall is harsh too when my head's always in the clouds like this.

it's a problem.

i also had this aspect with my first boyfriend who i was with for 4+ years. and another long-distant boyfriend. both had their neptune conjunct my venus/neptune. the first one was a very nice comfortable relationship but wasn't that romantic. we were very close though. the second one was disastrous, because combined with the fact that it was long-distant (and to top that he was a pisces), our romantic imaginations grew without the content and it became an empty relationship filled with lies.

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posted July 06, 2008 01:51 PM         

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lechien,

i have this aspect natally too. it's a 10 orb (conjunction) but their exact midpoint is my ascendant!! so i think my view of the world is incredibly naive, over-idealized and romantic!! ahhhhh..

i agree with what you wrote.

on the upside, i think our energy is inspiring. i find almost all my exes end up wanting to be with me again, after a few years, and it is our lovingness and magical sense of the world and of love that they miss. i think it's that we can fuse spirituality with love, and see their truest selves.. (we are all love at the core) so while they fail to meet this vision we have, in reality, and the result is disappointing for both people, there's also a recognition of this higher potential that occurs and benefits everyone. i think the illusion, or the downside, is in believing love can and will vanquish all problems in an immediate sense, but it IS truly magical because love is the most important thing. so i think we need to be careful who we love and to not expect too much.

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posted July 07, 2008 12:17 AM         

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So, who is affected and how? How does the Venus person feel and how does the Neptune person feel? Does it work both ways?

My Moon in Libra is exact sextile my Neptune natally. Whats the influence there? Both our moons sextile our Neptunes 2 and 3 degrees applying (Moon sextile Neptune double whammy).

So Neptune is all about idealism? Do you guys think some idealism is necessary for a love relationship? Lara and jezzebel, I like that interpret as I can definitely relate.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon (conjunct Pluto 0º in 2nd house)
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posted July 07, 2008 01:28 AM         

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My ex bf has his Venus conjunct my Neptune orb 1s. I think he felt the illusion first. Coupled with Gemini moon, he kept switching back and forth with love and illusion. As I saw him invalidate the "love" we had, I concluded that it was not real love too. We still love (and probably a bit of hate lolz JK) each other but are not in love with each other.

I see the matter of heart quite black and white though...
-Ms Neptune

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posted July 07, 2008 03:10 AM         

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I like my Venus/Neptune conjunction in Sag in the 7th. Neptune sextiles my Virgo Moon and Libran Pluto in the 5th. I think that group of energy is very creative.

Romantically, I'd concur that it creates a bit of a blind spot, and being a "blind spot" I don't exactly know the remedy for it. I do know that I can be highly content even in the absense of a relationship, though, so I don't worry about it too much.

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posted July 07, 2008 03:15 AM         

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Oh gosh, I have Venus(3rd house) square Neptune(6th house) in my natal chart and I have a hard time seeing peoples true intentions or motivations. All to often I just want to see the good in everyone, but thats put me in situations where I feel duped and taken advantage of. I am constantly trying to keep focus on what is and what isn't to my benefit...and romantic wise I've set myself up for heartache more times than I care to admit.

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Mars in Cancer
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posted July 07, 2008 04:46 AM         

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heart cakes, yea i agree with you. i used to be VERY idealistic and also optimistic in the matters of love. i REALLY believed that with love, i could mend everything and cure everyone. i thought the real love waited for me one after another.

i guess i sounded a bit pessimistic above because i've been through and i'm disillusioned... yea i used to be all love at the core and i felt that i could not live a second without love. but i've been without love for so long, and in the meantime i got hurt and burnt and don't want to believe in it anymore.

anyway. i hope i feel the way i used to again.

i'd think technically, the venus person who is touched by neptune would be affected more, but since i'm already super affected by my own neptune so i can't tell whether it's me or their neptune though!

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posted July 07, 2008 04:48 AM         

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aw, but your view that others love our magical lovingness makes me feel sweet.my neptune/venus conjunction is also close to my ascendant (7 degrees). maybe i should keep my optimism up.

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posted July 07, 2008 10:51 AM         

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My husband has a natal T-Square with Neptune at its apex. It sits one degree away from my Ascendant. It's part of a Grand Cross, including Venus Opposite Neptune. True love, that.

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posted July 07, 2008 10:53 AM         

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I subsribe to 100% to what LIBRASCHOICE7 has written. I also have Venus (9th house) square Neptune (1st house) - and it is the aspect I've come to like least in my chart. It all starts with high hopes/strong idealization and enthusiasm ... and sooner or later comes down to earth (delusion) with a bump. Not always does this imply "heartache" immediately - but there is ALWAYS some rectification necessary.

I want to add a very small positive trait to this aspect as well: I have the feeling that the Venus-Neptune-combo in my chart MIGHT help as far as my personal "allure" goes ... I mean: People tend to see what they want to see in me, and obviously I am able to exude a rather "mystical" image from time to time ... There had been times in my life when I even was able to take advantage from that. But currently I rather see it as hindering - because it also makes me "difficult to grab/difficult to approach", I guess. People ... tend to mistrust me, sometimes, and currently I have the feeling that they perceive a "hidden agenda" where there is none!!! ;-)

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posted July 07, 2008 11:01 AM         

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i also get that "mysterious" thing as well. i didn't really understand it because i have my ascendant neptune venus sun in sagittarius, moon in aries and mars in leo, and i'd think what i'd lack would exactly be that mysterious allure. but i can see that people must get that from my neptune conjunct ascendant, beside it's also conjunct venus. makes sense.

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posted July 07, 2008 07:19 PM         

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i have this aspect with my cat her venus conjuncts my neptune and i am obsessed with her lol i am meowing and purring more than her and lost in her eyes verrryy dreamy and i see stars hehhehehe (very true)

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