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Topic: What do you see in this?
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sweetlibra
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Registered: Oct 2004
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posted August 31, 2005 06:24 AM
 
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GemStar
Knowflake Posts: 661
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted August 31, 2005 08:32 AM
What is it that you want?Obviously there is not much communication in this relationship....also game playing...power struggles...one person maybe more interested than the other. Waste of energy. Since LLand IS an astrology forum...do you have an astrology question? IP: Logged |
miss_muffet
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Registered: Mar 2004
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posted August 31, 2005 09:58 AM
Honesty is the foundation of a good relationship. If you cannot be honest with each other - playing games, then this relationship is bound to fail.I say, be honest, tell him how u feel and get ready for either a rejection (move on) or fullfilment of ur desires. Ms Muffet IP: Logged |
sweetlibra
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Registered: Oct 2004
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posted August 31, 2005 10:52 AM
Gemstar, my astrological question is:How all these Saturn aspects affect our relationship? His Sun,Neptune square my Saturn.
His Moon,Asc,saturn Conjunct my saturn.
His Mercury trine my saturn.
His Venus,uranus,Jupiter sextile my Saturn. My venus,mars,uranus sextile his Saturn.
My Neptune Square his saturn. Its too heavy for me but at the same time i cant break free. Miss_muffet, i told him everything, but he is driving me crazy by playing cool.
Nothing was intentional from my side. I can concentrate only one thing at a time.
When i saw my relatives i really forgot about him.! Sorry for my not so serious tone.
life is sucking and i have a tendency to put the deepest feeling in the lightest tone. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 1927
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted August 31, 2005 10:58 AM
I see resentment.IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted August 31, 2005 03:01 PM
I agree with miss muffet. This is very immature to play games like this and to manipulative another to get what you want from them. This only leads to people getting hurt. I suspect you're just teens (I hope so), and in which case you'll learn from your mistakes (again, I hope so). You (or whoever this is referring to) really needs to sit down and think about what kind of relationship you want, how you want to be treated and if you can treat the other person with equal respect. IP: Logged |
sweetlibra
Knowflake Posts: 675
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Registered: Oct 2004
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posted September 01, 2005 12:26 AM
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Devilfish
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Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 02, 2005 08:53 AM
hey sweet , i read your original post.
feelin like the responses here were a little harsh.
i sensed fear on the mans part
and on the womans part i think the hesiatation was an attempt to not look needy to a man who seems to want alotta space.
i think the man is playin some games.
im on my way out but ill post a lil more later. smile babe, your intentions are good.
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GemStar
Knowflake Posts: 661
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted September 02, 2005 02:58 PM
Certainly no one is meaning to be harsh in response...just calling a spade a spade.Why colour it different?? No one wants another person to be unhappy in a relationship....of any kind. The game-playing etc...is never healthy. The truth, as seen from unemotional supporters, is also limited regarding the entire story. In short, it does not appear to be a situation that is heading in a good direction. That's all. There is nothing ever wrong with stating the 'obvious'.
Not ever meant to be unsupportive.
Actually, it is often more loving to be sincerely honest...and that can be the most helpful response in most cases. There are millions of guys out there, why bother with one who is not giving you all that you deserve?? Move on.
And do not get 'stuck' in a situation that probably isn't meant to be...let it go. No harm intended!!!  PS-The Saturn elements are a bit oppressive as well!! Again, not enough information regarding ALL the aspects with this synastry...lots more come into play with this one. IP: Logged |
lovely*
Knowflake Posts: 1256
From: CA
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted September 02, 2005 05:00 PM
sweetlibra, You edited your first post. I guess you didn't feel you represented the situation favorably because of the responses you got.  Anyway, Gemstar, this is the Soul Unions forum and topics aren't required to have astro data. Look around, you'll see. IP: Logged |
GemStar
Knowflake Posts: 661
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted September 02, 2005 05:57 PM
Ahhh...Soul Unions it is....LLand is based primarily on Astrology (and other ideas), however, you are right...astrology is only a part of Soul Unions....I stand corrected!!!
Please accept my apologies!! But still stand behind the original reply. Dump him. IP: Logged |
sweetlibra
Knowflake Posts: 675
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Registered: Oct 2004
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posted September 12, 2005 02:50 AM
Sorry for editing my post.
I felt this is not the right place to post it.
And the responses just confirmed it.
Psst.. a hypersensitive LibraIP: Logged |
Devilfish
Knowflake Posts: 313
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Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 12, 2005 03:49 PM
hey sweet
sorry it took me so long to return
but now your post are gone,
so all i can offer you is empathy &
hope that all is well.
stay strong,
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