posted November 20, 2012 09:38 AM            

Well, this is the question.

I have been with my present partner for two years and everything seems to be going ok, although I have noticed that there isn't the same attentiveness on his part in the past few months,he seems pre-occupied with something. But when I ask him "is everyting ok? he says everything is great, it's just that he's feeling stressed with work. That may be the case and it's possible I am being paranoid; but i've noticed that we argue quite often about trivial things and seem to irritate each other which we never did before.

I do know that he misses home a lot too. He is originally from Texas and moved to Ireland 5 years ago. He talks a lot about his family there and I think he will eventually go back home.

There is a 10 year age gap between us but it has never been an issue from the start. In some ways we are very alike and in other ways we are complete opposites.

His birthday is 12 February 1976 - Dallas,10pm
Mine is 11 january 1966 - Derry, 4.20am

I have attached the composite chart for your perusal. If anyone has the time and would like to give an opinion , I would be grateful.

Thanks and best wishes
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