posted April 04, 2012 02:13 AM            

I am on the inside, he's on the outside. Keep in mind--I don't know his TOB.

posted April 04, 2012 05:44 AM            

There are lots of outer planet to personal planet contacts in your synastry.

Your Sun is conjunct his Neptune, his Sun conjuncts your Uranus, and his Mars conjuncts your Neptune. Your Pluto/Venus conjunction also widely conjuncts his Venus.

So there is a lot of attraction here but there may be some confusion and unstability about the situation, and even about yourselves as individuals.

He, being the Mars and the Venus contacting your outer planets, probably wants to get physical and is quite fascinated by you.

Your Jupiter and Moon square his Sun so there may be some fundamental differences between you two, your temperaments may be a bit different at times, but nevertheless you are quite forgiving of each other.

You both have a Jupiter Moon conjunction natally so you can be similar in your emotional needs, even though Leo and Pisces are really different. You can still understand each other and have fun times together.

This is probably an exciting connection and you may have quite some fun together.

Be careful not to get into heated arguments though, your Mars squares his Mercury, so that can mean that at times you annoy each other and get on one another's nerves. Try not to react on impulsive and instead be calm and talk things out.

His Saturn squares your Sun and Saturn, so he may have a restricting effect on your Self, you may feel a bit limited by him or criticized or judged. It can add stability though.

His Saturn conjuncts also conjuncts your Vertex. Now there have been threads about this and I don't know how exactly this plays out, but it may mean that this is a somehow fated encounter, there may be a karmic feel to it.

Careful with your Moon and Jupiter squaring his Neptune, you may not see him clearly and have expectations that may later be deceived.

His Jupiter squares your Venus and Pluto. It can mean that he wants to please you but may go overboard in doing so. The way he goes about it may also not be exactly what you want. He may appear too "over the top" to you. But usually it does point to good feelings and a good time.

His Saturn is in your 7th and that is commonly found in long-lasting relationships, it adds a stable effect to the connection.

However in your case it may not lead to a stable relationship because you have strong outer planets connections, too, so it can play out in various ways.

The Mars Neptune conjunction shows there's some kind of idealization going on, especially on his part probably, he may want to seduce you and see you as very attractive, but it may not lead to anything physical. Apparently Mars Neptune hard aspects are often found in cases where two people don't get physical with each other and stay at a platonic level. It is not a rule though!

So, all in all, it's probably a very intriguing, interesting, and exciting connection but there may be some confusion and trying to establish a real relationship with such aspects could require quite some efforts!

posted April 04, 2012 09:52 AM            

I am most concerned about the Saturn square Saturn/Sun. I've had this with someone who I had (have, actually) a romantic interest in, and even though we've only hung out twice he managed to annoy me/hurt my ego (criticize me). Then again, he was also a Virgo sun & venus so maybe I should take it as a compliment. And perhaps this tendency to criticize was amplified because of it.

There's a large age difference between us (8 years) and I am a little worried about that, because I've never dated anyone more than 3 years older than me. Our lives are on very different paths right now. I definitely think a stable relationship will be hard to establish, but I am only going on a first date to see if the chemistry is really there. When I first met him in July I felt like there was, but now I have a push-pull going on. I think his Neptune conjunct my Sun had something to do with my attraction on our first meeting. Right now, we've been talking a lot but what I'm feeling is mostly platonic energy, on my part, anyway. I know he is very attracted to me.

His moon might be in Cancer, depending on the TOB. I am really not sure which he is. He seems to me more of a Cancer moon because he is much more reserved than most Leo moons I know, but every now and again he does something that causes me to question that assumption. He also has a great love of cooking and food. I am hoping he is a Cancer moon because it is an easier vibe for my moon to deal with. I get along with leo moons but never really open up to them emotionally.

I am excited to go on a date with a fellow Scorpio venus! I never have been involved with one before. Maybe that is just what my venus/pluto conjunction needs. My last boyfriend was an Aqua venus/mars (with the same DOB as this man, actually, but a different year), and that just got on my nerves after the initial attraction wore off.

posted April 04, 2012 11:20 AM            

I hope things go well for you.

Enjoy your time, and just see where it goes from there.

posted April 06, 2012 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
I'm a Sag myself and I love other Saggies! I'd pursue that instead of a Virgo. Virgo can be somewhat of a wet blanket to us. Going just by Sun signs here since that's been my obsession lately. I don't think we pay enough attention to the Sun signs!

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posted April 23, 2012 03:50 PM            

Our updated synastry:

His natal chart:

posted April 24, 2012 07:37 PM            

I too have Mars in the 12th close to the ascendant although his is closer.

My guess is that he's intense/agressive but it's buried deep within. This aspect is further intesified by sun in the 12th.

Your 5th house ruler is gemini which means depending on the placement and condition mercury will determine how your romance plays out.

In this case we see Mercury in your 9th house which suggests romance around communication of ideas relating to philsophy, spirutalism/religion, travel, foreign lands.

It suggests you like men who are exotic and with mars in Pisces you like men who champion for the underdogs and causes and with Sun in Leo you like your men to be a bit self-centered as well as stubborn but fierce loyal and determined.

This gentleman has his 5th house in Taurus which means his romance is plodding methodical and slow to act however his venus is deposited in scorpio which suggests that despite his slow plodding nature in romance he's very intense in realtionships, and is prone to jealously/disappointment if you don't measure up to his expectations. Physical romance with women who are friends (Taurus + Scorpio in the 11th) is where he tends to be in the romance category. However note that since uranus is nearby to venus there is wild inconsistency.

His venus is in your ninth so his romance/love will affect your ninth house matters.

His 7th house is in Cancer which means the moon is sign of importance in partnerships/marriage (1st one)

The moon falls in his 7th house which suggests he is very charismatic and and exerts a powerful influence on others.

His moon falls in your 6th house which possibly suggests an inimical realtionship in a marriage/partnership

We also see a t-square with his saturn opposite your jupiter squaring your sun and his neptune falling in his 12th house and your 10th house

which means that the stress of his neptune being squared will collapse in his 6th house

and the stress of your sun being squared by saturn (duty, restriction) and jupiter (expansion, luck)

falls in your 4th house.

So his 12th house issues with subconscious illusions/fantasies is at odds with his 9th house restrictions/duties and 3rd house expansion/luck (communcation/siblings) it all falls to his day to day in gemnini or his day to day communcations

your 10th house issues with your career are challenged by your duty your partner and self growth which manifests in you communcations regarding domestic living situation.

posted April 24, 2012 08:12 PM            

thanks for taking a look

posted April 30, 2012 03:26 PM            

Sorry for the delay. Things have been busy and it took me a while to review your composite.

There are some interesting aspects both good and bad.

Composite moon in the 4th is an excellent place for the moon. The 4th house moon is accentuated by jupiter which would suggest expansive emotional ties to home.

Moon trine Mars makes for easy emotional interaction

Jupiter opposite Uranus and Mercury in the 11th seems to suggest that distrubanaces/upheaval would tend to come from friends relating to communications specifically relating to organization and details.

There's a Yod forming at Jupiter in the 4th which seems to suggest home is of the utmost importance and making sure to keep on a stable but plodding path when it comes to finances is important.

North Node conjunct vertex brings in a strong element of a karmic or fated relationship. It suggests you've met a person that will push you towards your path of growth and as a duo your path is going in the same direction.

Ruler of the 7th (moon) in the 4th is a very good sign it means that the relationsip is about sensitivity and nuturing which manifestes in the shared home.

Saturn conjunct pluto composite in the 9th suggests through duty and obligation the relationship obtains spiritual growth.

Saturn squaring mars suggests that you two will run hot and cold and that patience is required to avoid getting in each other's way.

Pluto square mars suggests that both parties need to be cool calm and collected otherwise there are power plays dealing with invalidation of the other partner this usually manifests in arguments regarding topic relating to insignifcant issues that are the vehicles for escalations in anger.

It appears giventhe the 9th house as it realtes to the 12th house will be the source of arguments which could imply issues regarding religious beliefs

Venus square mars brings inital sparks but over time it can fade as you both love in different ways and act out love in different ways.

Mercury conjunct Uranus suggests that you two get each other through communication in a way that not many others do.

Mercury Cnjunct Uranus trine Mars suggests an easying going style of communicating and that both of you are at ease with the unorthodox manner in which you communicate.

Sun conjunct Neptune brings a passion for arts and brings a dream like quality to the relationship showing the illusion of a soulmate. In this case in the 11th house there appears to be a soulmate friendship connection.

posted May 02, 2012 12:04 AM            

What do you think about all this Neptune? Good or bad?

We have Neptune conjunct ASC/Mars, Neptune conj Sun, Nep square moon and Jupiter . . .

posted May 02, 2012 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Thefish:

We also see a t-square with his saturn opposite your jupiter squaring your sun and his neptune falling in his 12th house and your 10th house

which means that the stress of his neptune being squared will collapse in his 6th house

and the stress of your sun being squared by saturn (duty, restriction) and jupiter (expansion, luck)

falls in your 4th house.

So his 12th house issues with subconscious illusions/fantasies is at odds with his 9th house restrictions/duties and 3rd house expansion/luck (communcation/siblings) it all falls to his day to day in gemnini or his day to day communcations

your 10th house issues with your career are challenged by your duty your partner and self growth which manifests in you communcations regarding domestic living situation.

I'd like to see the composite if possible.

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I'm confused by this, is there any way you can elaborate or re-word? Mainly the part from "So his . . " on.