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posted January 28, 2014 08:01 PM            

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can exchange for compatibility reading. Thanks

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posted January 29, 2014 06:36 AM            

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Please. Im crying everyday.

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posted January 29, 2014 07:37 PM            

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posted January 29, 2014 07:53 PM            

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Thanks very much okay will do this during my lunchtime at work tomorrow

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posted January 29, 2014 08:05 PM            

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I'm not sure how willing you'll be to do mine once I say all of this, but I'd rather be honest than not...

I don't see things going well with him at all. It seems his attention is very fickle; very much on his own terms and to suit his own needs. I'm getting that he seems very immature spiritually, and what's worse, his immaturity and selfishness is beginning to sap your spirit and center as well. While it's not intentional (it's just where he is in his journey), it's very destructive.

The good news is that I see potential for real happiness for you after (IF) you make him go and take the time to grieve making that decision for yourself...but I have to say that I see this as a necessary step to moving into what it is you really want.

So my answer is this: I fully expect he'll stay around, to some varying capacities (which primarily suit his own needs...) for as long as you will allow him to. But you MUST ask yourself every time you allow him to: "At what cost to myself am I doing this?"

I really hope this helps. If you have any further questions, please don't hesitate.

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posted January 29, 2014 08:21 PM            

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I very much appreciate that. And very accurate yup yup yup

Can you please tell me if he is being fickle only bc he is proud, or does he really not feel very strongly anout me? What is going on? Is he telling me the truth about not missing me bc I really dont believe him. He felt like a soulmate. Does he feel the same way about me?

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posted January 29, 2014 08:30 PM            

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He cant live without me. He will definitely be back. He cant be without talking to me. He was the one texting me almost everyday when I always needed more space.

I have been trying get him to leave for a year now since we dated. But he wont stop texting me, saying he doesnt miss me too. And only two days ago did he finally admit that he misses me terribly. Now hes back to denying it bc we had an argument. But i only talk to him bc i want him to finally be hones with me though. I finally got him to be. But he never said a heartfelt sorry for lying to me for so long about not missing me and not feeling as strongly which made me cry so much. He did say sorry about it, and said that he had lied and didnt mean those things, but it wasnt as heartfelt as i deserved...he made me cry so much.

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posted January 29, 2014 08:32 PM            

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No, it's not at all as simple as pride or not feeling deeply for you; I think he feels quite deeply for you, but his need is almost vampiric - he draws on your energy compulsively even though he's completely unable to reciprocate to the level from which he takes. He misses you genuinely enough, but you can't provide the growth that he needs in order to be a true partner without sacrificing a good portion yourself, only not in a good way. I really see that this is all ultimately in your hands, but that you'll compromise yourself in considerable ways - ones which you'll regret - if you continue to perpetuate it.

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posted January 29, 2014 08:36 PM            

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Are you psychic?

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posted January 29, 2014 08:42 PM            

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but his need is almost vampiric - he draws on your energy compulsively

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Absolutely. He would text me all day everyday while we were dating. And he would use our kissing to heal him from needing to get high (weed). He still texts me all day. And exactly, he cant be vulnerable enough to give on the same level that he takes. He has serious issues. Hard drug issues in the past and selling, suicidal in the past, pushing ppl he loves away, he has told me about these things.

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posted January 29, 2014 08:44 PM            

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I am empathic.

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posted January 29, 2014 08:45 PM            

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Thank you very much. Brilliant reading!

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posted January 29, 2014 08:46 PM            

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Can i ask what he was meant to learn from me?

And me from him?

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posted January 29, 2014 08:56 PM            

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His journey right now is one of seeking outside himself to heal wounds deep INside. It just doesn't work that way. There is nothing you can do to pull him up...but he will most assuredly pull you down if you continue to allow his presence into your daily life. We all want to believe that our love/presence/spirit/soul can heal others. The catch is that they have to 1) have the tools innate to self-heal as we only hold their hand and/or cheer from the sidelines, and 2) are willing to put in the work to heal themselves.

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posted January 29, 2014 08:57 PM            

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Funny you asked those questions, I was typing the above as you asked them

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posted January 29, 2014 09:08 PM            

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Wow, thank you so much. Such a truly healing reading that was. You are amazing.

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posted January 29, 2014 09:34 PM            

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Aww, thanks very much. I really hope it helps.

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posted January 30, 2014 09:35 PM            

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Im sorry I didnt have time today dring lunch or after work bc i had to take my lil sis to her class. She doesnt have class tomorrow so i should have time tom after work since lunch apparently isnt enough time

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posted January 30, 2014 10:35 PM            

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Can you do somethin cool :P
Like describe one of my family member's personalities or somethin

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posted January 30, 2014 10:57 PM            

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LOL! I've never really tried anything like that before, so I honestly have no idea if it will work in that context or not But what the hey, I'm not up to much this evening.

Okay, before I pulled anything I saw like, an aunt - someone 'once-removed'. My first card pulled was a Queen of Spades, then a Queen of Diamonds, then a Jack of Hearts. So yes, I'm pretty sure this is an aunt, and that she's alone now. Kids are grown, husband is gone and she poured her identity into being a wife and a mom, so now she's...kinda lost.

I'm seeing someone ultimately kind, but a bit of a busybody. Doesn't really have much of a life of her own, so she compensates by insinuating herself into others' lives. It's not malicious, but she likes to know everyone's business...and she LOVES to talk about it, which sometimes causes frustration and rifts. She honestly doesn't understand that what she does is invasive, she's just lonely. And I think she likes pets, but I don't think she has any, and I don't know why - a small dog to pour her love into would be a great companion; it would set her at ease and make her feel not-so-alone. A terrier. RESCUED.

Does any of this resonate? It's clear picture to me, but I honestly don't know whether to trust it because of the context, you know? So I'm really curious!

And as for my question, if you don't mind I'd rather just change it, if you don't mind. I have the answer I need to that one, so let's go for something easier (and more fun): will I get a Valentine's surprise this year? I really hope so, I haven't had a Valentine in a few years

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posted January 31, 2014 04:36 AM            

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I dont have an aunt like that

Try again with a closer family member tho---someone id knnow very well----like gma, bro, sis, mom, dad

I cant do tarot Your question's gonna have to be two birthdates
I only do composite and synastry

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posted January 31, 2014 10:05 AM            

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LostTaurus. Do you think he will be back? And how soon?

Thanks to ur reading i wont be texting him back when he does. But i just need to know if he will bc he couldnt just forget about me like that and he is very young..guys mature. Maybe if we cant be together now i might ignore his text now but text him myself a few years from now

And what did u want in exchange! Do u still want the compatibility with the guy u gave me or is there anyone new ud like me to look into

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posted January 31, 2014 10:32 AM            

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No, I think I have all of the information I need on him, but thanks.

As for your situation(s): again, yes, I believe he'll keep on coming back again and again as long as you allow him to, but I couldn't say when for sure. Soon, I expect. The onus of this lay in your hands. But again I'll caution you to ask yourself each time you allow him back in, to ask yourself, "At what cost to myself am I doing this?" At this point, I think he'll make you wait until he thinks you're just desperate to hear from him again - that will make you more vulnerable and receptive...and willing to compromise your own standards.

As for the family member thing, I really doubt I can do that. Things don't 'just come to me' without a message being involved somehow. That said, I'm fairly convinced that there's someone you know who is in the position I described. Beyond that, I can't say who it is, what her relation to you is (i.e., neighbor, co-worker/peer, etc...) but she's there.

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posted January 31, 2014 01:00 PM            

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Yeah i do have an aunt like that but its just that shes not a gossip at all and isnt invasive even a little bit. She is so loved by everyone. Very sweet and very very kind woman. And i only have two aunts so good job the other aunt is married....
Yeah this aunt is divorced and i guess she may feel lost idk but thats what coincides is that shes divorced and hasnt been able to find anyone and she has a son

Edit: her son lives with her though

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posted January 31, 2014 01:06 PM            

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Actually, I would like a compatibility reading on myself (12 May, 1970, 1401, Harrison, AR) and RR (20 January, 1970, unk time, Colombo, Sri Lanka) if you wouldn't mind. He's been a very dear friend to me for a couple of years now, and I know his feelings run quite deep. I don't feel quite the same way (though I think he's an amazing person), but I'm wondering if I shouldn't be paying closer attention to him, I guess? Thank you RAS!

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