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posted April 27, 2010 09:19 PM         

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I've met a soulmate but we're not together as he has emotional baggage from his ex-girlfriend. I've come to realise that he's alot more selfish and immature in love than myself. Which has made me think that I deserve alot more better than this especially from a person that I'd consider to be involved with.

Therefore i have asked spirit/universe to bring in someone new who is more evolved and not spiritually immature but so far theres been no one!
My question is why can't spirit send someone new into your life when you're genuinely ready for it???

It's like you want to move on but you never meet anyone new therefore you end up thinking about your past soulmate..catch 22 or what?

has anyone else been in this dilemma??!

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posted April 27, 2010 09:47 PM         

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Before I got into this law of attraction thing, I demanded a relationship, and Spirit sent me the Libra from hell....AAHhhh!!!

I won't be asking Spirit for anymore romantic favors. Whatever happens, happens.

I too have recently met a Soulmate. A Capricorn w/ Moon in Gemini. Ordinarily I can't stand Moon in Gemini, but the Capricorn is a different breed. All the Caprico- All the interesting Caprico- All the Capricorns I'd like to know better seem to have this placement. The first one lied to me, but I was willing to give it a shot...until that running-away incident in the supermarket - I don't wanna get into it.

Most recently I met my Soulmate. In a wicked game Spirit dangled love before my eyes, then in a swift and cruel move snatched loved away just as I was about to reach out and touch it.

With pMoon in the last degrees of Capricorn I may never meet another, sigh

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posted April 27, 2010 09:53 PM         

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Gosh thats just awful my sympathies to you...I mean what are they trying to do up there, dont they realise that these experiences can make it alot more worse for you own well-being!

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posted April 28, 2010 09:06 PM         

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I had a similar guy... Gemini with Venus in Aries, very immature and with baggage from the ex. But our Souls still bring the soul mate into our lives for a reason. You have to discover what you learned by asking yourSelf why you chose to bring him into your life, and understand what the meeting was about before you are free to move on to the next lesson, from what I understand.

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posted April 29, 2010 03:05 AM         

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well said mystic melody!!

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posted April 29, 2010 10:26 AM         

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Thank you, mercuranian!

At the time this soul friend came into my life I had been lonely for a long time and he created something of a fantasy with his Venus in Aries, "loving" me right away, and I went along with it because it just felt so good and I needed to be told how beautiful and adored I was at that time. I knew it was pure sugar... no real nutritional value... and that I would see it on my waist-line later but it tasted soooo good at the moment and it helped my soul a bit. He was a soul friend even though by all logical rights he "betrayed" me with his ex-gf. I forgave him so fast though and saw his heart and humanity and his immaturity/innocence. I think he and I both learned a lot and I was propelled to my next "learning level" in relationships by how I handled that one.

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posted April 30, 2010 10:16 AM         

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Mystic melody..I have been asking myself the same question over and over again..but I just can't see the point of meeting him at all!

Although he has a lovely personality and we really connected at one point, I realised pretty quick that he had no loyalities to me and its been 2 years now!

Nothing has changed, which is why i dont get that when your genuinely thru with someone why cant spirit send new people your way..and i dont just mean for relationship purposes but for friendship, as i consider this to be more important. This is the one thing my soulmate could not give me, which makes me sad.

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posted May 10, 2010 12:52 AM         

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just testing to make sure this works

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posted May 10, 2010 12:57 AM         

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sorry about that guys, let me answer your questions on the universe sending somebody new into your life. I see this as being 2 fold, one is your home life, and the abundance of opportunities to meet someone new...and your astrological chart. perhaps in your chart you now have opportunities to do other things that you are not aware of right now. my advice, take on a new activity, you are creating an opportunity to meet someone by going to new places or connecting with new people, also it can help you take your mind off the fact that you are not meeting someone, and by way of the law of attraction...when you stop the "asking" part of the process, you go into "allow" mode and the universe can bring you your desire. I hope that was helpful. If you want to learn a little more about your personality check out http://12zodiacsignspersonalitytraits.com
bye for now

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