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posted July 05, 2011 09:47 AM            

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Hi Everyone: looking for your insight/thoughts on a subject that's been on my mind of late:
What is the purpose of highly-intense (shared) romantic chemistry that doesn't seem meant to develop? In my case, referring to someone who has been popping in and out of my life (he's a Sag, I'm a Cancerian) for the past 11 years. No matter how long it's been, it's as natural as breathing, he and I's relationship. Perfect strangers will reg comment on our apparent compatibility. But it never works out quite right. Now I am married with a child (which trumps any selfish desires I may have). But still: to what end or purpose is a Connection like ours??

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posted July 05, 2011 12:35 PM            

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learning. you need to learn something which is important for you to move ahead in life. There must be something in him that keeps you attracted and likewise for him too. I have seen this thing mostly between people who are very very dissimilar behavior-wise. So there is something that you need to learn from him and till the time you learn that lesson, he is not going anywhere.

My theory.
Source: 3yrs on-off with a Taurus, while I'm an Aries

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posted July 05, 2011 03:27 PM            

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@loveAries: that's sorta what I thought---that one or both of us had a lesson to learn during this lifetime. But for the life of me, I cannot fathom what. Hoping someone who's less....enmeshed....than I am can see what is probably directly in front of my face, haha

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posted July 05, 2011 03:45 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted July 05, 2011 04:12 PM            

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@Randall et all: thanks so much for having me, everyone. I have always had a special place in my heart for Miss Linda's books and such

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posted July 06, 2011 12:38 PM            

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Originally posted by MissyMoonchild:
@loveAries: that's sorta what I thought---that one or both of us had a lesson to learn during this lifetime. But for the life of me, I cannot fathom what. Hoping someone who's less....enmeshed....than I am can see what is probably directly in front of my face, haha

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you will find out, trust me. once you start paying attention you will. like i did!

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posted July 07, 2011 02:56 PM            

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You're welcome.

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