posted September 02, 2008 08:45 PM         

I am fascinated by synastry astrology last 3 months and I calculated a lot of my previous girl friends and potential future girl friends as well :-) I like the idea that I can see what is the other person thinking and feeling about me before it becomes serious.

I was wondering - do you think we could use it in an opposite way and simply calculate such days when 'good' partners were born around us? Because aspects between planets usually last for at least a day... and many miles around place that you enter as your possible partner's born place. I know, houses change everything and they move fast, but still... that day is born a lot of people and some of them in the 'right time' for sure.

Now, we have some webpages where people register using their full date and time and place of born and can be filtered by these. So I can find several girls born that day, choose the most beautiful one and try to make contact. You know how easy it is with girls, when you start to speak about stars, Destiny, fate love, things like that... ;-} ( some boys play guitar / build muscles to impress girls, I chose astrology ;-D )

My question is - can this work? Is it possible that two people that meet this way and for this purpose will easily start a nice relationship, no matter that it was not lucky accident that brought them together? Am I 'raping Destiny', breaking without permission into other people's life stories? Or is it ok, because person that I meet this way I HAD to meet anyway?

Because you can calculate hundreds of people having very nice synastry with you but ...love is a weird thing. Is there some 'love factor' that separates the two or three people you will fall into a deep love with in your life from these hundreds of potential partners? Can this factor be seen in horoscope? What is it?

BTW I found this way one girl that I am going to meet. She told me that she is quite interested in finding the right partner by stars and that is why she joined that web site (accident?! :-). However, she does not understand astrology. This is our synastry, what do you think about it (outer ring is mine)? Notice her Moon in close conjunction with my Sun+Venus, my Moon in her 7th house, conjunction of ascendants, her Venus square my Neptune (telling us that this poor girl will probably feel me as her dream partner and is going to neglect or tolerate my faults... sweet) :-}

posted September 02, 2008 09:13 PM         

Look in your natal chart at your 11th house ruler and your 7th house ruler.
The 7th is your partner. The 11th is the birth of your partner...5th from the 7th.

Look for when your 11th (or his/her 5th in your chart) ruler is aspecting itself and/or aspecting the 7th house ruler.
The type of aspect will determine how strong it is. Conjunction obviously being the best.

Should work both ways to make the theory perfect.

As an example, Your 11th house has Capricorn on the cusp therefore Saturn you need to look at. When Saturn makes a decent aspect to itself in transit, that is the placement you need to look for. The return (conjunction) is the best which means someone your age or 30 years older/younger.

Thing to remember is that many people can have this combination with you, so while it indicates a good marriage/longterm partnership, other configurations in the synastry can play a part.

If you havent got many long term couples to try it on, use your Mum and Dad as examples.
Mum is 4th house, 8th house is birth of Mum (5th from 4th)
Dad is 10th house, 2nd house is birth of Dad (5th from 10th)

posted September 03, 2008 01:52 AM         

Mars is the ruler of my 11th (Aries), Jupiter is the ruler of my 7th (Sag). Natally, Mars trines Jupiter and is in mutual reception. So... how does this help me find my partner? Should I be on the look out for when transiting Mars trines my Jupiter (and vice versa?)

posted September 03, 2008 02:03 AM         

When i am not happy with my synastry or composite with someone, i always go back to this quote:

There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently sweet that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or
immaturity cannot turn it sour.

There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently bitter that enough patience, devotion, and humility can
not only make it last, but make it something precious to both people. (by Steven Forrest)

posted September 03, 2008 02:13 AM         

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Sun.. Cancer

Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

posted September 03, 2008 07:26 AM         

If it isn't going to hurt anyone else, then maybe it is worth a try? It's as good a method of meeting people as anything else so good luck to you.

I wouldn't bother personally. I'd rather do things the opposite way around ~ meet people, work on gut instincts, and use astrology as a guide to understanding other people and ultimately to improving relationships.

Just my view, but unless you have two people willing to make an effort to make a relationship work the stars can say what they like. There is no magic wand, and waiting for it to wave is a waste of time.

p.s

Unless you have an accurate time of birth the brakes will be slammed on house analysis, and possibly the Moon to boot. This frequently happens when I have an astro-snoop on English born friends. But you will still get some useful info, it depends on how you use it.

p.p.s

What is happening to the outer Moon on this synastry chart? It looks somewhat isolated. I can't work out if it is connected to an angle, maybe I am reading this chart badly.

posted September 03, 2008 08:30 AM         

With your Mums birth, it is ruled by the Moon. Look at your Mums Moon position (natally) and see if it aspects your Moon (and/or your 10th ruler for mother)
Its just like you are predicting birth, but not of a child as such, but your Mum/Dad/Partner.

posted September 03, 2008 08:35 AM         

I run transits for my natal to my Mums birthday....
My second house is Neptune ruled and my 10th is Pluto ruled.

Transit Neptune is conjunct natal Pluto exact by minutes. Transit Pluto is trine natal Neptune exact by minutes.
Neptune is also sextile Neptune.

If I wanted to do the same for a future partner, I look to my 11th, which is Jupiter ruled. Therefore I look for someone with the same Jupiter as me. Same age or 12 years older/younger.
Any more questions?

posted September 03, 2008 09:25 AM         

Sunshine, if you are looking for a partner, look to your 11th house and your 7th house rulers. 11th - Neptune, 7th - Pluto.
Look for transit aspects to Neptune from Neptune and/or from transit Neptune to Pluto.

Neptune moves back and forth quite a bit, so it likely the person will be roughly the same age as you. Millions of people even.
So look for someone with Neptune at 14 Scorpio, which is conjunct that Neptune, but also sextile Pluto. If you find that and a combination of Pluto at 17 Virgo, that is ideal, but I dont think that combination happens with that Neptune/Pluto cycle.

Add to that your 7th house ruler which is Pluto. You find someone with their 7th house ruler conjunct yours.
1st step, look for someone with Neptune at 14 about 14.42 Scorpio.
2nd step, find someone with their 7th ruler conjunct yours and any other house rulers which are important.

posted September 03, 2008 09:53 AM         

Each of the 12 signs has a planet ruling it. Some have more than one ruler:

Aries is ruled by Mars
Taurus is ruled by VENUS
Gemini is ruled by MERCURY
Cancer is ruled by Moon
Leo is ruled by Sun
Virgo is ruled by MERCURY
Libra is ruled by VENUS
Scorpio is ruled by Pluto
Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter
Capricorn is ruled by Saturn
Aquarius is ruled by Uranus
Pisces is ruled by Neptune

Write that down Kris, it will become very useful to know by memory.

The 12 lines you see on a natal chart are called houses. At the left hand hand is the 1st house and then the 2nd, 3rd, 4th...all in order till it gets to the 12th house.
You should notice a sign on each of the houses, or to put it another way, a sign which each of the lines falls into.

For your chart above (as an example) the 1st house (one of the left) is in the sign of Taurus.
If you look at the ruler for Taurus (above) you will see that the sign of Taurus is ruled by the planet VENUS.

Your 2nd house is is in the sign of Gemini.
If you look at ruler of Gemini, you will see that Gemini is ruled by the planet MERCURY.

This is what I mean about house rulers.
Just forget what house the planet is in and concentrate on what sign is on the house cusp and what planet rules that sign.

Your 9th house has Capricorn on there (or "on the cusp" to use the correct phrase) which means the planet ruling your 9th house is Saturn.

posted September 03, 2008 10:05 AM         

This is an example of what you should look for. This is a proposed date of when a potential partner could be born. If you look at transits to your natal, you will see (his) Neptune is sextile (your natal) Pluto.

Or basically your 11th house ruler, Neptune, is making a transit to your natal Neptune.
The 11th house because that is your birth of your partner.

posted September 03, 2008 10:08 AM         

Its hard to understand when you get into it and can be harder to explain on a basic level.

posted September 03, 2008 10:11 AM         

ruled by pluto...no wonder.

posted September 03, 2008 10:24 AM         

Because Pluto rules your 7th, as Scorpio is on the cusp, the 7th house is all about Pluto.

Your relationships/partner (7th) involves manipulation/power games (Pluto) with dating/children (5th house)

More ways to look at it than that.

If you look at the chart I put above, each sign is colour coded with the planet it rules, to make it easier to find.
Taurus and Libra are both ruled by Venus and Gemini/Virgo are both ruled by Mercury.