posted August 28, 2013 11:44 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Hey Dreaming - do you know how to read playing cards?

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Hey EM,

It's been a while.

I can't say I have ever used playing cards.
I don't even know if I have a set... : /

I can exchange a tarot reading for you, if you would like?

posted August 29, 2013 12:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Hey EM,

It's been a while.

I can't say I have ever used playing cards.
I don't even know if I have a set... : /

I can exchange a tarot reading for you, if you would like?

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posted August 29, 2013 12:35 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Ok I guess. I'll be using playing cards for your q if you don't mind. My question is how will things go for me if I decide to meet up with AA this weekend? Thanks =)

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Sure not a problem.

So what I got was that either of the two of you want and fear love/ loving bond in this potential r/s. There is a desire to build a strong foundation but....yes but....either of you will encounter lies or some sort of deceit in this. So be warned.

Also anything that is say done in hast, lust or instinct will turn out badly for you two.

Even if it sounds like a good idea....Think if the mature you would do that with someone else. If no, then don't do it here.

Either of you is either seeing someone else or have some sort of distraction in your lives that will not allow you to keep each other as top priority right now.

So enjoy the company, don't race into anything too quickly and vigilant about what is going on between you. Don't take their word for it nor assume something.

If AA says he/she is a business person don't assume it's a profitable or a high end business. It may be a crack business after all. lol Extreme example, but you get what I mean.

posted August 29, 2013 12:36 AM            

What does A want to do next with regards to me/ us/ any potential r/s? That is if he's thinking about me at all....

posted August 29, 2013 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Sure not a problem.

So what I got was that either of the two of you want and fear love/ loving bond in this potential r/s. There is a desire to build a strong foundation but....yes but....either of you will encounter lies or some sort of deceit in this. So be warned.

Also anything that is say done in hast, lust or instinct will turn out badly for you two.

Even if it sounds like a good idea....Think if the mature you would do that with someone else. If no, then don't do it here.

Either of you is either seeing someone else or have some sort of distraction in your lives that will not allow you to keep each other as top priority right now.

So enjoy the company, don't race into anything too quickly and vigilant about what is going on between you. Don't take their word for it nor assume something.

If AA says he/she is a business person don't assume it's a profitable or a high end business. It may be a crack business after all. lol Extreme example, but you get what I mean.

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I think you misunderstood my question. I was trying to see if I decide to meet up with him this weekend..how will our meeting go in general (not as a relationship, just as friends). I wanted to see if it would go well for us or not. I'm sure you're getting the 7 of Swords for me. I will probably "ditch" him and end up not going anyway due to the way I've been feeling lately. So, I will probably tell him I can't go or something..

posted August 29, 2013 12:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
My question:

What does A want to do next with regards to me/ us/ any potential r/s? That is if he's thinking about me at all....

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posted August 29, 2013 02:15 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
I think you misunderstood my question. I was trying to see if I decide to meet up with him this weekend..how will our meeting go in general (not as a relationship, just as friends). I wanted to see if it would go well for us or not. I'm sure you're getting the 7 of Swords for me. I will probably "ditch" him and end up not going anyway due to the way I've been feeling lately. So, I will probably tell him I can't go or something..

Thanks

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posted August 29, 2013 02:16 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Okay I'll be back with yours in the morning [1am here]

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posted August 29, 2013 02:20 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
I think you misunderstood my question. I was trying to see if I decide to meet up with him this weekend..how will our meeting go in general (not as a relationship, just as friends). I wanted to see if it would go well for us or not. I'm sure you're getting the 7 of Swords for me. I will probably "ditch" him and end up not going anyway due to the way I've been feeling lately. So, I will probably tell him I can't go or something..

Thanks

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No you should go. Just be cautious about any lies or deceit. Have your ears tuned in. That's all. I mean, that is what anyone should do in any case.

posted August 29, 2013 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
No I understood you full well. That is why I made it vague and applying to any circumstance i.e. loving bond/ love relationship. You can have a strong loving bond even in a friendship.

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posted August 29, 2013 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
No you should go. Just be cautious about any lies or deceit. Have your ears tuned in. That's all. I mean, that is what anyone should do in any case.

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posted August 29, 2013 05:09 AM            

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Originally posted by NoRainNoRainbows:

Hi Empress, i can give you a playing card reading if you want one

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Yes, please. Thanks so much for your offer =)

I wanted to know how things will go between myself & A tomorrow if we do get to meet?

posted August 29, 2013 05:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
My question:

What does A want to do next with regards to me/ us/ any potential r/s? That is if he's thinking about me at all....

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I will use Lenormand because I can't find my playing cards =/

Clouds+Key+Cross+Whip+Letter

posted August 29, 2013 05:22 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Yes, please. Thanks so much for your offer =)

I wanted to know how things will go between myself & A tomorrow if we do get to meet?

I can return the favor

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okay did it, in general it will be quite okay if you meet him, do u want me to put the rest of the reading here or send it to you in private email, such i can get it from the top here?
(just for quick your cards are AD-3H-4H-JC-KD)

posted August 29, 2013 05:35 AM            

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Originally posted by NoRainNoRainbows:
okay did it, in general it will be quite okay if you meet him, do u want me to put the rest of the reading here or send it to you in private email, such i can get it from the top here?
(just for quick your cards are AD-3H-4H-JC-KD)

will wait before i expand further

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Ohh there goes that King of Diamonds again..so I guess it is him, lol. I prefer e-mail to keep it private =)

posted August 29, 2013 05:38 AM            

and yes i have it all written down for you already

and sent

posted August 30, 2013 06:29 PM            

I ended up changing my mind & not going (I did a reading before yours Dreaming and it told me I would).

7 of Swords simply means I'm trying to avoid him..get away from him .

posted August 30, 2013 07:59 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
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I ended up changing my mind & not going (I did a reading before yours Dreaming and it told me I would).

7 of Swords simply means I'm trying to avoid him..get away from him .

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I didn't get 7 of swords but 3 of swords...

I think it was a self fulfilling prophecy. I had said that one of you will be distracted and not keep each other as a top priority. And you did just that. lol

posted August 30, 2013 08:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:

I didn't get 7 of swords but 3 of swords...

I think it was a self fulfilling prophecy. I had said that one of you will be distracted and not keep each other as a top priority. And you did just that. lol

Anyway, it's nice to meet new people as it opens the lines of network to meet even more. Who knows maybe you would have met someone awesome through him.

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No, it wasn't a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you want to see our conversation, let me know and I will gladly show you why. And yes, I get the 3 of Swords with him a lot because he is going through a break up. And nope we were going to meet just us 2 no one else (well it happened last year, but I'm sure he isn't yet over it even though they don't talk anymore. and my ex is living here again, but we aren't together).

And I didn't do what you said. Before your reading I did a reading (I posted it in a different forum - again if you want to see) that clearly showed I would change my mind and not go. 6 of Swords rx 7 of Coins rx and Wheel. I even wrote that I will just change my mind like I usually do, but it was due to something we spoke about. Something that he wants really quickly and I don't.

By the way I'm one to change my mind A LOT. I can be excited to go to the beach for a whole day + and when it comes time to it -- I back out and say I just don't feel like going. I do this many many many times with anything and everything. That's my ex's biggest dislike about me.

The reading I did for myself before I asked for a reading here (which is why I said nevermind)...it's in the other forum where I asked for help interpreting it.

"What do I need to know about..?

So, I want to meet up with this guy this weekend, but I have been feeling so down and tired lately. Sleeping more than usual, etc..

So I asked what I needed to know about meeting him this weekend.

6 of Swords ill-dignified/reversed
7 of Coins ill-dignified/reversed
Wheel

It's always so difficult reading for myself. I just don't see what I see when reading for others..or helping others interpret their readings. The 6 of Swords rx shows that I have been distant from him up until today. It's because I do not feel as motivated to do much of anything lately due to feeling blah..I guess you could say over my break up even though it has been a whole year since then. It still lingers..a bit..I don't want to be with my ex though, but I also do not want to start something new just yet. With the 7 of Coins rx beside it, it seems like I feel this won't be worth it..and that I will just get nothing from it (and/or vice-versa). I feel with 6+7 that I will give it a try, but something will cause me to change my mind either way? I don't know..

posted August 30, 2013 08:32 PM            

Oh and

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I had said that one of you will be distracted and not keep each other as a top priority. And you did just that. lol

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posted August 30, 2013 08:39 PM            

And listen if he's asking for sex....then smile and do your princess wave, because if a guy is into a girl then he will never push it, even though of course he would want it. lol

And about taking a year off from a breakup....girl we are in the EXACT same boat. I feel blah. On the one hand I'm sad, miss him, but I don't want to jump into anything emotional with ANYONE.

I guess for me I love hard so I have to choose wiser because I know that after a breakup I would most probably need this amount of time or more to get over it and it is just a waste you know? To be spending so much time thinking about someone and their possible next moves or mine, where things broke down, where I regret things, where I feel he should regret things..is just a waste of time. It still bothers me....

I'm scared I'll never get over it. Le sigh.

Anyway, I think if he's being pushy and a jerk to wave him goodbye.

Or get a free nice dinner from him and then wave him goodbye. lol