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Total Pieces
Knowflake

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From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Dec 2001

posted April 26, 2005 07:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
Hello Everyone...

It has been along time...for those of you who may remember...still in love with the Leo but he has moved away and has pulled away...long story...he'll be back and he is always there...yep one of thooooose relationships...

Ok just want some opinions...I don't get along with Scorpio Men....I say Men because Scorpio Women and I do just fine. My boss is a Scorpio and I adore him but his office is on the other side of the buliding. We grate on each other but he likes me too so when he is mad and is close to firing me he just avoids me until he's calmed down (I'm not kidding...it works though....I'm still employed )

Anyway...there is another man I work with he made a bit of a propostion after he realized that the Leo wasn't coming home (I mean back...you see where my head is) anyway I pushed the issue...basically asking how he felt about and exclusively physical relationship...thinking I would scare the Scoripon...duh!!!!(There was a lot of back and forth over a few months...outside of work...he is also an actor and I had seen a few of his shows...)

We have now moved into this 'physical' relationship and the sex is out of this world. Intersting because I am not in love with him. This is the first relationship like this I've had. I see why women and men take lovers...I am doing everything I can not to fall for him...but you know how that goes...

So should I let go emotionally or guard my heart a bit...(betcha can't tell I'll a Libra...)

By the way everyone is an adult he's 30 and I am 37...no kids, ex wives or husbands...no hanky panky at work...

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Gooberzlostlovefound
Knowflake

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From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
Registered: Jan 2002

posted April 26, 2005 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Hmmmm....

I'm going to chew on that for a while.

I'll get back to you.

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future_uncertain
Knowflake

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From: ohio
Registered: Aug 2004

posted April 26, 2005 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
What does he think? Has he given you any indication that he would like to take things further?

I see you're in a bit of a dilemma since the situation was presented as a purely physical thing. Are you clear on your feelings for Mr. Leo?

You must be feeling very confused right now! I guess my advice would be to make very sure of how you feel, then if you proceed, to do so with caution.

Best of luck to ya!

BTW... I noticed that you have been around for a long time, but I've never seen your name before. Nice to meet you!

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Gooberzlostlovefound
Knowflake

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From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
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posted April 27, 2005 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Like future_uncertain, I'm wondering about if he has made any indication of wanting more than a physical relationship...

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Total Pieces
Knowflake

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From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Dec 2001

posted April 27, 2005 12:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for Gooberzlostlovefound and Future Uncertain it's nice to meet both of you too.

I have been around for awhile I pop in and out. This is such a great community when it comes to astrology I am about as novice as you can get but when ever I am going through it I come back and cry a bit on the shoulders of friends I don't know and get a nice bit of hand holding I said once along time ago that Linda-Land reminds me of a small town's local diner. Where everyone comes to catch up on the day/weeks/months events some folks are regulars some folks are new in town and some folks have moved away to the big city and come back home to be groundedbut everyone is welcome

Anyway he has said stuff like you have so much to offer you should just get out there and meet new people very vague so no he hasn't. And he's an actor...and moody...and a Scorpio...and I'm still in love with the Leo...but I like him...I wonder how much of it is guilt (sex before marriage is bad enough but sex without love...good girls don't do such things...although I haven't been a 'girl' in a long time .

I think I just need to tell someone what¡¦s is going on. Normally I would sit with my girlfriends but I don't want to talk about this with them...you know what I mean. Its not that I am ashamed...I just want to keep it secret...but then my nature being what it is, I want to talk about it...what is funny, is normally back in the old days (6-7 years ago) I would talk about this with the Leo... he would listen an nood...I would ask for his advice...he wouldn't give it...I would be annoyed...he would be amused on the surface...I would have no idea what he was really thinking

Thanks for listening...this...relationship is definitely the opportunity to learn to go with the flow...

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sthenri
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From: Montreal, Canada
Registered: May 2003

posted May 12, 2005 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Sure but anything you feel ashamed to talk about is not that healthy, unless that's what you need right now which is fine. You don't sound so sure you want it to last, or be anything permanent, and you don't have to want that either.

Scorpio men are really suggestive to signals, so if you wanted long term, he would know it before you did, so ask him sometime what kind of signals you give off right now and he won't lie.

Personally I don't think he sounds like long term material, even if you are looking?

Be true to yourself, but if you can't talk about him to your g/f's that would suck for me.
Then I have Mercury in Gemini!

Natasha

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Gooberzlostlovefound
Knowflake

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From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
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posted May 13, 2005 02:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Any updates, Total Pieces?

Would be interested to know what's been going on.

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Hecate
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posted May 14, 2005 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hecate     Edit/Delete Message
Sometimes what ends up happening with connections that start out as strictly physical, is that one of the two begins to care more than the other & then somebody will be hurt.

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