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Topic: Virgo Female - Gemini Male. . . Totally wrong, but can't help it
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vmulberry
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: NY, NY USA
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted January 19, 2008 07:53 PM
 
I'm a Virgo and want to ask just how badly matched Virgo is with Gemini for romantic relationships?In my life it has felt like both a perfect and cursed match simultaneously. Perhaps that's how it goes? IP: Logged |
LibraChickety
Knowflake Posts: 278
From: usa
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted January 19, 2008 07:55 PM
What matters is what the rest of both of your charts look like.------------------
Sun in Libra
Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
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I feel so naked ;) IP: Logged |
vmulberry
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: NY, NY USA
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted January 19, 2008 08:07 PM
Thanks for the reply LibraChickety but I don't have enough information on him. I have never asked his birth time or specific city so I can't get too far on this I suppose  IP: Logged |
GemGemGem
Knowflake Posts: 100
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Registered: Dec 2007
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posted January 19, 2008 11:05 PM
Virgos and Geminis get along quite well with eachother actually. Virgos give Geminis much needed structure and organization, without being overly critical. Geminis give Virgos some much needed variety and adventure. It's actually a great balance.IP: Logged |
bunnies
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: U.K
Registered: Mar 2007
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posted January 20, 2008 10:21 AM
My second husband was a Virgo and I an Aquarian but it's the sort of Earth/Air mix as yours is.
It was like that little nursery rhyme.
When it was good it was very very good.
But when it was bad it was horrid!
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vmulberry
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: NY, NY USA
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted January 20, 2008 02:25 PM
I just feel confused because everything about this relationship I had (it ended some time ago) felt really 'right'. Still, I read only that Virgo and Gemini are a bad pairing. We didn't stay together due to geography (we now live in countries a world apart) but I still think we were such a great couple how can our signs be so incompatible? Wish I had more of his birth details. . . IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 11554
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted January 20, 2008 05:50 PM
Gemini and Virgo are the only two signs that are controlled by the same planet to actually square one another. I personally think that the Mercury between you links you even if it's supposed to be a stressful aspect.IP: Logged |
Motherkonfessor
Knowflake Posts: 1115
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Registered: Oct 2003
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posted January 21, 2008 01:41 AM
Yup, I know how this dance goes...MK IP: Logged |
robyn.c
Knowflake Posts: 52
From: england
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted January 23, 2008 07:04 AM
you can find out lots with just the birth date (not time/city) do you know the day and year?IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 471
From: New York, NY
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted January 23, 2008 07:18 AM
Vmullbery,It's alright to use your own brain in this situation. If you say that you felt compatible with this man even though the "astrology cookbooks" say you shouldn't be compatible, then consider the books to be wrong because your experience over-rides what some stupid books says. Stop trying to prove the book right. And LibraChickety is right, what matters is what the rest of both of your charts look like. Please dig a little deeper. Geocosmic Valentine ------------------
"Everybody is a star!"
Sly & The Family Stone IP: Logged |
Hermes28
Knowflake Posts: 129
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Registered: Oct 2007
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posted January 23, 2008 12:28 PM
With Virgo rising, I attract them like a magnet, but instantly they square my moon, and I don't handle that aspect well.With Virgo at the forefront of my personality, I critique, nitpick, and hair split with the best of 'em. They hate it...we clash. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 11554
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted January 23, 2008 01:59 PM
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With Virgo at the forefront of my personality, I critique, nitpick, and hair split with the best of 'em.
All the Mutables are like this to some extent. IP: Logged |
vmulberry
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: NY, NY USA
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted January 23, 2008 02:46 PM
Thanks for the replies  It certainly makes sense that if it feels right in real life it's not worth worrying about what the books say.I do have the exact date of his birth but only the general area for location. I'm going to 'dig deeper' as suggested and see what I can piece together. One interesting thing about our relationship is that his mother had a reading a few months before he and I met and our relationship was basically predicted as it ended up happening. Maybe that's why I wonder what was 'written in the stars' for us. I know having a soft spot for an ex is nothing unusual, but sometimes it's worth listening to the universe too, right? Again, thanks for the help. My interest in astrology isn't new, but my attempt at being a bit more hands-on-investigative certainly is. I'm learning a lot from the other posts though. Thank you x IP: Logged |
bunnies
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: U.K
Registered: Mar 2007
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posted January 24, 2008 03:20 AM
Your first line says it all mulberry.
Sometimes we can over analyse things to the extent wherein we squeeze all the joy out of them.
Just have fun. It's not a science project.
And remember regardless of any planetary positions, when you first fall for someone your hormones will be all over the place.And they don't make ANY sense ever!!! IP: Logged |
LunarPiscesTwin
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: Portland, Oregon
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted February 20, 2008 12:49 PM
Gemini with Virgo Rising here! No matter what online cookie cutter astrology articles say having your sun signs squared would not automatically doom your relationship. I’m sure there must be more to it. Do you have stressful Saturn aspects? What about Uranus? Uranus aspects can sometime indicate separations. IP: Logged |
GemGemGem
Knowflake Posts: 100
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Registered: Dec 2007
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posted February 20, 2008 05:57 PM
My first ex was a Virgo, and I am a Gemini. We dated for 7 years...the longest I've ever been with anyone, even longer than I was married to my ex-husband. The reason we broke up is because he proposed to me, and I got scared and bolted from the relationship. We are still very good friends though. I love Gemini - Virgo relationships! If I could do it over right now, I would have married him! he was wonderful, and we got along wonderfully!
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GeminiLover75
Knowflake Posts: 2143
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted February 20, 2008 08:57 PM
My Virgo ex was previously married to a Gemini... I dont know what their synastry was like, but in the end he thought she was an over-flirty (to the point of rudeness, flirting with other men in front of him), vain airhead - and she thought he would be better off married to a librarian! lolol. They still make snipes at each other to this day. Taurus-Gemini pairings are supposed to be bad too though. I can agree with much of what's said about it, but not all of it applies 100%, because it does depend on the synastry. Personally I think moon sign compatibility carries more weight than the sun signs when it comes to relationships. IP: Logged |
vmulberry
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: NY, NY USA
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted February 26, 2008 05:44 PM
LunarPiscesTwin- Thanks for the reply. I don't know if I have stressful Saturn or Uranus aspects because I'm still trying to learn astrology. I'm getting pretty confused! How can I find out this information, would it be on my chart?GemGemGem - So you've seen Virgo/Gemini from the Gemini perspective... interesting To this day I'm the longest relationship my Gemini ex has had and I have a feeling we could have gone on and on and on and on as we were forever. Friends always said they could see us as those couples who don't marry but are together for 20 years. My Gemini ex is still single nearly 10 years later and is still incredibly hesitant about marriage/commitment. He isn't sure if he ever wants children at all.
It makes me smile to read that you bolted when marriage was proposed. I think so long as I didn't want to push things (marriage/commitment)he was happy to keep things as they were and happy with me and us. We had a good thing, as you say you and your Virgo did. We got along great as friends and as lovers. We didn't argue hardly and nothing ever really rocked the boat for us. But I wanted a family so I married the man I rebounded with and we have two children.
My marriage isn't bad and my family life is great but that Gemini holds a very special place in my heart and memories. We're still in contact and there seems to be a mutual feeling that we're probably each other's 'one that got away' sort of thing. GeminiLover75- My best female friend is a Gemini and she can really play up the flirty airhead act though it's not who she is so I can understand why a Virgo (your ex) dating one might feel that way. And lol at the librarian! I'm a Virgo and I would LOVE to be one. Ha ha ha! I'm deadly serious too. I would be absolutely happy as a librarian. IP: Logged |
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