posted October 01, 2009 06:52 PM         

I was wondering if anyone could give me a short tarot reading on the future of my relationship.

posted October 04, 2009 08:07 PM         

If you will pull three cards for yourself (past, present, future OR situation, obstacles, suggested course of action...whichever you prefer) I will interpret them for you. I am usually more accurate doing it that way. I tried pulling cards for you and they didn't feel right.

posted October 04, 2009 08:50 PM         

I wish you would've just gave the reading on the cards you pulled...maybe it was right...

posted October 05, 2009 01:26 AM         

I did situation/obstacles/coa

I got:

1. queen of wands
2. fool (reversed)
3. 4 of wands

posted October 05, 2009 11:10 AM         

I hope MVM will have time!!

posted October 05, 2009 04:54 PM         

queen of wands
2. fool (reversed)
3. 4 of wands

Queen of wands
You have recently met (or will meet) someone you could have a relationship with and are wondering if you should, or if you will. True guidance proves itself, in that it brings with it the action, or ability to carry it out. If you are in a quandary, remember that decisions usually make themselves when the time comes.

Fool reversed
The choice made most likely is faulty. Fear might hold you back from taking on new opportunities. Bad decision. Indecision. Apathy. Hesitation. Negligence.

4 of wands
The four indicates a sense of harmony and balance as well as completion, and thus symbolizes a time of peace and joy in life that come as the result of often difficult and challenging effort. If you encounter this card in a reading, there is cause for celebration! The Four of Wands if one of the most positive cards in the Tarot deck and indicates general good fortune, satisfaction, and fulfillment. But realize, as always, that all things are temporal and that there may be challenges ahead.

The Four of Wands indicates peace and tranquillity. You may find a refuge from the turmoils of life. This contentment may be the result of the association with another person in a romantic setting.

Don't shoot the messenger i looked these up lol

posted October 07, 2009 05:19 PM         

It's ok....i'm sure you're worth the wait!

Ok,

What will the outcome be for me and "e?"

I will tweeze your face as a thank you, lol!

posted October 07, 2009 09:46 PM         

Ok, so here's what I get on you guys:

He's pretty serious-minded about things with you two but i also see occasional displays of juvenile, immature behavior (unintentional on his part). I feel this guy can have an ego, or pride. I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing though - it seems he's quite serious-minded in regards to you, and is being unusually open even. Giving you the benefit of the doubt more than he would to others. But there are still moments when you'd like to stick a fork in his head maybe because I feel he says things which seem weird, annoying. It feels like he knows exactly which buttons to push, and when.

There's a really strong sexual attraction and connection between you two. It's almost part of the conflict, as in, what do we do with that? lol. It feels weird to say. I feel it makes you anxious or something. You don't want it getting in the way. But it's not in the way, it's part of something greater.

In the long term things get more serious. You seem to be talking to him a lot - I am seeing you being the catalyst for conversations over the next few weeks. But there's also this thing where maybe you are a little harsh in reaction (queen of swords) to what he says - and maybe it is unintentional. It feels like he's actually a fairly sensitive person and for some reason I am seeing an obnoxious side to him which is almost like a little kid or something (page of cups, 5 of swords). And I don't know if it frustrates you, or if he doesn't say what you want him to say, but it feels like there's a grating quality which is also set off by the sexual attraction lol.

There's a lot of healing aspects to this relationship and it looks like it goes forward (Chariot, The Moon, Star). But there's a defensive tone as well between you two - you seem to set each other off somehow, know how to get under each other's skin (The Moon, 7 of Wands).
But I don't see the thing breaking off or whatever. It looks good. It looks like an uphill climb, it doesn't look EASY all the time because you tend to trigger each other's issues somehow.... and I feel it's so damn hard to remain neutral. You two seem to do a lot of talking, talking, talking. And a lot of internal emoting and discussing.
It looks like a pretty deep level of involvement which can almost feel overwhelming because it's got a weird purging quality to it.... so remember to ease off each other once in a while or you'll exhaust yourselves (10 of wands).

posted October 08, 2009 03:51 AM         

Wow, I didn't expect such a thorough reading! Thank you! I must give feedback!

>>>>He's pretty serious-minded about things with you two but i also see occasional displays of juvenile, immature behavior (unintentional on his part). I feel this guy can have an ego, or pride. I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing though - it seems he's quite serious-minded in regards to you, and is being unusually open even. Giving you the benefit of the doubt more than he would to others. But there are still moments when you'd like to stick a fork in his head maybe because I feel he says things which seem weird, annoying. It feels like he knows exactly which buttons to push, and when. >>>>>

If by juvenile imamture behaviour, you mean he is acting weird lately, then yes. He has said he is very honest with me...

I feel like maybe I am the one to say weird and annoying things, maybe. I also give him the benefit of the doubt more than I ever gave anyone else. Maybe he does for me also. I don't know.

>>>There's a really strong sexual attraction and connection between you two. It's almost part of the conflict, as in, what do we do with that? lol. It feels weird to say. I feel it makes you anxious or something. You don't want it getting in the way. But it's not in the way, it's part of something greater.>>>

This is all very true.

>>>>In the long term things get more serious. You seem to be talking to him a lot - I am seeing you being the catalyst for conversations over the next few weeks. But there's also this thing where maybe you are a little harsh in reaction (queen of swords) to what he says - and maybe it is unintentional. It feels like he's actually a fairly sensitive person and for some reason I am seeing an obnoxious side to him which is almost like a little kid or something (page of cups, 5 of swords). And I don't know if it frustrates you, or if he doesn't say what you want him to say, but it feels like there's a grating quality which is also set off by the sexual attraction lol. >>>

Also true. We don't talk like we used to, but he is very sensitive and I always forget that. I am not used to sensitive men AT ALL. I like it, but I am not accustomed to it, so I forget he is until later, after I've said something insensitive. Then I remember he's sensitive.

I can see him being like an obnoxious kid, not that he's been, but I can picture it. We have had issues where he talks about sex and I get annoyed and I tell him he's like a kid, lol! This is most likely the past in the reading. haha.

>>>>>There's a lot of healing aspects to this relationship and it looks like it goes forward (Chariot, The Moon, Star). But there's a defensive tone as well between you two - you seem to set each other off somehow, know how to get under each other's skin (The Moon, 7 of Wands).
But I don't see the thing breaking off or whatever. It looks good. It looks like an uphill climb, it doesn't look EASY all the time because you tend to trigger each other's issues somehow.... and I feel it's so damn hard to remain neutral. You two seem to do a lot of talking, talking, talking. And a lot of internal emoting and discussing.
It looks like a pretty deep level of involvement which can almost feel overwhelming because it's got a weird purging quality to it.... so remember to ease off each other once in a while or you'll exhaust yourselves (10 of wands).>>>

Yeah, I can see this playing out if we continue to see one another. It definitely does seem to have a weird purging quality to it. It actually was exhausting at one point and made me physically ill. I am still recuperating. So weird. Never happened to me before. Things are weird now between us and I have no idea what will happen....

posted October 08, 2009 05:10 AM         

The purging stuff you two do is part of the process.... it is exhausting, I am getting almost a heaviness writing about it (lol, I know how it feels - I have had a relationship or two where we did this a lot, and there was a lot of love).
It's like you two are trying to get to the rock bottom of who you both are in simplest terms.

Don't worry about his weirdness now - he's processing and digesting a lot. In a lot of ways he's actually less scared than you about all of this... less ill at ease. It feels like you guys are getting past the initial beginnings of the relationship or something - moving on to the next phase.
So a lot of the weirdness you're experiencing is like 'growing pains', transitional stuff in a way.
Also don't worry about him too much - he's sensitive but he can take it. He feels very fluid to me, almost chameleon-like too. He's very, very adaptable and can move from one emotional state to the next without being overly affected by it or something. He can go through a multitude of emotions and still be unscathed somehow. Interesting gift.

posted October 08, 2009 04:56 PM         

There really is, and at one point I felt like I was drugged or under a spell. It was really weird. I don't feel that way anymore. I am actually very unsure how I feel now.

>>>The purging stuff you two do is part of the process.... it is exhausting, I am getting almost a heaviness writing about it (lol, I know how it feels - I have had a relationship or two where we did this a lot, and there was a lot of love).
It's like you two are trying to get to the rock bottom of who you both are in simplest terms. >>>

That sounds accurate.

>>>>Don't worry about his weirdness now - he's processing and digesting a lot. In a lot of ways he's actually less scared than you about all of this... less ill at ease. It feels like you guys are getting past the initial beginnings of the relationship or something - moving on to the next phase.
So a lot of the weirdness you're experiencing is like 'growing pains', transitional stuff in a way.
Also don't worry about him too much - he's sensitive but he can take it. He feels very fluid to me, almost chameleon-like too. He's very, very adaptable and can move from one emotional state to the next without being overly affected by it or something. He can go through a multitude of emotions and still be unscathed somehow. Interesting gift.>>>>

I am actually the least scared and confused one, which is atypical for me. This is all him, but now, I am moving on.

He does strike me as chamelon-like, but I am that way with my emotions, as well.

>>>May I ask if you guys SEE each other very often? I feel like there's a lot of time spent over the phone or something.
>>>

We have seen each other, yes, this isn't all phone, but it was more phone. I actually think it's over now.