posted April 20, 2013 11:40 AM            

I would just appreciate anyone who could provide any insight into this relationship

I know we have a love stelluim

I know we share a deep soul connection, I think we may actual have a soul mate connection here. I got this "fated" feeling when I met him.

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posted April 20, 2013 12:02 PM            

As you can see there is a love stellium but since everything is clustered to one area of the chart, even though its not conjunct, it points to a stronger bond than just having a regular love stellium, because in astrology, patterns are "gradual," as i believe "the mars effect" experiment shows.

Anyway. You have moon trine pluto which is wonderful, as well as moon in negative aspect venus in both composite and synastry which is awesome as well. Both aspect descriptions are in my "Most important aspects" link in my signature. In synastry, that sun-venus-mars conjunct pluto is pretty intense. But there are a few other problems, such as uranus not being too far from that stellium either, and moon conjunct saturn. Neptune afflictions arent a huge deal in synastry in my opinion, much more of a problem in composite.

As you can see in the synastry wheel, most your planets are also clustered together in one area, which would mean lots of either conjunctions, or wide orbed conjunctions. That is fantastic, as conjunctions are the most significant aspect in both synastry and composite charts. Moon negative aspect to venus shows that there is something that is keeping you from being together at first. Always a family/race/someones currently still in a relationship issue. You can def be together, but you'd have to wait. This aspect shows such loving feelings that it'd def be worth the waiting. Either way the fact that this synastry and composite both show all the planets clustered together is very significant as well as rare. Especially to see in BOTH of the charts. This is definitely a strong connection.

posted April 20, 2013 02:46 PM            

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posted April 21, 2013 02:33 PM            

personally I seem to be weirdly drawn to Saturn-Sun square, as it happened too often in my life. I suppose it has to do with my natal Moon-Saturn-aspects. Seems people with natal resonance to Saturn can work with that energy a tad easier, or feel on some level it is necessary for their development. Other people though might reject this energy from the get-go.

But if a Saturn relationship or connection is being accepted, it is here to stay, for a LONG time. At least the aftermath effects will affect your life quite strongly, even after the relationship has crumbled (though some do not crumble: Ask the Clintons. I think they have a mutual Sun-Saturn aspect: conjunction and square).

Especially Saturn to Sun, Moon, ASC, Venus, nodal axis and interestingly Mars as well seems to have this kind of glue (Mars-saturn is debatable though).

A less heavy felt kind of glue is conjunctions to the angles, especially by Sun, Moon, the angles themselves or angle rulers.
This kind of glue is more the effect of a strongly felt connection on a personal level.
People with that seem to stick it for the long haul, just because they complement each other well. Have a common ground (unless other aspects spoil it of course).

posted April 21, 2013 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by beijing07:
@ RAS moon conjuct Saturn. It all makes sense to me now The way it has manifested its way in out friendship was through major emotional distancing. Him and I would do anything to avoid talking about our feelings. Even when problems arose which made either one of us feel angry, annoyed, jealous, or frustrated, we would not, and COULD not, voice our feelings to one another. I felt that if I told him how I felt, he would reject me, and he felt the same way. Even though I knew he had true feelings for me, self-doubt and fear of rejection would take over, and I’d end up keeping my feelings to myself. The same went for affection; affection did not flow easily between us due to deep-seated fears of rejection, which was ultimately frustrating for both parties. Also, neither of us ever felt we could express our playful, romantic sides around one another; I felt he would not approve of any kind of childishness from me, so I kept my mouth shut.

On the positive side, I think the is one of the things that is giving it this binding feeling. like i just have to have him in my life. I think its the desire to find out what the other person feels.. The emotional distancing is both frustrating and intriguing me. I want to know what is in his heart, and i believe he is dying to know how I feel. You really believe that he will come out of that relationship and when he does. You think we will Date

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Saturn positive aspects are good but the hard aspects (conjunction, sq, opp) are never good. Moon conj saturn isnt good in any case. What makes you feel bonded is the clustering of all the planets together in both synastry and composite