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AriesKat
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posted December 10, 2012 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's been a slow build up almost a year and I think I'll be getting physical with Him soon. I'm a little worried that after we do get physical then problems will arise since that's pretty much how my love life plays out. Do we have long lasting potential? Can we have real love?

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AriesKat
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posted December 10, 2012 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
potential of love or something serious?

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Haplesschild*
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posted December 10, 2012 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Based on the composite, there will be alot of conflict and power struggles with this one.
The synastry also suggests some explosive fights and conflict...(mars hard aspect uranus both ways)
I don't think it'll last too long. Sorry =(

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posted December 10, 2012 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is there any good that will outweigh the bad? We have barely had any disagreements.

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posted December 10, 2012 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would you run the other way? Ive tried already but were still keep sticking around.

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posted December 10, 2012 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
why would you run from this? your synastry with this guy looks really good. i don't have a clue about composite charts but if i had so many emotional connections to my own bf i;d be very happy. i vote for long-term potential with this guy. you have a sun-venus connection both ways so you obviously find one another very physically attractive. and you have moon-mars both ways, so emotionally you should be feeling pretty connected to this guy in the physical and more emotional sense. the only negative thing i see is the guy has his moon and saturn in cap, and that's a really tough placement for love - it inhibits. to me it looks like you'd be equally involved in the relationship; each of you investing the same and getting the same from it. you have a good basis of understanding with each other - i'd stay with him and not look for anything negative - focus on your strong connection with him. just my opinion

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posted December 10, 2012 10:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
why would you run from this? your synastry with this guy looks really good. i don't have a clue about composite charts but if i had so many emotional connections to my own bf i;d be very happy. i vote for long-term potential with this guy. you have a sun-venus connection both ways so you obviously find one another very physically attractive. and you have moon-mars both ways, so emotionally you should be feeling pretty connected to this guy in the physical and more emotional sense. the only negative thing i see is the guy has his moon and saturn in cap, and that's a really tough placement for love - it inhibits. to me it looks like you'd be equally involved in the relationship; each of you investing the same and getting the same from it. you have a good basis of understanding with each other - i'd stay with him and not look for anything negative - focus on your strong connection with him. just my opinion

Aww thanx so much Starmoon, I havent really been focusing on the negative thus far but I am getting more attached to him and revealing my feelings more and that makes me a bit insecure. I dont want to give to much away or come on too strong. But thanx for the support. As far as the cap placements go He isnt as unemotional and cold as I expected a cap moon to be. And he has been pretty open emotionally and doesnt shun my emtional sensitive side, I think he likes it, so far.

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posted December 10, 2012 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We also havent had that "exclusive" talk either but we also havent been pyhsical. I dont want to rush anything.

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Haplesschild*
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posted December 10, 2012 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Usually the composite and aspects of synastry start emerging when you're with them longer. If you're with them for the first few months, only some aspects will play out while others appear more prominent later on.

You should still continue with this of course, don't be scared off.

The sun, pluto and mars t square is going to be difficult though. Be prepared.

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posted December 10, 2012 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Usually the composite and aspects of synastry start emerging when you're with them longer. If you're with them for the first few months, only some aspects will play out while others appear more prominent later on.

You should still continue with this of course, don't be scared off.

The sun, pluto and mars t square is going to be difficult though. Be prepared.


Difficult in what capacity? We have been seeing Each other since last January. When will these things start to arise?

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posted December 12, 2012 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^Hey no, that's not true. Mars-uranus DW doesnt mean explosive arguments, it just means you are energetic together (from grupovenus.com's report..I didn't make this up, no mention of arguments for the DW description)

Also there is nothing in the composite to indicate explosive arguments either lol
You have moon sextile venus, sun conjunct jupiter, mercury conjunct venus, sun opp pluto. This will be a caring and meaningful relationship! But I need to see the synastry to be sure...

so can you please copy and paste the grupovenus.com compatibility for lovers report thanks much

its hard for me to interpret those synastry wheel thingies

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posted December 12, 2012 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They have a t square involving mars and pluto, conflict and power struggles are going to be happening prevalently.

And mars square Uranus echo the natal:

What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Uranus is square your partner's Mars? You both want what you want now what ever that takes, wherever that takes you. Intense impatience, a assertive and challenging nature, and a reckless sense of freedom can set you up for wild unpredictable times when you disagree with your partner. If your romantic partner's Uranus is square your Mars expect sudden shifts in direction. Your sexuality can go from electrifying to a personal need for batteries in a matter of moments. What begins as wild ad free together could cross over to wildly deviant unless other factors mitigate this aspect.

According to sky view zone. I had an ex with this aspect in his natal. He had a really unpredictable temper.

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posted December 18, 2012 10:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
They have a t square involving mars and pluto, conflict and power struggles are going to be happening prevalently.

And mars square Uranus echo the natal:

What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Uranus is square your partner's Mars? You both want what you want now what ever that takes, wherever that takes you. Intense impatience, a assertive and challenging nature, and a reckless sense of freedom can set you up for wild unpredictable times when you disagree with your partner. If your romantic partner's Uranus is square your Mars expect sudden shifts in direction. Your sexuality can go from electrifying to a personal need for batteries in a matter of moments. What begins as wild ad free together could cross over to wildly deviant unless other factors mitigate this aspect.

According to sky view zone. I had an ex with this aspect in his natal. He had a really unpredictable temper.


Hey Happless can you back up your statements please? difficult in what way? We have yet to really have a argument and when we disagree we approach things very maturely, he brings that out in me, where normally I would go all Aries crazy he soothes me in a way that I cant respond the way I normally would. And other than the negative things you point out can asnwer the question I intially asked? will this be a meaningful relationship based on your knowledge of reading synastry. Will we be happy despite the negative aspects?

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posted December 18, 2012 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
^Hey no, that's not true. Mars-uranus DW doesnt mean explosive arguments, it just means you are energetic together (from grupovenus.com's report..I didn't make this up, no mention of arguments for the DW description)

Also there is nothing in the composite to indicate explosive arguments either lol
You have moon sextile venus, sun conjunct jupiter, mercury conjunct venus, sun opp pluto. This will be a caring and meaningful relationship! But I need to see the synastry to be sure...

so can you please copy and paste the grupovenus.com compatibility for lovers report thanks much

its hard for me to interpret those synastry wheel thingies


thanx RAS is there a free version because they only post the short version

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AriesKat
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posted December 18, 2012 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
or would that be just as helpful?

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posted December 20, 2012 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes that's the version i mean, post that one

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posted December 20, 2012 03:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lotus white posted a thread about synastry aspects. Why they sometimes do and don't work, it's in Astro2.0. Just because planets make certain aspects doesn't mean the ones that MATTER TO YOU SPECIFICALLY are triggered. Look to your 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers.

Your 5th house ruled by Cancer:
His sun Sextile your Moon - I'm not positive, but since the 5th house is naturally ruled by Leo i'm sure that it being his Sun aspecting your 5th house ruler makes even more of an impact. But I would take this to mean that genuinely like who he really is. He makes you happy, and you being the moon person are supportive towards him in ways he probably needs.
His Saturn sextile your Moon - probably why he can get you to talk about your emotions instead of blowing up!

Your 7th house ruled by Libra:
His Mars trine your Venus: Sexy time lol I think this produces less of a lust and more of a dedication sexually. Don't get me wrong, the attraciton is there, I just think that Mars/Venus are given a *little* too much credit. Venus is young and slightly immature, Mars is impetuous and hotheaded. IMO the square produces sexual friction because there's so much raw energy. You guys have it flowing smoothly between you with the trine though.. kudos
His Jupiter Sextile your Venus: the planet of luck and growth aspecting your DSC ruler.. Could mean you gain from this relationsihp. Be it material things, spiritual growth (his jupiter opp your neptune) this sounds pleasant

Your 8th house in Scorpio:
His Jupiter trine your Pluto: The planet of luck and growth and the planet of transformation coming together under a trine.. That makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside lol He can help you, and truly care for you while he does it, not trying to change you for superficial/selfish reasons..
His Mercury opposite your Pluto: deep conversations. Trust. You two can probably talk anything out, another reason he can keep your Aries temper in check. You can freely discuss anything between the two of you and not feel that you'll be judged or misheard.

I wasn't sure if you just cast a noon chart for him or if that was his actual birth time. If it's the actual I can come back and elaborate on his relationship house rulers as well

At least on your side, you've got a good thing it looks like. Oh and I wanted to say, your Venus trine his Saturn.. That's binding, for both of you. It may not be a romantic relationship forever, but he's definitely special to you.

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posted December 20, 2012 08:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LionFish:
Lotus white posted a thread about synastry aspects. Why they sometimes do and don't work, it's in Astro2.0. Just because planets make certain aspects doesn't mean the ones that MATTER TO YOU SPECIFICALLY are triggered. Look to your 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers.

Your 5th house ruled by Cancer:
His sun Sextile your Moon - I'm not positive, but since the 5th house is naturally ruled by Leo i'm sure that it being his Sun aspecting your 5th house ruler makes even more of an impact. But I would take this to mean that genuinely like who he really is. He makes you happy, and you being the moon person are supportive towards him in ways he probably needs.
His Saturn sextile your Moon - probably why he can get you to talk about your emotions instead of blowing up!

Your 7th house ruled by Libra:
His Mars trine your Venus: Sexy time lol I think this produces less of a lust and more of a dedication sexually. Don't get me wrong, the attraciton is there, I just think that Mars/Venus are given a *little* too much credit. Venus is young and slightly immature, Mars is impetuous and hotheaded. IMO the square produces sexual friction because there's so much raw energy. You guys have it flowing smoothly between you with the trine though.. kudos
His Jupiter Sextile your Venus: the planet of luck and growth aspecting your DSC ruler.. Could mean you gain from this relationsihp. Be it material things, spiritual growth (his jupiter opp your neptune) this sounds pleasant

Your 8th house in Scorpio:
His Jupiter trine your Pluto: The planet of luck and growth and the planet of transformation coming together under a trine.. That makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside lol He can help you, and truly care for you while he does it, not trying to change you for superficial/selfish reasons..
His Mercury opposite your Pluto: deep conversations. Trust. You two can probably talk anything out, another reason he can keep your Aries temper in check. You can freely discuss anything between the two of you and not feel that you'll be judged or misheard.

I wasn't sure if you just cast a noon chart for him or if that was his actual birth time. If it's the actual I can come back and elaborate on his relationship house rulers as well

At least on your side, you've got a good thing it looks like. Oh and I wanted to say, your Venus trine his Saturn.. That's binding, for both of you. It may not be a romantic relationship forever, but he's definitely special to you.


Yeah I just put noon because I dont know his birth time. If you interpret things from his end will there be chance it isnt accurate because of the birthtime?

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LionFish
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posted December 21, 2012 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AriesKat:
Yeah I just put noon because I dont know his birth time. If you interpret things from his end will there be chance it isnt accurate because of the birthtime?


I can't interpret an overlay for your chart on his without an accurate birth time for him. House placements are determined by the the ascendant, which is determined by the birth time/location. His Moon sign is most likely still Capricorn, but possibly not at that degree. Aspects between planets can still be interpreted though, just not as relationship house rulers.
Unfortunately this means the composite chart is inaccurate, too.
See if you can get his birth time and repost the charts if you do

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posted December 21, 2012 12:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LionFish:
I can't interpret an overlay for your chart on his without an accurate birth time for him. House placements are determined by the the ascendant, which is determined by the birth time/location. His Moon sign is most likely still Capricorn, but possibly not at that degree. Aspects between planets can still be interpreted though, just not as relationship house rulers.
Unfortunately this means the composite chart is inaccurate, too.
See if you can get his birth time and repost the charts if you do



I've always wondered how to weasel that info out of someone without appearing strange. Lol

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posted December 21, 2012 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AriesKat:
I've always wondered how to weasel that info out of someone without appearing strange. Lol


Lol.. I've never thought of it that way. I'm a bit eccentric anyway.. Well, no, I'm not wealthy so I'm just weird. I ask friends, people I work with. One of my first questions after hanging out with somebody for a while is their birthday because I play a "guess the sun sign" game in my head while I get to know them. And by "hang out with somebody for a while" I mean a couple hours. And most people give me the information. Even the hestitant ones haha

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I've also found the best way to go about it is to be perfectly honest. Some people will be really interested and some people will not believe in it. Either way most of the time they give up the info. Willingness or indifference.. I care not as long as I get what I'm after
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