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Topic: I sabotaged the Twinflame relationship.
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missem2003
Newflake Posts: 6
From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted February 03, 2012 12:33 AM
  
I was slowly winning his confidence once more & he was slowly coming back to talk to me when, because of my destructive nature, I told him off out of repressed anger. Now, I've tried everything & he won't talk to me. I regret playing these games with him & I fear that I've destroyed this special relationship.A psychic told me that this particular man is my twinflame. When I saw & see his pictures I feel a sense of love & bonding with him. When I chat with him I feel an incredible sense of protection & love for him. We are so different though. Very, ying-yang. We have similar tastes & occurrences & he has similarities with my husband. From what I've read, if you're in a relationship with someone & you meet your TF it is because this 1st relationship is supposed to prepare you for the TF relationship, which isn't always an easy one. Not very many TF relationship exist out there. IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted February 03, 2012 01:55 AM
i dunno forsure, buuuuut, if he *is* your twin flame then you will have endless chances i assume..?i honestly to the bones feel i know my twin soul (i wrote about it in the stages of a twin flame relationship thread) but we keep back-and-forthing with eachother and we bring out a LOT in eachother, it's crazy. but there is this indestructable draw, too, and it's the way you describe. if it helps, i stopped talking to him for about a year after he did some similar things, but i would never fully give up on him, could never. i care too much. hang in there  IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Knowflake Posts: 425
From: starcity,saskatchewan,canada
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 13, 2012 12:04 PM
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lilithpluto
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From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted February 26, 2012 09:46 AM
If it is a twinflame relationship... wouldn't he also want to keep it going despite your occasional blow-ups? If it is indeed a twinflame, he will be back.. everyone makes mistakes, you shouldn't be on tip-toe around him... afraid to make mistakes... if he indeed can't forgive... then maybe it wasn't meant to be. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted February 26, 2012 10:43 AM
I feel if you find your twin flame, and both individuals are in full awareness of how precious it is to have met at this physical plane in this lifetime, the bond is unbreakable and there will be no back-and-forthing.
Back-and-forths are for people who are still not fully aware of who they are and what they are doing in this life. Twins, when they meet, to recognize each other, they first have to be in FULL realization of themselves. Hence, no mind games, no back-and-forth's.
The back-and-forth's are more suitable to karmic soulmates.
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woah cakes
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posted February 26, 2012 03:00 PM
hey! just my opinion but i don't really agree, anongirl. people might be on the brink of being aware enough but no one is completely enlightened, you know? i think it can be a struggle to maintain the awareness enough to maintain a perfect relationship with one's twin soul. of course i know nothing forsure and it could be the case for a large degree of twin souls (what you say) but i don't think it has to be that way, necessarily.IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted February 26, 2012 03:56 PM
Yeah, this all is speculation, so it matters not whether we agree or not.
I simply expressed my own "feeling" about it. I wish I had hard evidence to prove it or show it to everyone.
So, whatever rocks your boat.
For clarification: you don't need to be enlightened to be "fully aware" of your soul mission. You can still have an "imperfect" relationship (we're still humans in this physical plane after all). The quality though of the bond [in twinflames I mean specifically] is spiritual and comes with awareness.
I can't explain it better than that. As I said it's my feeling/intuition. Not hard evidence. Take it or leave it really kind of remark.
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woah cakes
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posted February 26, 2012 05:13 PM
well yeah, that's all we ever really have (speculation)  i just like the ideas espoused in the 'stages of a twin flame relationship' thread. maybe cuz i personally resonate with it (and we have a fairly rocky relationship and have for 17 years- we're not together but we both felt we completely belonged together a year and a half ago and i believe we both still do). he was my first real boyfriend and we had a nightmare of a relationship due to life circumstance and choices that were made, BUT our connection has always been extremely strong and positive (even all the years we were apart and did not see one another, we spoke telepathically -we both believe this- and grew and learned in very mutually supportive ways) and our relationship helped us both grow tremendously. i would say, just as i have no regrets in life, that these difficult struggles are not indicative of a lack of twin soul connection but rather support it (in that we had such incredible growth BECAUSE of the difficulty and darkness). i think it CAN be like the 'accelerated karma' theory that linda had and that such a connection can bring more trouble to light in order to put it behind oneself once and for all. but then again i like a challenge! IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted February 26, 2012 06:51 PM
I see what you mean.
I'm not necessarily disputing the challenging side of a twin flame relationship.
I just believe in mutual awareness of the Twins. When you are in full awareness, you can catch yourself (and even the other person) so the problems never escalate to the umpteen degree.
That's my ideal I guess.
My only caveat is that I'm a Sag Sun with Jupiter in peace-loving Libra. I hate to argue especially with people I like or love.
A constantly miserable relationship is not my cup of tea. I can deal with challenges (you have no idea how much I can endure; Taurus Moon here) but I believe life is too short for B.S. Happiness is a choice in the end.
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woah cakes
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posted February 26, 2012 08:32 PM
agreed completely! and i'm a taurus moon too; i know what you mean. we don't really argue but circumstances seem to challenge us most definitely. and i feel like we're twin souls but can't know forsure i guess. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted February 27, 2012 05:02 AM
Gotta love a Taurus Moon! Challenging circumstances sounds a bit more "fateful", I see what you're saying. For me, I think it's a choice. If both people are in it with both legs firmly on the ground and want to see this work out, there's no stopping them. Especially if they are Twin Flames. [Again just my ideal view of this.]
Where it becomes painful is when it's unbalanced. And then we each have a choice to keep on it or not. This is a very interesting q for me. Thanks for sharing your insight. IP: Logged |
uranusingleton
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 01, 2012 02:34 PM
Do not hurt him anymore or he'll become mistrustful. And don't take your relationship with him for granted. I believe he should have forgiven you because you want his forgiveness. Sometimes they don't even want to forgive you which sucks. But tell him you want his forgiveness and he won't refuse because you guys are bonded at the soul level. Hope this helps. IP: Logged |
uranusingleton
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posted March 01, 2012 02:35 PM
But he could also be tired of forgiving you and that's why he shut you out so just give him some space and try not to take your relationship lightly and show him love without hurting him. Its just that simple. IP: Logged |
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