posted March 27, 2015 05:54 PM            

Two years ago we reconnected and we began speaking almost everyday, it was as if we left off where him and I started. Him and I became an emotional outlet for each other, ( support system, business planners, great conversation , same personality )

HOWEVER: I began to relieve communicating was great but also was suffocating. If I didn't answer his calls from being in the clock he would call me excessively , or have someone call me

2.) If I told him no or If he asked me something and I said I wasn't comfortable talking about it he would get upset stating I was always hiding things .

3.) Even though he would always call me and ask who I was in the car with when I said I was driving during an argument he would say things like " you're not my gf".

4.) He would send me really nostalgic text messages like:Vibing with you is making a better person, for my interactions with you allows me to pratice ways of goodness.I wish we could have realized how great we each are many years ago!! I gain much comfort knowing, with whatever little you will need from me that you shall make it over the horizon and walk with me into the valley of our future! Be at peace with Life's burdens we will make it!

Because of the suffocating behavior/ arguments we don't get along. Its been over two months since we spoke , my bday just passed and he didn't reach because of a fallen out. I've been doing well most day however i miss him but i don't know if i was in an unrequited love situation however after this disagreement him and I had he said he wasn't calling me anymore and i just hung up.

posted March 27, 2015 09:36 PM            

How about some Real Talk? Based on your history together, the two of you can get to the bottom of what each of you want out of this relationship. Otherwise, it seems ya'll are headed for a lot of needless drama.

posted March 28, 2015 02:24 PM            

Some things in our charts pointed out , when him and I were on good terms he was always intrigued by astrology lol so I know his birthdate / natal chart

In composite some of the things that stood out is

Sun in 3rd house
Moon in 7th house
Venus in 1st house
Jupiter in 5th house
Mars in 12th house ( this placement scares me) lol
In synastry
His son goes into my 7th house
My moon goes into 1st house / his moon goes into my 12th house .
He has venus in gemini 12th house yikes lol

Also I noticed four of my planets go into his 8th house ( I'm not really familiar with 8th house)

posted March 28, 2015 06:08 PM            

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Originally posted by PrettyPisces:
he called me back after having a disagreement and he still wanted to talk about it, I said can you call me back because I had him on speaker phone and he flipped out saying what's the big secret I'm not your boyfriend , when all I was trying to do was keep my friends from knowing what's up because they will sure have an opinion

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posted March 29, 2015 06:38 PM            

Healing : I read that about the moon 12th house synastry . I don't think it's me bring oblivious . I do have feelings for him and I felt he liked me the same . However I am confused by it all because he always said during an disagreement / or he would ask about girls...total ******* , but was always possessive .

posted March 30, 2015 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Healing Mystic Melody:
His moon (emotions) in your 12th house means that his feelings for you (which are obvious to everyone else) are hidden from you. You are oblivious to his love for you. You HAVE to go to him. Cancer will not go after you in a straightforward manner like an Aries etc. Write him a letter telling him how deeply you feel for him and how attracted you are (etc)... whatever is true for you. Bare your feelings and tell him you aren't sure if he feels the same but he has always been there for you and you trust him and believe in him and his friendship and you hope it can be more. Would he like that too? Then step back and wait for him to approach and be very positive and receptive to any steps he takes to get closer to you.

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posted March 30, 2015 06:11 PM            

I have a Cancer friend who stopped talking to her Cancerian father for years, over a silly argument. Neither of them will make the first step in reconnecting because they are both Cancers *facepalm*

posted April 01, 2015 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by PrettyPisces:
when I said I was driving during an argument he would say things like " you're not my gf".

4.) He would send me really nostalgic text messages like:Vibing with you is making a better person, for my interactions with you allows me to pratice ways of goodness.I wish we could have realized how great we each are many years ago!! I gain much comfort knowing, with whatever little you will need from me that you shall make it over the horizon and walk with me into the valley of our future! Be at peace with Life's burdens we will make it!

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These are really contradictory messages from him and I can see why it gets you confused. One the one hand he is saying (in the heat of the moment no doubt) that you are not his gf, then the next he's saying how great you were in the past and suggests there is a future for you both together. "Make up your bloody mind buddy!" is what I'd say in return.

I had a sort of similar situation with a Cancer guy recently. On the one hand he was (and still is) all over me and obviously hasn't seemed to have moved on, and on the other hand he said he wasn't looking for a relationship with me (or anyone else apparently). To rub salt into the wound he said he was also concerned about our rather large age difference (I'm older) and was speculating about the distant future when I'm old and grey and he'd have to take care of me when he would still be a relatively young man. I was sooo insulted about that, particularly as I'm pretty fit for my age, look years younger and have always been in very good health. I dropped contact with him without a qualm on my side. He then contacted me recently said he'd been very ill with something close to pneumonia and has to do regular walks to keep his fitness level up (he's an avid gamer) - and he's only 25! It got me wondering who would be looking after who in our later years. Anyway good riddance to such wet fish!

posted April 02, 2015 04:04 PM            

Sidenote : I can recall though a friend of mine told me to be careful because he comes off as liking you and everybody sees it yet he doesn't want to and does now or he didn't in the beginning and now he does but he's trying to convince himself overwise , she said he'll hurt me . I didn't understand back then but now her point is valid .

He's an avid gamer too, he's 24 Jo B

posted April 17, 2015 12:10 AM            

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Originally posted by PrettyPisces:
I agree Jo B it's hard sometimes to decipher what he means because it often comes off as something that can be interpret either way like a guy talking to his bestfriend or his girlfriend .

Sidenote : I can recall though a friend of mine told me to be careful because he comes off as liking you and everybody sees it yet he doesn't want to and does now or he didn't in the beginning and now he does but he's trying to convince himself overwise , she said he'll hurt me . I didn't understand back then but now her point is valid .

He's an avid gamer too, he's 24 Jo B

I'm going to take the advice from the forum users and my loved ones , and let him know how I feel . That way I'll know hopefully he's honest and let's me know how he really feels . On another note if this is an unrequited love , I can really do my part by healing myself and move on .

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