posted July 27, 2014 02:28 PM            

I haven't spoken to my supposed SO in over a month.

So I have been working as a mobile phlebotomist and had to check into the office yesterday morning. There is a conversation going on between two coworkers and they keep repeating this name. I counted sixteen times that they said his name. I go to my patient's home & his name is the same one. Ok.... go to next patient's house & she wants to show me her garden & chickens.... the rooster has the same name. Go back to the office & watch Netflix... character has same name. I turn it off.... too done.

posted July 27, 2014 03:43 PM            

> Serendipity.

posted July 27, 2014 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Ugh I know...lol. Even though I have feelings for him and I love him immensely I am so tired of the back and forth and the on and off.

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I had the same thing going on with a certain guy I still have feelings for. His name would pop up everywhere! Just as I'm about to let go, his name pops up all day. Or his home state (which happens to be PA, what a coincidence!)

posted July 27, 2014 04:59 PM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Nope LOL

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posted July 27, 2014 05:05 PM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
I believe in signs as well.... my best friend said he is going to contact me again because this is how it usually starts

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posted July 27, 2014 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
I don't feel interested in pursuing anything with him. The relationship is up and down and running in circles.

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posted July 28, 2014 04:54 AM            

If he cares about you and has always told you he does - so he doesn't blow hot/cold with you - or seem like he is not that into you... then it's worth giving it another try.

A relationship can be 'on and off' even if the two people truly love each other. You can have other issues, problems, personality or lifestyle clashes. I think these problems can be overcome with genuine affection, understanding and compromise.

posted July 28, 2014 09:51 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by cappy1277:
[b]I don't feel interested in pursuing anything with him. The relationship is up and down and running in circles.

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Then why do you care about seeing his name?[/B][/QUOTE]

I didn't say I cared that I saw his name....I merely mentioned it because no matter how far I try to go, there are constant reminders

posted July 31, 2014 08:31 AM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
And the saga continues...LOL. now I'm seeing the first three numbers of his phone number geez....LOL

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Yeah, I had the same thing happening to me for about two weeks in July. I figured he probably wanted to reach me especially as I dreamed of him two nights in a row. But then since mine has no means to reach me, I better forget all about it.

What was frustrating is that I kept seeing his name and mine together (my name is very very unique). It was odd.

posted August 01, 2014 11:55 AM            

Her name was the name of the local mechanic station I went to (I mean are you kidding me).
i was reading comments on an online forum. I unknowingly highlighted a random members name. I was like "huh, why did I do that?". I proceeded to read the name...lol you'll never guess who's name it was.
I was reading comments on daily.mail.uk, and one of the users said "Atleast it's much better than "her name"". I clicked on a user's profile on youtube to see his videos. Clicked on one of his videos. It had only one comment, and the comment was from a user that had her exact name (I mean c'mon)
I came back home from work, and right when I walked in my parents started talking about the country she's from.

posted August 01, 2014 09:42 PM            

My take is its a sign saying (maybe) there's still more work to be done, there's something still lingering in the air between you two that needs to be resolved...

When I stopped talking to fishy for 3 months, I had these signs every single day, it got to the point, I started taking pictures and documenting it...
Mine was really severe..
I'll give you some examples.
I'll use fishy as his name.
I bought my son a video game, it was narrated by fishy, and the name was used and popped up on the screen during every single narration.
My son loved this game.
I'm driving on fwy, a tow truck next me, called fishy towing
A new resturant opened around the corner called fishey deli
I accidentally bumped (literally) into a guy at the store, he was wearing a uniform his name tag said fishy.

I goggled how to do something, nothing at all to do with people, I think it was how to fix something
I got directed to an article about how fishy fixed said project.. Geez!!

My daughter was talking on her phone, she was talking about how funny fishy is ( her friend)

I saw his name on business trucks, billboards..

Ohh and a real estate for sale sign said
For sale by fishy (my last name)
Ok this one was funny..

Those are just a few examples the list goes on and on..