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Topic: what happens when you ignore an opportunity for love?
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deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 354
From: Female, Dubai
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted November 11, 2006 07:20 AM
 
i am interested in a pisces( aqua moon, pisces mercury, capricorn venus, aqua mars) who is 6 years younger, who told me the very first time we met that he liked me and within a week told me over the phone that he loves me. (sometimes i wonder if he really is a pisces, or maybe its just his aqua moon or aqua mars at work?)i don't normally go for much younger men. this is my first time with a pisces and i am not sure if i will make it. i can relate to the posts here about pisces guys. although im a scorpio which is compatible with a pisces, plus the fact that i feel a very strong attraction towards him, i am tempted to just let this one pass. i don't have the patience for his pisces-ness. i have been doing a lot of research on our compatibility etc and i have found out that ours could be an "almost perfect" union but we will first have to go through a lot of adjustments, a lot of lessons, etc and being the more "enlightened" one i am sure i will shoulder most of the hard work. my question is: has any of you let a chance for love pass by because the path in front of you looked too difficult? IP: Logged |
yourfriendinspirit
Knowflake Posts: 2789
From: California, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted November 11, 2006 03:35 PM
Went there, and did that [about 9 years ago...]
Now... Me= Sag [35yrs] note: my venus is Scorpio / He= Pices [29yrs]
and yes, he also is 6 years younger...
Well, um... I chose not to and to just let this one pass as the age difference seemed to extreme.
I was a single mommy looking for a more stable person in my life.
He was not qualified so to speak but...God does not choose the qualified,
God qualifies, the chosen! We apparently were the chosen Through some strange chain of events "here we are together" still after all this time
YES- many, many, hardships and barriers later...
Would'nt trade it for the world!
We now have two beautiful children together as well as my first born. My husband whom I held off marrying for 7 years, is filled with "pisces-ness"
as for patience towards this exhausting pessimistic soul, I still veiw him as a challenge.
His incredible romanticness [poetry, notes, pictures, sillyness] all make it seem worthwhile. NOTE: IF FIRE N' WATER CAN MIX, ANYTHING, I MEAN ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE! Good luck with this  oh yeah... quote:
who told me the very first time we met that he liked me and within a week told me over the phone that he loves me. (sometimes i wonder if he really is a pisces, or maybe its just his aqua moon or aqua mars at work?)
Try: "We should get married" before we had even kissed! YES, honey this is the dreamy pices way not his moon or marsIP: Logged |
deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 354
From: Female, Dubai
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted November 13, 2006 05:47 AM
yourfriendinspirit, thanks for your reply. is your husband a pisces sun? before you got married did he have "disappearing acts"? my pisces guy has aqua moon and mars so i am aware that he won't go for a clingy girl. sometimes he won't call for 2 weeks or 3 weeks and when he calls he says "why haven't you called/texted/emailed me?".do pisces guys have suspicious minds? i am asking becoz my pisces guy has one, it's like he's always thinking that im cheating on him (we don't have a relationship yet but i have told him before that i like him). there are times i sleep over at my girl friends house and when he calls i know that he is suspecting that im with a guy. i hate having to defend myself whenever he does that. IP: Logged |
yourfriendinspirit
Knowflake Posts: 2789
From: California, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted November 13, 2006 09:37 PM
Yes, He's got the Pices sun thing going on "disappearing acts"? um... well yeah, now that you mention it. Suspicious mind? "YES!" He's projecting his actions/thought patterns towards you mis-behaving in order to justify his own misdeeds. [Believe it, for it's TRUE] He may be Mr. Wonderful but, he is far from honest. He has a secret life at all times!
Are you able to have faith that your bond is strong enough to survive? He will make mistakes... Yes, you will bare most of the weight in this relationship. But, perhaps he is worth it?IP: Logged |
deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 354
From: Female, Dubai
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted November 14, 2006 10:23 AM
Is it true that they are sometimes absent-minded and forgetful? One time i called him at work, he said he was going home in 30 minutes and would drop by where i was, which is some 5 minutes away from his house. After 1 hour i called him and learned he was already home, he said he was so tired that he forgot that i was waiting for him... this morning he forgot that he was supposed to drive me somewhere. when i called to find out what time he's coming he said was with his sisters in a city some 2 hrs away. i said he should have called to say he couldnt come. he said he really forgot. sometimes i think he's just messing with my head. i am going overseas in 2 weeks and not sure if im coming back soon. im tempted to just leave w/o saying goodbye.IP: Logged | |
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