Posts: 87
From: mo,usa
Registered: Sep 2002

posted March 31, 2003 05:38 PM         

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Hi !
Today I found the strength to speak to my husband about ending the marriage. We had a very brief marriage 7 days but I was so violated all the times that I had been with him, that I hated him. He wanted a compromise becuase of the social impact I say this becuase if he had loved me he would not do these things in the first place.
I always wonder why did I wait all these years to get married to the wrong guy??? well! i didn't expect a wonderful marriage but i did dream of a person who would respect and love me.

Now i feel very peaceful. I know life would be different once I become a divorcee but then life was never easy so I guess I will live.

nikky

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From: England
Registered: Jan 2002

posted March 31, 2003 06:01 PM         

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Nikky

I'm glad you feel peaceful. Life is strange and sometimes hard with it's twists and turns but I am a huge believer in the fact that everything happens for a reason and we then will move on to better and happier times.
Sue

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posted March 31, 2003 10:29 PM           

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Love and Light to you Nikky

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From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003

posted April 01, 2003 12:25 AM         

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yay Nicky that is so awesome. I am so proud of you. Please be strong because when any door closes another opens. I am here for you if you need to chat as well. When I broke up with my boyfriend it was very difficult for me and I had (thankfully) so much support and I know how much it helps

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From: mo,usa
Registered: Sep 2002

posted April 01, 2003 06:24 PM         

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thanks a bunch for the support , i knew i could count on you guys

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