posted July 04, 2002 08:31 AM         

Your Venus in his 12th House
You may have a special talent for helping him to adjust to difficult situations, and be able to suggest solutions to him when he's faced with complicated problems. You may have a special interest in easing his path as much as possible and may not always say exactly what's in your mind for fear of upsetting him. You can be a sympathetic companion to him and comfort him when he's distressed. You may be instrumental in introducing him to the study of occult or mystical subjects.

Your Saturn in his 10th
You may play some definitive role in relation to his career. Possibly acting in such a way as to test the strength of his ambitions. You'll encourage him to take a realistic approach to his responsibilities. You may be inclined to adopt a rather parental attitude towards him. You'll be likely to tell him the truth about himself and your critical appraisal of his performance is usually in order to help him to attain a higher level of achievement and self-development. Your concern is that he'll be able to do complete justice to himself and his potential. You'll "judge" him on his actual performance rather than on any hearsay.

Your Sun in his 1st
He'll appreciate your worth as an individual and have a high regard for you. This overlay creates the possibility of much mutual attraction, with him demonstrating admiration for you and you'll be happy to receive this appreciation. He may recognise and acknowledge your ability to lead, allowing you to fulfil your natural function and so making you feel good.
Your warmth and affection will bring out the best in him. You can provide inspiration or may monopolise attention but the relationship will never be half-hearted.

Your Mercury in his 1st
The way you think will appeal to him and you'll receive mental stimulus by exchanging ideas with him. (Especially if your Mercury conjuncts his ascendant). You may be the cause of him having to travel more than usual or you may tend to make him more than usually restless. This can be a very helpful overlay when you have a common interest in intellectual pursuits, otherwise you might tend to waste too much of your partner's time
discussing matters of no real importance.

Your Moon in his 4th House
He'll instinctively feel "at home" with you and you'll probably be able to make him feel that he is "one of the family". You'll probably be able to anticipate what his instinctive reactions to certain situations are likely to be. You may tend to assume a somewhat motherly role, going out of your way to protect him, sometimes to such an extent that you appear to monopolise him. (Much will depend on the sign occupied by the Moon and the aspects it receives). This overlay is often found between the horoscopes of marriage partners. The one who's Moon is involved does not always act as a particularly stabilising influence. The one who's forth house is involved may experience difficulty in accumulating property as his partner may not wish to undertake commitments in this direction, which leave him with a feeling of being tied down. The purpose of this overlay may be to encourage, in the 4th house person, a more sensitive attitude towards his environment and a willingness to change or modify his surroundings so that they coincide more closely with his personality.