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Topic: Loss of birth family and hello orphanhood :D
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Inner depths
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posted July 24, 2006 08:54 PM
 
I figure with how things are heading in my life, eventually the family that I came from and myself will no longer be in contact. We have drifted apart so badly that there is nothing that can salvage relationships. (North node in the 10th?)My mom's highest priority his her hubby and then his life, his kids and what he wants to do with his life. At the moment I could care less that she even be a part of my life and her granddaughter's life. If she chooses against blood family, then she surely deserves to lose us. it's like her saying that we don't count that much in her life and chooses to blame her hubby for how things are. I have talked to a few professionals about my mother woes and they are just down right disgusted that a woman would choose over her offspring. They don't like my mom. I kind of figure that things were meant to be and I proudly say now that I'm an orphan. I know this is kind of harsh for a cancer moon to say - cause our mom's mean a lot to us or not. This one is quickly going out my door soon. I surely don't like being treated as being a disposible person and that is not what I want for my daughter. I think it is far important that my child get to know the ones who geniunly want to spend time with her and get to know her. ID IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted July 24, 2006 09:12 PM
I am a Cancer moon too and it's not unusual to hear these things in my own head, I feel mothers ought to take care of their birth children first, it's a natural instinct but mother's do not live up to our expectations.Going your own way sounds best for now, someday she may change her mind but you don't have to. Natasha
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Inner depths
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posted July 26, 2006 04:41 PM
i think possibly with my moon in cancer - my "former" mother was up on a pedestal. Ugh.ID IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted July 31, 2006 01:36 AM
Inner -I do not recall if you were the one who had either their Cancer Moon Opposite something in Capricorn in your Natal, or if you had a Moon Opposing Saturn in your Natal. I'm a Cancer Mooner too, and I have a really harsh T-Square which pulls apart my Moon/Saturn Opposition as if it were Olive Oil between Popeye & Brutus. Orphan? I can house a whole new family with these outstretched arms of mine now. ------------------
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posted July 31, 2006 04:02 AM
Another Cancer moon here..... I feel that the cancer moon placing represents the mother (or father) you'll BE as well as (and if not more than) the mother you'll HAVE.
I have a very up and down/love/hate relationship with my own mother. I don't think the cancer moon placing nesessarily means good relations with the mother as astrologers often think - I think it means they will be SIGNIFICANT, for good or bad, you know profound, affecting us greatly.Personally I would die for my two kids. They come before my hubby, before any living person. Nothing will change that. That's how a mother's love should be. Iner depths I feel your issue. My mother chose many a man/lifestyle over us four kids. I practically brought my little sisters and brother up. But I kinda forgive her. When I'm not in a bad mood yes, I love her and forgive her. ------------------
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Inner depths
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posted March 10, 2009 08:50 PM
Back to being an orphan...yeah my mom seems to be one huge disappointment and I strongly dread being her child.....It's like winning a home and finding you won a dilapidated shack with a rat infestation and roach problem......I just got tired of feeling awful and still going through atuff...... In my Draco chart, T Saturn conj my 4th house Pluto IP: Logged |
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posted March 14, 2009 09:44 PM
I wouldn't care so much in your position.
What is her involvement in your family? If she's sucked into her love with her partner or whatever, it doesn't sound like she's trying to be part of your family.. So I don't know where you're coming from.IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted March 15, 2009 02:21 PM
Inner Depths, l feel for you. I am in the same situation. I have zero relationship with my family and l bring up 3 boys all by myself. I know now that my relationship with members of my family will never mend nd l now accept it; forgive them and let it go. It's really sad though. 2 of my kids have never met their grandparents  Hugs, a fellow orphan x IP: Logged |
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