posted January 26, 2006 03:20 AM         

I am not perfect and so I am not expecting a perfectionist but a person who is full of contradictions.

* Emotional yet his emotions are secret to outsiders (except to my eyes).

* Optimistic but not day-dreaming.

* Handsome yet Not always trying to prove he is Cool or he is oh ! so hot.

* Simple yet Charming.

* Practical yet Creative.

* Not a miser yet not a spend thrift.

* Ambitious about Future yet satisfied with Present.

* Supportive and Encouraging yet vulnerable

* Self-reliant yet not afraid to ask for help.

* Professional and Serious when he is working yet Innocent as child when not working.

* Not only a good listener but good at talking too.

* Not the one who talks but the one who can do things.

* Honest yet his remark never sounds bad as they come in the most charming ways.

* Open minded yet knows when not to go over the limits.

* Modern Outlook yet has traditional values.

* Loyal yet can take the occasional possessiveness of mine.

* Can take own decisions and have a plan ready yet ready for changes without panic.

* Not afraid of taking chances yet knows when to "watch out".

Did I describe myself?

Do you know what I am talking about? or which Signs ????

posted January 26, 2006 07:41 AM         

I fit into
all of those
categories

but alas

I swing

in the

other
direction

so to
speak

shame

hope you
find him

posted January 26, 2006 10:06 AM         

I come close, I miss the mark on # 4 although I am charming I am far from simple. and # 13 depending on my mood my remarks can be rather blunt and intense at times.

So If you decide to "settle for less" Im your guy! (in theory) LOL

Focused Chi
Can/Sag/Gem

posted January 26, 2006 01:03 PM         

i scanned thru that list twice ....

twice i thought of Capricorn ...

... but .. where to find a handsome one ..
thats the quirky point .. .. (;-)) ..
that was just to get the cappies blood flowing ..
.. never know .. contestants could start posting their pics here !

find one with a comfortable set of chart placements ..
a nice spread of elements ...

they evidently like mountain climbing .. or long walks ..

posted January 27, 2006 07:01 AM         

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.. never know .. contestants could start posting their pics here !

find one with a comfortable set of chart placements ..
a nice spread of elements ...

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LOL

I didn't thought that this would be responded by guys. This is something I would tell my girlie friends.It's kinda flattering reading all your comments

Libra Merc...well that's where charming aspect comes I guess.

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they evidently like mountain climbing .. or long walks ..

and .. for added luck in your quest ...
have a bow and arrow .. and set of wings .. .. 'n some whiskers for enchanced esp ..

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I wondered why you added that for added luck....

posted January 27, 2006 09:21 PM         

Sun: Libra (falls in my 7th house, sextiling my moon and venus, trining my jupiter)
Moon Cancer (falls in my 4th or 5th house, sextiles my sun, merc, mars, and trines my pluto)
Mercury: Capricorn (trines merc, mars)
Venus: Scoprio (squares moon. and venus, sextiles mars)
Mars:Aquarius (opposes moon and venus, conjuncts jupiter)
Rising: Pisces (makes my Virgo stellium fall in their 7th house, thier 'ideal')

posted January 28, 2006 12:15 PM         

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am not perfect and so I am not expecting a perfectionist but a person who is full of contradictions.

* Emotional yet his emotions are secret to outsiders (except to my eyes).

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that means , i am out of the list .

YOU CAN'T DO THIS TO ME ,FBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB

posted January 30, 2006 08:19 AM         

I told her well there are some who are really claiming full of it except few things.

Virgo Aries Artist : Just wondeirng what are your placements.

Focused Chi : What I meant Simple.... means some people just look Simple. There is some kind of simplicity in their outer appearance
It would be too boring for Scorp mind like mine to get someone who is simple from inside.No Fun.

Ouch....for No. 13 but well sometimes honest remarks help. I am too sensitive and my Sag Asc finds it difficult with criticism. I work better with compliments.

CG :

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* Emotional yet his emotions are secret to outsiders (except to my eyes).

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What I meant was that I didn't wanted him to cry in front of people or is so vulnerable that people take advantage of him. While I was writing this I was thinking no crab thing.

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* Ambitious about Future yet satisfied with Present.

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That time I was thinking Capricorn.They are really Ambitious and because of that sometimes family Suffer. Just expereince speaking.

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* Can take own decisions and have a plan ready yet ready for changes without panic.

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I guess Taureans have plan but not ready for changes so ther I was thinking of No Taurus thing.

I guess this all change when a person get more matured and start dealing with it.

Focused Chi,AG & CG :

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So If you decide to "settle for less" Im your guy! (in theory) LOL

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rider attached , i think i am ok with the rest of the part . so are you giving me a consideration

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Have we decided it's me, yet?

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Trust me ! Really Good try guys... and very tempting.... I am not sure how much you guys are practical or serious. You guys are just pulling my leg there, aren't you ???? lol

We cannot undermine the importance of geographic proximity in developing a healthy relationship.I don't know how to be more diplomatic than this and not breaking your hearts .... ...Love to you all there.

I just thought I would do what best fits your mind.Thread thingy....

Sun : Scorpio , Aqua or Taurus ( Something fixed.)
Moon : Cardinal
Mars: Mutable
Merc: Libra

posted January 30, 2006 11:23 AM         

I'm both optimistic and a day dreamer.

I can be both a miser and a spend-thrift.

I'm not tremendously concerned about coming across as professional, though I am serious.

I'm not a great talker.

My honesty doesn't always come out in the most charming of ways.

posted January 31, 2006 11:42 AM         

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* Emotional yet his emotions are secret to outsiders (except to my eyes).
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What I meant was that I didn't wanted him to cry in front of people or is so vulnerable that people take advantage of him. While I was writing this I was thinking no crab thing.

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GREAT! i dont weep or rather dont know how to weep . its been fifteen yrs. that i last wept .

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Ambitious about Future yet satisfied with Present.
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That time I was thinking Capricorn.They are really Ambitious and because of that sometimes family Suffer. Just expereince speaking.

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i wouldn't agree . i dont think they are the most ambitious . yeah they are the most competitive , its something that must be learnt from them .

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Can take own decisions and have a plan ready yet ready for changes without panic.

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I guess Taureans have plan but not ready for changes so ther I was thinking of No Taurus thing.

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i didn't know this was a taurean trait , even cancers have this trait .

ok, why they dont want to change is simply bcos they feel they can make it work in thier own ways . i dont normally change for people or situations . thats why my gem boss always tells me to change my attitude . i dont have the kind of adaptibility that he has .and infact thats one of reason for the friction otherwise we have a great relation .

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Trust me ! Really Good try guys... and very tempting.... I am not sure how much you guys are practical or serious. You guys are just pulling my leg there, aren't you ???? lol

We cannot undermine the importance of geographic proximity in developing a healthy relationship.I don't know how to be more diplomatic than this and not breaking your hearts .... ...Love to you all there.

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THATS THE MOST DIPLOMATIC WAY OF BREAKING HEARTS . hahahahahahahahahahah...........

Sun : Scorpio , Aqua or Taurus ( Something fixed.)
Moon : Cardinal
Mars: Mutable
Merc: Libra

posted January 31, 2006 12:26 PM         

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No offense taken here.

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Thanks ! AG. I like your honesty.
I am sure as you are dreaming for some watery gal.You might find one of them soon.
Valentine's Day is just around the corner.

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have you had a qaua bf ,ever ?

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Not actual bf...bf...as it was kind of complicated. You know how Aqua don't give committments and all.One a very good friend though.I got lot of space and well I respected his space actually very caring. I am sure he had lot of Cap there too.We could talk for like hours about anything, play video games ,watched sci-fi and amination movies, went dinning, long walks,etc. cooking???? (Doesn't that sound weired.Aqua and cooking.)

I also got letter back when I wrote one although we weren't living far. That's how one has to communicate with Aquas sometimes when they are having there personal space. I think it was chase which kept him on his toes.

Another Aqua I remember he liked me first and then was dating my best friend Scorp but they are on the verge of breaking up. Problem is that she needs more attention then he can give. Aqua is kind of accusiing that she is money minded and have high
expectations. They had relationship because they had nothing else to do. Sorry if that sounds I was jealous but I was really happy. I think my scorp friend was more jealous and our relations were little spoilt because of Aqua guy. Now we are back as usual great friends.

Another Aqua he is 75 years old and I am well 24.Almost 1/3 his age well we get along not bad.I remember days when he would just sit and talk about his old days about history or politics.Nobody would be interested to hear what he has to say. I would be there to listen. We have difference of opinions but still it's just one of the people I respect most.They never answer what you want to know in the first instance so well this Scorp has to ask all those questions again and again.

posted January 31, 2006 12:43 PM         

There are very few sun signs that can be with the same sun signs. Cancer is the only water sign that can get along with itself. The others that can are all fire and air. Earth suns can't go for the same suns as themselves at all, though Taurus sometimes tries.

Squaring suns is always going to cause a bit of tension, but can happen if the rest of the chart is complementary.

posted January 31, 2006 01:58 PM         

Never know I might change my views when I really fall in I wonder if this list or some placements would matter.

posted January 31, 2006 02:05 PM         

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What happens when both are being extremely stubborn (as they are bound to be)?

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They reach some kind of compromise or live with their differences.I guess.

OR

posted February 02, 2006 11:27 AM         

as for aquas , i usually get along with them . infact my friends group is comprised of water and air people only . i am talking of the close ones . and with my exp. , i dont think i am cut for air people ( as life partners ) and i feel the same for almost all waters .

and a aqua guy being attracted to a scorp women , i think thats very very normal , scorp women have a style of thier own . i have seeen even gems fall for them .

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That's one of the reason I am afraid to be with Cappys ...ha ha....Guys...Chill...just joking.

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caps are non violent . shall i add, they are too afraid .
i dont think salman is an exception . i think caps are pretty capable of domestic violence .

posted February 02, 2006 06:08 PM         

I Sags.. most of my good friends/ love interests have been Sags. Aqua mooners too.

So, in conclusion (before the cancer psycho-blabble starts to take over), there are three ideal guys:

Sag Sun, Leo Moon, Scorpio Asc
Sag Sun, Scorpio Moon, Scorpio Asc
Scorpio Sun, Leo Moon, Scorpio Asc

posted February 03, 2006 02:35 AM         

CG: I am waiting to get the disc. I would watch it at home. I would tell you how much did I liked the movie. I go for very light hearted movie. Some serious movies like Black although made me cry or well I was very touched. I wouldn't say it was a great movie....Don't laugh I cry watching movies...sob...sob..lol.... That's because Indian movies are so damn emotional.

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caps are non violent . shall i add, they are too afraid .
i dont think salman is an exception . i think caps are pretty capable of domestic violence .

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What you are saying is from your expereience I guess but I still disagree that they are unable or afraid to be violent outside too.They would just be cautious to pick their battles. I agree is that they are capable of domestic violence
and that happens because they are insercure in some way themselves.

Once I heard that came from Cap's mouth....
One gets angry only when they are afraid of
something and I completely agree with it.

AG: Find some time to see some movies... Fast forward the songs if you can't take them. I know many can't .

The funniest thing I have heard from foreigner was like that how do in some songs the bollywood couple get time to dance, sing and then get married and also have baby ....lol...

posted February 04, 2006 01:12 PM         

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Once I heard that came from Cap's mouth....
One gets angry only when they are afraid of
something and I completely agree with it

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Thats very true ! i agree absolutely bcos thats the way i feel and thats a major reason of my bursts .

posted February 05, 2006 01:31 PM         

According to what you are saying is that you want something which is missing in you. The fixed element. Sounds good.

Caps are very down to earth people.Caps and
down to earth comes to my mind.

CG: I know you had bad experience with Cap man. That's because opposite sign but same sex wouldn't go too well.I guess you should move on.

I would just say Indian saying" Five fingures aren't same"