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Topic: Unspoken attraction?
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LexusVirgo Knowflake Posts: 763 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 01, 2015 01:58 AM
Can you tell when you and another person has unspoken attraction? Is it fun?IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 56335 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 01, 2015 03:38 PM
The eyes tell all. Not just the longer-than-usual gazing into them, but when the pupils dilate. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo Knowflake Posts: 763 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 01, 2015 04:54 PM
True and the way they look shiney.. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 56335 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 02, 2015 03:55 PM
Ah, yes...IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11646 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 03, 2015 12:59 AM
No, I have aspergers. I only know when someone tells me. IP: Logged |
Newrise Knowflake Posts: 658 From: Los angeles Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 03, 2015 01:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: No, I have aspergers. I only know when someone tells me.
Haha, I think I might have that too. How do you know? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11646 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 03, 2015 02:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Newrise: Haha, I think I might have that too. How do you know?
Look up signs of aspergers syndrome and see if it fits you and then go to a psychiatrist or psychologist to get evaluated. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo Knowflake Posts: 763 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 03, 2015 10:00 AM
I'm really sorry aqua guy .. IP: Logged |
ash20 Knowflake Posts: 810 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 03, 2015 04:08 PM
Sometimes I can tell and then sometimes I'm reading too much into it. I only believe a guy likes me when they verbally say so nowadays. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11646 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 04, 2015 01:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: I'm really sorry aqua guy ..
Don't be sorry. It's my cross to bear. But I'm not going to lie, it does suck. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 4636 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 04, 2015 03:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: I'm really sorry aqua guy ..
Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system. Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11646 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 04, 2015 06:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system. Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too.
Honestly? It's mostly minuses. Although it could be a positive if society had different values. As it is..... Today's society is all about having people skills. As the popular saying goes "its not about what you know its all about who you know". What does that mean? It means being popular is more important than having knowledge or skills. It's no secret that many people on the spectrum are brilliant but struggle to get good jobs because they lack social skills. So it goes without saying that aspies also struggle to make friends or get into romantic relationships.
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Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 4636 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 05, 2015 03:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Aubyanne: [b] Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system. Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too.
Honestly? It's mostly minuses. Although it could be a positive if society had different values. As it is..... Today's society is all about having people skills. As the popular saying goes "its not about what you know its all about who you know". What does that mean? It means being popular is more important than having knowledge or skills. It's no secret that many people on the spectrum are brilliant but struggle to get good jobs because they lack social skills. So it goes without saying that aspies also struggle to make friends or get into romantic relationships. [/B][/QUOTE]I'm probably just viewing it too much as a schizoid. Sorry about that. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11646 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 05, 2015 04:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: I'm probably just viewing it too much as a schizoid. Sorry about that.
What do you mean? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 56335 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 06, 2015 10:05 AM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 56335 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 07, 2015 01:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Aubyanne: [b] Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system. Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too.
Honestly? It's mostly minuses. Although it could be a positive if society had different values. As it is..... Today's society is all about having people skills. As the popular saying goes "its not about what you know its all about who you know". What does that mean? It means being popular is more important than having knowledge or skills. It's no secret that many people on the spectrum are brilliant but struggle to get good jobs because they lack social skills. So it goes without saying that aspies also struggle to make friends or get into romantic relationships. [/B][/QUOTE]IP: Logged |
SDragon Moderator Posts: 520 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 07, 2015 05:15 PM
As an empath I can only tell when I get nervous around them and then I'm like, wth, why am I nervous, but I'm feeling their nervousness towards me...Ya, we're all twisted... ;/ IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 56335 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 10, 2015 03:18 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 56335 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 11, 2015 02:31 PM
Ugh. The Quote function malfunctions sometimes.IP: Logged |
Soltze Knowflake Posts: 455 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted August 22, 2015 04:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by SDragon: As an empath I can only tell when I get nervous around them and then I'm like, wth, why am I nervous, but I'm feeling their nervousness towards me...Ya, we're all twisted... ;/
OMG - Totally this. But I will only get nervous if I feel a mutual thing going on. If not, I can see the guy is attracted but I try to politely ignore it
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 56335 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 23, 2015 10:26 AM
It must be tough being an empath.IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo Knowflake Posts: 763 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 23, 2015 07:52 PM
Yep. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 56335 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 24, 2015 10:53 AM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 56335 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2015 09:53 AM
Reminds me of the empath, Deanna Troy, on Star Trek TNG.IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo Knowflake Posts: 763 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 25, 2015 02:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Reminds me of the empath, Deanna Troy, on Star Trek TNG.
I loved her in that show IP: Logged |