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Topic: What does it mean when a virgo says he can not manage you.!!?
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sweetlibra Knowflake Posts: 1244 From: Registered: Oct 2004
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posted March 20, 2006 05:18 AM
Today I Went to meet a mutual friend of me and Virgo. Virgo was quite surprised to see me. The way he looked at me, was quite intense..! He gets so shy around me that anyone can say he still has feelings for me.Yet he said he can not manage me. I quite didnt understand what he meant. Having a scorpio mars himself,I dont believe he cant manage my scorpio intensity. Did he mean he cant control me? That must be quite true.! ------------------ Libra Sun/Mercury, Aqua Moon, Scoprio Venus/Mars, Taurus Asc IP: Logged |
pisces_girl Knowflake Posts: 34 From: Australia Registered: May 2005
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posted March 20, 2006 05:46 AM
Hmm... I might be way off here, but to me it seems as if he has feelings for you. Experience I've had with virgos has shown me that they are problem solvers and like to analyse so that they KNOW exactly why and how thngs are the way they are. Curious creatures. Him saying that he 'can't manage' you sounds like another way of him saying he can't work you out. Which would drive him mad! Because I think sometimes virgos do rather like to have everything under control. You're a spanner in the works girl and have left him in awe and bafflement! ------------------ Pisces Sun, Leo Moon & Aquarius Ascendent IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 4892 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 20, 2006 09:15 AM
I just asked my Virgo hubbie what this would mean......And he said no sorry I am too busy.... Hmmmm..... IP: Logged |
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 433 From: Columbus OH USA Registered: Aug 2005
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posted March 20, 2006 10:49 AM
sweetlibra.... Virgo here... w/a Scorp Mars... but female I agree with pisces_girl.... I think I might say that if I wasn't able to figure you out.. or if there were some doubts about something.. I will also add that I am not one for surprises... I like to know where i stand or i can get quite insecure.... murky is never good for a Virgo! IP: Logged |
sweetlibra Knowflake Posts: 1244 From: Registered: Oct 2004
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posted March 20, 2006 11:05 PM
Thanks for the replies. Yes he's trying to figure me out. He once said I'm very unpredictable. May be he's comparing me with his ex. She was pretty happy to listen to whatever he says. He tried to control me that way when we dated for a brief period. I straightaway told him it wont work. And we decided to be just friends. But when I treat him like a friend, he is like "you have so many friends(guys), why are you pinginig me again and again" That is pretty nasty. When I stop all communications, he create some scenario where we have to meet through common friends. I cant figure out if it is some game.------------------ Libra Sun/Mercury, Aqua Moon, Scoprio Venus/Mars, Taurus Asc IP: Logged |
Nihilive Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Dearborn Heights, MI, USA Registered: Feb 2006
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posted March 21, 2006 12:49 AM
Virgos have great foresight, it seems. I wish I would have known I couldn't handle an airy libra before I ever went through the mess with one. :-/ IP: Logged |
LeoLys Knowflake Posts: 57 From: North Florida, Registered: Nov 2005
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posted March 27, 2006 03:24 PM
Yeah, Virgos don't like who/what they can't control. They aren't pushy controllers, but they ar controlling, for sure. ------------------ Leo Sun Cappy Moon Cancer Asc. IP: Logged |
jkxx Knowflake Posts: 192 From: Denver, CO, US Registered: Nov 2005
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posted March 27, 2006 05:23 PM
Sweetlibra,sounds like something a friend of mine (virgo) did a while ago. He pretty much got involved and created a scandal just to break things off between this person and myself, even though it had nothing to do with him. And I caught another one spinning tales about me just so I'd react in a certain way. Looks like he's having trouble getting you out of his mind and that's bringing out his negative tendencies [to play puppet master]. If he told you he can't manage you it probably means he would like to regain control of himself and just think of you as a friend but it's not happening, implying that he is putting effort into it but his feelings are too strong for him to control. A mixture of convoluted feelings that's making him feel both bad and resentful simultaneously. You might want to keep your distance till it dissipates. IP: Logged |
sweetlibra Knowflake Posts: 1244 From: Registered: Oct 2004
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posted March 28, 2006 04:40 AM
jkxx, yes I gave him space to decide if he can see me as a friend. All his shyness makes me go mad. He behaves as if everybody is interested in knowing if we are just friends. Last time I met him, he had a painting done by me in his cubicle. I took his mobile and captured the picture and he behaved like i was undressing there!! eek..!
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