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Twitterbird05
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posted June 18, 2013 10:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Ceridwen,

I've never had a card reading but could really use some insight right now. Could you do one of those readings for me that you were doing the other day?

What do you need to know to do it?

Thanks.

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Ceridwen
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posted June 18, 2013 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1. how you reveal yourself:
4 of cups

Somewhat shy and reserved, withdrawn. Are you still healing from a previous relationship?
This could be a reason why you seem to hold back.


2. how he reveals himself:
Page of sword

Witty. Very intelligent, with a sharp tongue. Quite entertaining to be around him, as there is a lot of intellectual stimulation.
However the Page of swords is very mind-oriented, and relationships are not high on his priority-list.
Actually it is one of th court cards that are known to be here today- gone tomorrow.
Unless something or someone manages to catches his interest again and again.

It doesn`t mean he IS like this, just that he might show this side of himself, or come across like this.


3. how you see him
King of Pentacles

Actually you see the potential in him of creating something lasting and becoming a mature reliable partner. Someone you can depend on and have a committed relationship with.

4. how he sees you
2 of swords

As undecided. Like you are stuck, or turning a blind eye, and simply refuse to make that decision.


5. how you see the relationship
Devil

There seems to be a lot of fear attached to this. On the one hand you are extremely tempted and drawn to this relationship, on the other hand you pull away. Probably you fear that the attraction could become too much, totally consume you and you could become too dependend.
You might also fear this would be a lopsided relationship.
But the temptation...
Is the sxual attraction running very strong?


6. how he sees tzhe relationship
Hierophant

He sees the potential of lasting commitment, in a very traditional sense maybe.
Sometimes though the Hierophant can also point to a platonic relationship, depending on surrounding cards; since there are no wand cards in his part of the spread, I am not sure how strong his physical attraction here is.

7. What you desire of your partner
Page of cups

More romance. Being more open to outpouring his feelings and sharing them.
I guess you simply wish being in love, even if it might be just a dream of love for now. But then again every relationship has to start somewhere, and the Page often indicates the beginning of romantic feelings. And that might be what you desire.

If this is a long existing relationship I`d say you want a reawakening of these romantic vibes.

8. What he desires
6 of cups

Well, isn`t that a sweet card?
He wants both of you to enjoy the feelings and also the feelings of emotional connectedness you are sharing.


9. What is it about
Queen of Swords

I think it is about breaking through any kind of intellectual walls, one of you or both may hide behind and learning to open up and trust again.

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Twitterbird05
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posted June 18, 2013 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow Ceridwen, this is an incredible reading. The second card especially.

As far as sexual attraction goes, I definitely feel it strongly and think he feels it too. But then again I am not sure. His pluto is conjunct my Venus and trine my Mars, so I think the physical attraction there in the synastry. But maybe I am wrong.

I could see how relationships might not be a priority for him right now, or maybe ever. I don't know whether he wants me to be more certain about the relationship or is just apathetic. At this point I don't know how to break through my fear or the intellectual walls. I see him always having lots of attention from women and it intimidates me. It does worry me that he might be here today and gone tomorrow and I will have to pick up the pieces.

Are there any other overall impressions from the cards?
Thanks so much.

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Twitterbird05
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posted June 18, 2013 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also the 6 of cups is interesting because I feel a very strong childhood/home connection to him, even though we met as adults.

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Twitterbird05
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posted June 24, 2013 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, Ceri, I took the Queen of Swords to heart and told him how I feel and expressed the things I was holding back. He said he is not interested in moving towards an intimate relationship. Still unsure of whether or not he feels the attraction, but I guess it doesn't matter now. Always unanswered questions.

Could you pull a few cards for me to help me figure out how to move forward?

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