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Topic: Forcing love???controlling?
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 710 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 26, 2012 02:16 PM
Hi allI wondered peoples opinion on love: have been told by family members I "should" find a british guy,no more international men (which to all my saggie planets seems not cool as i adore guy from other countries or background). I am a believer in organic chemistry, rather than forcing something. But then is hard to have faith in universe sometimes...I worry that I will miss the boat... Can we control too much? Sparkling IP: Logged |
doommlord Moderator Posts: 847 From: israel Registered: Dec 2011
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posted August 26, 2012 02:26 PM
well you filter 95% of the people in your life from being your partners from one reason or another...at least thats my opinion...so do you want to cut more from those small 5% based on something so small as nationality? in the end you might fall for someone you didnt expect...so keep your options open and your eyes searching IP: Logged |
AshSkye Knowflake Posts: 217 From: Leicester Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 26, 2012 02:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by SparklingSag: Hi allI wondered peoples opinion on love: have been told by family members I "should" find a british guy,no more international men (which to all my saggie planets seems not cool as i adore guy from other coubtries or background). I am a believer in organic chemistry, rather than forcing something. But then is hard to have faith in universe sometimes...I worry that I will miss the boat... Can we control too much? Sparkling
Don't worry that you'll miss the boat, trust me if it's for you, the universe will make it so that you notice it and act on it, also if it's for you, it will be. If you 'miss the boat' it wasn't for you Our lives have been mapped out for us, the universe knows when and where these things will occur and so will you when you pass that bridge Love and Light!
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 710 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 26, 2012 02:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by AshSkye: Don't worry that you'll miss the boat, trust me if it's for you, the universe will make it so that you notice it and act on it, also if it's for you, it will be. If you 'miss the boat' it wasn't for you Our lives have been mapped out for us, the universe knows when and where these things will occur and so will you when you pass that bridgeLove and Light!
Hi Ashskye and Doomlord, Thanks, that's made me feel better. I should not listen to the pressure. To be honest, this past year was about me, getting to know me, figuring out my past and going through therapy regarding my dysfunctional family and parents divorce. I also avoided a potentially abusive relationship so was lucky. Perhaps I should count my blessings and remember that my soul chose this path. Also, I am sensitive and sometimes have moments in dreams that come true later, always an indicator to me that things are mapped out... Sparkling IP: Logged | |