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LexusVirgo
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posted August 01, 2015 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you tell when you and another person has unspoken attraction? Is it fun?

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Randall
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posted August 01, 2015 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The eyes tell all. Not just the longer-than-usual gazing into them, but when the pupils dilate.

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LexusVirgo
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posted August 01, 2015 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
True and the way they look shiney..

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Randall
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posted August 02, 2015 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah, yes...

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aquaguy91
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posted August 03, 2015 12:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No,
I have aspergers. I only know when someone tells me.

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Newrise
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posted August 03, 2015 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Newrise     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
No,
I have aspergers. I only know when someone tells me.

Haha, I think I might have that too. How do you know?

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aquaguy91
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posted August 03, 2015 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Newrise:
Haha, I think I might have that too. How do you know?

Look up signs of aspergers syndrome and see if it fits you and then go to a psychiatrist or psychologist to get evaluated.

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LexusVirgo
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posted August 03, 2015 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm really sorry aqua guy ..

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ash20
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posted August 03, 2015 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ash20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sometimes I can tell and then sometimes I'm reading too much into it. I only believe a guy likes me when they verbally say so nowadays.

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aquaguy91
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posted August 04, 2015 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
I'm really sorry aqua guy ..


Don't be sorry. It's my cross to bear. But I'm not going to lie, it does suck.

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Aubyanne
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posted August 04, 2015 03:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
I'm really sorry aqua guy ..


Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system.

Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too.

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posted August 04, 2015 06:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system.

Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too.



Honestly? It's mostly minuses. Although it could be a positive if society had different values. As it is..... Today's society is all about having people skills. As the popular saying goes "its not about what you know its all about who you know". What does that mean? It means being popular is more important than having knowledge or skills. It's no secret that many people on the spectrum are brilliant but struggle to get good jobs because they lack social skills. So it goes without saying that aspies also struggle to make friends or get into romantic relationships.

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posted August 05, 2015 03:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Aubyanne:
[b] Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system.

Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too.



Honestly? It's mostly minuses. Although it could be a positive if society had different values. As it is..... Today's society is all about having people skills. As the popular saying goes "its not about what you know its all about who you know". What does that mean? It means being popular is more important than having knowledge or skills. It's no secret that many people on the spectrum are brilliant but struggle to get good jobs because they lack social skills. So it goes without saying that aspies also struggle to make friends or get into romantic relationships. [/B][/QUOTE]

I'm probably just viewing it too much as a schizoid. Sorry about that.

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posted August 05, 2015 04:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm probably just viewing it too much as a schizoid. Sorry about that.

What do you mean?

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Randall
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posted August 06, 2015 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted August 07, 2015 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Aubyanne:
[b] Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system.

Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too.



Honestly? It's mostly minuses. Although it could be a positive if society had different values. As it is..... Today's society is all about having people skills. As the popular saying goes "its not about what you know its all about who you know". What does that mean? It means being popular is more important than having knowledge or skills. It's no secret that many people on the spectrum are brilliant but struggle to get good jobs because they lack social skills. So it goes without saying that aspies also struggle to make friends or get into romantic relationships. [/B][/QUOTE]

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SDragon
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posted August 07, 2015 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SDragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As an empath I can only tell when I get nervous around them and then I'm like, wth, why am I nervous, but I'm feeling their nervousness towards me...

Ya, we're all twisted... ;/

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Randall
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posted August 10, 2015 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Randall
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posted August 11, 2015 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ugh. The Quote function malfunctions sometimes.

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Soltze
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posted August 22, 2015 04:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SDragon:
As an empath I can only tell when I get nervous around them and then I'm like, wth, why am I nervous, but I'm feeling their nervousness towards me...

Ya, we're all twisted... ;/


OMG - Totally this. But I will only get nervous if I feel a mutual thing going on.
If not, I can see the guy is attracted but I try to politely ignore it

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Randall
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posted August 23, 2015 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It must be tough being an empath.

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LexusVirgo
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posted August 23, 2015 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep.

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Randall
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posted August 24, 2015 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted August 25, 2015 09:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Reminds me of the empath, Deanna Troy, on Star Trek TNG.

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LexusVirgo
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posted August 25, 2015 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Reminds me of the empath, Deanna Troy, on Star Trek TNG.

I loved her in that show

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