posted September 25, 2008 10:07 PM         

I'm in love with a woman who has this:

Rising sign: Leo
Sun: Taurus
Moon: Scorpio
Mercury: Gemini
Venus: Aries
Mars: Sagittarius
Jupiter: Virgo
Saturn: Taurus
Uranus: Libra
Neptune: Scorpio
Pluto: Virgo
N.Node Pisces

I am a woman myself and have been in a relationship with a man for 10 years. Since I met this woman named Christina who is a Taurus, I'm a Scorpio, I've felt completely and utterly attracted to her. We became very close until Mid-June when she left to work at another location. We saw each other various times during August for work related functions. She's heavily into church, but I've felt attracted to her and have hinted this attraction to her. Once she asked me who I was on the phone with and when I mentioned a woman's name she got upset. I kept insisting on us going out and spending time together anyways, she kept telling me that I was being demanding and have since stopped answering my texts. I asked her if I could visit her at her job and took her some of her favorite pastry to enjoy and she went berzerk on me. She told me that it ****** her off that I was there when she had told me that I couldn't visit her. I thought I was surprising her, since then she won't answer my calls or texts.

Is there a future for us? What happened? She won't talk to me about what she feels, sh e didn't want to communicate when I asked her.

I might've upset her because I wanted to see if she had feelings for me and I lied and told her that another woman was interested in me and that she had asked me out to dinner. I think this might've upset her as well.

This is my information:

11/17/1977
Time of birth 8:00am
El Salvador, San Salvador

posted September 26, 2008 02:26 PM         

If her Scorp Moon conjuncts her Scorp Neptune, and both of these sextile her Virgo Jupiter, within orb of course, then I'd imagine someone who may repress their sexuality in the name of religion. But Scorpio Moons are notoriously acute, and opposed her potentially obtuse Taurus Sun, I can see if the possibility of becoming a lesbian never even crossed her mind.

Taurus is terribly autocratic and stuck in their convictions. They can become infuriated when individuals stray from what they deem "the proper path". A devoutly religious Taurus could very well have contempt for lesbian aberrations, which would explain her hostility toward you.

I can imagine experimentation if her Gemini Merc opposes her Sag Mars within orb. Still, the Taurus female may experiment with lesbianism, but rarely make it a lifestyle. Generally, afflictions are necessary for a Taurus girl, and her Moon in it's fall in Scorpio with Sun sign ruler, Venus, in it's detriment in Aries, may be enough to cause her to ditch heterosexuality.

posted September 26, 2008 04:10 PM         

I've never had the opportunity to ask her directly and get a definite answer. I do know this, she's got some temper on her.

posted October 05, 2008 05:35 PM         

I'm not sure whether it's a matter of good or bad chart at this point. I know the situation must be terribly painful, but to me it just doesnt sound as if she is either into women/or into you. OR even if she is into women and you, she certainly doesnt sound as if she has admitted it to herself.

I think the signs you described which made you think that the feelings are mutual could have easily been misunderstood. They sound quite vague. I think when you are in love people tend to read so much into tiny comments which the other person deosnt think about much. I have been in siutations where there was more 'concrete proof' of mutual interest and in the end it turned out that even those fool-proof 'signs' were just a misunderstanding. I'm really sorry, but I think those things she has actually said sounded very much like she wanted to make it clear that she wasnt into women. Especially her reference to your relationship with a man.

So no matter what the real reasons are why she doesnt want to be in touch with you, I would give her time. Dont bombard her with txts/emails/phone calls. It will just make her retreat further and worst case scenario you might just create a situation where she feels stalked. If she does have feelings for you and just needs a bit of adjustment, she will come around. So I think as long as you dont know whether she DOES like women, it is pointless to look at the chart. I have an absolutely amazing chart with a friend of mine. But I am a woman and into men and he is a man and unfortunately also into men...