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Topic: Synastry - Hot to trot?
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spunknini
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From: Sydney NSW, Australia
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 07:22 AM
 
ok here is the ultimate question that I never wanted the answer to because if the news was bad then I didnt know category  Can this work for us long term? please be kind but blunt.  ------------------
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PeaceAngel
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From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 07:49 AM
I hope you don't mind me posting your chart from astro.com. I just found the glyphs on the one you posted were hard to read on my computer - they keep moving around the more I try to focus on them. The astro one is easier to read. If you are offended just say and I'll pull this one down. I added the vertex as you have both birth times. They are trine. Vertex denotes fated meetings - and it is trine is a favourable aspect - so you were fated to be drawn together for some reason.  IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 07:52 AM
Do you work together? Or meet through work - his work, maybe?His Saturn is on your Moon - so do you feel he's authoritarian at times? But he is a little older too - but that can also show that that's what makes you feel secure too. Or you could find him emotionally restrictive? IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 07:56 AM
Oh, look at that mars/pluto double whammie - each other's pluto trine each other's mars. Lots of passion and magnetism. Very very deep, very very intense feelings.IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
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posted September 30, 2008 07:58 AM
Your Pluto on his MC and his Pluto trine your North Node - you two come together to grow - transform each other - maybe even transcend something.IP: Logged |
writesomething
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From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted September 30, 2008 08:01 AM
is he married? or newly divorced?IP: Logged |
spunknini
Knowflake Posts: 261
From: Sydney NSW, Australia
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:02 AM
Bless you PeaceAngel, your changes were fine & I would never be offended at someone trying to help me, Thanks.As to your questions well we met briefly for the first time in 92' I went for a holiday to see relatives in the USA & we have been crossing paths on and off over the years but only briefly - but when we do touch base we have this amazing connection just by being in each others presence but nothing romantic has happened as it would be a major sacrifice for either one of us but when we meet ever so briefly there is so much that goes unsaid but understood & I know if I gave the go ahead well it would be on baby!!! Plus for me personally the age difference is well to be honest on my part attractive even as a child I have been attracted to much older men, am I ill?
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PeaceAngel
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From: Australia
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posted September 30, 2008 08:02 AM
LOL writesomething - i was wondering if he's married too. Just wasn't blunt enough to ask - but since you have. I'm a disgrace to my Mercury in Aries.IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
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From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:06 AM
No - not ill - it's just who we are attracted to for whatever reason. There's a security in older men. I don't find younger men attractive (well, Christian Bale is the ONLY exception) and men close to my age I find not as mature or as secure in themselves as would be right for me. So I understand that.IP: Logged |
spunknini
Knowflake Posts: 261
From: Sydney NSW, Australia
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:08 AM
To writesomething...Well he was married briefly (3 years) but took ten years in total to divorce (1998 I think) it is his only marriage, since then he has floated from girl to girl to girl seeking something or someone in particular. ------------------
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spunknini
Knowflake Posts: 261
From: Sydney NSW, Australia
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:13 AM
um can you tell me PeaceAngel, what gives you the indication of him being married in the chart? is it an aspect of some sort? this is handy if true because so many men lie about that.------------------
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PeaceAngel
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From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:22 AM
The thing with him being married, for me, was intuitive - just the feeling that there's just something that's right, but can't be about this relationship. Someone is unavailable in some way. Or the timing is off so like when one is free the other isn't. He feels taken in some way.IP: Logged |
spunknini
Knowflake Posts: 261
From: Sydney NSW, Australia
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:27 AM
oh you are sooooo right about that feeling, I have to say that even if we were to go with our feelings I would be his mistress because he is married to his work - he is an artist very talented & dedicated. He travels a great deal so I wouldnt see much of him to be sure. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:31 AM
His Venus, Sun and North Node are all in Libra (the sign of partnerships) in his 10th house of career - so yeah - that fits astrologically. Interesting that your Pluto is conjunct his MC though - you could transform that. But then, he could resent you for it.I'd really like DarkDreamer to look at your charts. I will find her for you and direct her here. She is so so smart - and brilliant with synastry. IP: Logged |
spunknini
Knowflake Posts: 261
From: Sydney NSW, Australia
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:36 AM
Pluto conjunct MC sounds ominous to me - but couldn't I bring change in a good way? IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:38 AM
He'd have to be open to it. You said before he's looking for someone or something. You think/feel it may be you?IP: Logged |
spunknini
Knowflake Posts: 261
From: Sydney NSW, Australia
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:44 AM
ok here goes......YES YES YES I feel it everytime we meet, we have these moments where everything else fades & all we seem to do is stare into each others eyes for eternity yet it's only been seconds, do you know what I mean? so much goes on but so little is said & to be honest part of me is scared of the intensity. ------------------
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PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:53 AM
Yes, I know that feeling/sensation - where everything around you just dissolves and it's like you are the only two people anywhere in any time. So, if you can be with this person - then how come you're not? Or just waiting for the right time?IP: Logged |
spunknini
Knowflake Posts: 261
From: Sydney NSW, Australia
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 08:59 AM
Well as u can guess time is not a luxury that we have much of and I am biding my time & not jumping into something like a lunatic as I used to when I was younger & more exuberant. I have a young child to add to this equation & I just cant throw a step parent in here willy nilly - he has had enought to deal with in his 7 years on this planet - abusive father etc & my protective instincts override all romantic feelings I have for any man no matter how wonderful scared out of my mind I might feel, plus there is a part of me that will not relinquish my "freedom" willingly, I can't help it & that drives me nuts, typical Libra confused and at war with ones self lol. ------------------
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PeaceAngel
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From: Australia
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posted September 30, 2008 09:03 AM
That's completely understandable. I fully understand the protective parent thing. Very very much so. And I must admit too - that if I wasn't with my husband - if we parted for whatever reason - having someone else would be the last thing on my mind - I'd relish the freedom completely. It's funny how your priorities change - when you're younger it seems that love and romance is the be-all of life and then you are with someone and yourself and freedom are restricted and you just want to have that time for yourself and your own things. Hard to give up when you've battled so hard to attain it in the first place.IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 09:09 AM
I love the way you said that peace angel.IP: Logged |
spunknini
Knowflake Posts: 261
From: Sydney NSW, Australia
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 09:11 AM
How very true PeaceAngel, my Venus is in Scorpio, I love deeply & passionately, when I fall I give myself completely if I trust that person but oh the pain of letting go is worse than death even if the relationship is bad for you & having been through this once I am not sure I can trust enough to do it again, I need a guarantee this time - & I have to walk into a relationship with my eyes open wide. I have learnt the hard way not to mess with my heart because it bites back. oh ps thank you for trying to get your friend to look at our chart, I didn't say that to you before, so sorry. ------------------
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PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 09:19 AM
I hear what you're saying about your heart biting back and being afraid. The thing about love is that if you don't give it the chance and open up for it - you miss out in it completely. Unfortunately, it's one of those all or nothing areas in life. And with his divorce, Peter would be feeling exactly the same way.IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 09:19 AM
wow sunshine_lion - thank you.
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spunknini
Knowflake Posts: 261
From: Sydney NSW, Australia
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 30, 2008 09:31 AM
Yes you are right there PeaceAngel & I do admit to a great deal of fear, I used to be so brave or foolhardy depending on your perspective & now & am the complete opposite & if I was honest with myself I would admit that I am aware of how fragile I have become or truly always have been. So perhaps I might take a look at his chart in synastry with my son's & that might give me some peace of mind because I think I might be using my son as a shield so to speak. oh I have so gone and depressed myself & probably you too PeaceAngel. Smack me quick!!------------------
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