posted January 30, 2011 05:36 AM            

What is the allure of a toxic guy? By that I mean a player, a man who will not care about your emotions, who will play with two women at a time, have a girlfriend back home etc.

I was at a party last night and bumped into a toxic guy I had been involved with (very briefly) and upon discovering he was not the guy he seemed, I was not interested. BUT there was a girl who is a friend of a friend who is completely in love with this guy and was chasing him all night. His vitals are: 14 July 1984 (Valleta, Malta) and I noted once again Mars in Scorpio was present in the chart. Also at the time I was involved with him someone on here mentioned I had been attracting people with 7? with indicators of neptune and deceit. Last night he went home with the girl who was chasing him but he made a move on me too.

My point of this post is that I also was chatting to a friend's boyfriend at the bar as we were sitting at a large table. He was the antithesis of the toxic man, caring , friendly, loyal. THAT is what I want and deserve.

I left the night last night really happy that I was going home single and not wrapped up in a toxic guy who will only make you feel bad. Toxic guys are just that. But it is also a question of self worth, perhaps my self-worth is low so I attract guys who are going to knock that further.

posted January 30, 2011 08:11 AM            

I'm not well educated in the art of astrology although it does fascinate me. So I hope you don't mind a novice answer.

My thought is that anything toxic can only harm you if you take it in. Unfortunately, toxic men don't have that warning stamped on their forehead. But the fact that you recognize they are poisonous is a plus for you. The clueless tart who chased him all night and ultimately went home with him was probably looking to take a bite of the proverbial apple.

Never question your own self-worth against people (male or female) who are not worth the breath you'd waste talking about them.