posted July 24, 2013 05:42 PM            

Lovers Reversed
Ace of Pentacles Reversed
The Sun

posted July 24, 2013 07:03 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Anyone, please? My question was why my guy friend sent me a message today saying hi after around a month without speaking. He said hi and how am I doing, but then stopped replying after that. I asked why did he message me today as in what does he want/wanted? I will add additional details to see if anyone can pick up anything that is currently going on without me saying. If I give more details, then it's kind of like feeding info. lol

Lovers Reversed
Ace of Pentacles Reversed
The Sun

Thanks in advance!! =)

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Hmmm... did have a big jonesin' for you? Or could you tell? The Lovers reversed is like... it feels weird, doesn't it? Almost like, "I want YOU? Oh God! What's happening?" Wires got crossed, somebody got freaked out, rejection maybe? But I feel like it was under surface. Nothing ever got mentioned, but it was just... understood? Idk. The Ace makes me think something happened to him. Either he got over his weirdness, took a stab at it, and it all came flooding back... idk. All I keep thinking is, "What a weird guy. Totally bizarre." I keep seeing him as the dude who would stand on a corner, dressed in like plaid and jeans, and just mumbling and yelling. Looks like things are gonna turn around though. He'll get his crap together and hopefully talk to you about it. Otherwise, he's gonna sweep it under the rug and just pretend nothing ever happened.

posted July 24, 2013 07:20 PM            

Okay, yes there "jonesin" thing is correct. Let me just tell you that he's in a long term relationship and they have 3 kids together. He always had a crush on me, but not sure about now. We have remained friends for all of these years (since we were 12-13). We first met online, then after a couple of years in real life. I did like him, but I always thought he wasn't the commitment type, especially since we were practically best friends and he would tell me his little stories about the girls he would be with, etc. He once tried leaving an ex of his for me, but I told him definitely no.

Yes, I sort of rejected him, but not because I didn't like him - but because I always thought he wasn't the commitment type. I just thought he wasn't right for me, but I guess I was wrong =). We talk once in a while, he told me he loved me the other day (he was drunk) and that was the last time we spoke until today when he sent me a message. We spoke briefly and then bam. He stopped..not sure if his gf (she knows about our little history) interfered, or the kids, or what! It's just annoying when people do that. Message me, but then stop talking -_-. Wonder what he really wanted.

Thanks again Becca. You seem to have picked up on most of it =P

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Hmmm... did have a big jonesin' for you? Or could you tell? The Lovers reversed is like... it feels weird, doesn't it? Almost like, "I want YOU? Oh God! What's happening?" Wires got crossed, somebody got freaked out, rejection maybe? But I feel like it was under surface. Nothing ever got mentioned, but it was just... understood? Idk. The Ace makes me think something happened to him. Either he got over his weirdness, took a stab at it, and it all came flooding back... idk. All I keep thinking is, "What a weird guy. Totally bizarre." I keep seeing him as the dude who would stand on a corner, dressed in like plaid and jeans, and just mumbling and yelling. Looks like things are gonna turn around though. He'll get his crap together and hopefully talk to you about it. Otherwise, he's gonna sweep it under the rug and just pretend nothing ever happened.

But yeah, he's going through something funky right now. Did you rebuff him???? Not necessarily sexually, but like, in any sense?

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posted July 24, 2013 08:19 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Lol Becca, you always make me laugh .

Okay, yes there "jonesin" thing is correct. Let me just tell you that he's in a long term relationship and they have 3 kids together. He always had a crush on me, but not sure about now. We have remained friends for all of these years (since we were 12-13). We first met online, then after a couple of years in real life. I did like him, but I always thought he wasn't the commitment type, especially since we were practically best friends and he would tell me his little stories about the girls he would be with, etc. He once tried leaving an ex of his for me, but I told him definitely no.

Yes, I sort of rejected him, but not because I didn't like him - but because I always thought he wasn't the commitment type. I just thought he wasn't right for me, but I guess I was wrong =). We talk once in a while, he told me he loved me the other day (he was drunk) and that was the last time we spoke until today when he sent me a message. We spoke briefly and then bam. He stopped..not sure if his gf (she knows about our little history) interfered, or the kids, or what! It's just annoying when people do that. Message me, but then stop talking -_-. Wonder what he really wanted.

Thanks again Becca. You seem to have picked up on most of it =P

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Well... the Sun has only ever come up for "pregnancy" for me 2 times in the years I've been reading, but... maybe he's expecting? And that put the kibosh on it??

Yeah, him being drunk I think is where the weird guy came in. I just kept thinking rambling, ridiculous, out of control.

posted July 24, 2013 08:28 PM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Well... the Sun has only ever come up for "pregnancy" for me 2 times in the years I've been reading, but... maybe he's expecting? And that put the kibosh on it??

Yeah, him being drunk I think is where the weird guy came in. I just kept thinking rambling, ridiculous, out of control.

I hate it when men act like little kids. I hope he comes around and starts being upfront, especially since you guys have such a long history together. That kind of friendship deserves honesty, ya know?

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