posted March 14, 2014 11:32 AM            

It's P. again... I'm just so confused right now about where he stands towards me. I keep picking up from him mixed signals and it's driving me crazy. Today he was staring at me for what seemed like an eternity - even people commented on it. But in our interactions, I keep getting mixed signals. So, if you could provide me with some clarity on his feelings towards me please, I'd appreciatte that hun.

posted March 14, 2014 11:44 AM            

(1) The Sun- male sexuality, being pulled in many, many different directions.
(2) The High Priestess, reversed- suppression of true feelings, hypocrisy.
(3) IV of Cups- self-absorption.

He does have sexual feelings for you, and deeper feelings. He isn't allowing the deeper feelings to express themselves. I keep thinking prick/**** with regards to his personality.

Will he take the thing further with you?

(1) X of Cups, reversed- refusal to evolve, suppression of desire.
(2) Knight of Cups- sincere feelings.
(3) VI of Cups- good friendship.

This guy is at war with himself. I don't think it's wise to let him in as a partner/SO in your case. He'll turn into a friend in time. Better if he initiates.

Hope this helps!

My question:

Will (O)(do not quote) interview me based on the application I sent a few days back?

Same question with (O) (application to be sent after amendments).

posted March 14, 2014 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Yes Mincey, I guess I'm picking up on his inner conflict, then... Your reading makes perfect sense. I remember in a past reading you did for me you were getting the same thing for him in terms of his personality.. interesting. I'm being quite cautious about this though, I just can't help to feel the way I do about him. thanks for your advice and reading, it certainly brought clarity to me!

You may edit the names if you like, got them and will work on it now! Sorry for taking so long to reply, I'm on my mobile right now.

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posted March 14, 2014 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Solar, my question is: how is P. feeling about me at the moment?

Please post yours aswell.

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posted March 14, 2014 12:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Mincey, I'm getting a no for the first one... I can see them considering it but I also pick up on some sort of miscommunication here. Maybe something about the application is not fully clear to them, or detailed enough, even.

I sense you have a much better chance with the second one... I definitely get a yes to your question here! Go for it

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posted March 14, 2014 12:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Right now I'd say, he feels more friendly than romantic with you, but is very intrigued by you. He feels that you are more than what you appear to be and he finds it very fascinating. He may also feel protective towards you because he doesn't understand you. He finds you very hard to read as a person. He wants to know you more for now. Like, I said, he just wants to be friends and I guess, if you could open up more, maybe this would ignite some romantic feelings in him.

My question is, how does N really feel about me?

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posted March 14, 2014 12:41 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Awesome! Follows with my cards on the first one. I don't know when I will get my amendments to the second one soon. The people I send it through take their time!

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posted March 14, 2014 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Wow Solar, there's no doubt in my mind that N has feelings for you!! It's undeniable. Not only he has feelings for you, the physical attraction is just as strong. There's a good chemistry between you two but there's a big problem showing up in the cards aswell... Neither of you seems to want to let the guard down. Not right now, at least. But he's being more positive here than you are at the moment, actually... You are quite present on his mind and I actaully think he might make the first move to shake things up between you two. He seems to be more impulsive and confident than you are right now. You will have to let go of your limitations and be open-minded to his actions if you want things to move forward... But his feelings for you are there!

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Yeah that totally makes sense. I'm really cautious when it comes to love. I'm scared of rejection. LOL. But who isn't? I'm just not one who's willing to take risks. I do hope you're right about him making the first move. He's kinda shy with girls.

posted March 14, 2014 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Right, I guess I can be hard to read, lol. We're still in the "getting to know each other" phase, so it makes sense. Like I said to Mincey, I'm still being a bit cautious here, and he might perceive that as being misterious (wouldn't be the first time), which would fit with him being intrigued/fascinated by it. Thanks hun I will work on your question now.

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posted March 14, 2014 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Yeah that totally makes sense. I'm really cautious when it comes to love. I'm scared of rejection. LOL. But who isn't? I'm just not one who's willing to take risks. I do hope you're right about him making the first move. He's kinda shy with girls.

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Oh yes, if someone has to make a move, it will be him. I believe he will take that risk. But you don't give in easily ehehe. And he senses that... It's like he has no other choice but to do it, if he really wants to build something with you. Good luck, I'm glad it made sense to you

posted March 14, 2014 02:36 PM            

do you have any either questions you would like to exchange?

I don't think we've ever exchange before and I'm curious about your perspective on the situation.

it's about an ex. he's been married for a little over a year and he just had a baby. we were always on and off for a couple of years but what I didn't know is that he was in a relationship with her I guess she just lived somewhere else but he knew her since they were children. anyways long story short he chose to keep me in his life even know he was going to marry her, we were off for a bit when they got engaged.... which was a very short engagement, but he continue to contact me... then two months later he married, I found out call them and yell at him Exedra but for whatever reason we bury the hatchet and stayed friends but for the 6 month after that he musta been going through a hard time with her because he kept contacting me kept wanting to see me and totally crossed the line....hed always be like I'm thinking of you blah blah blah blah well then I guess about that time is when she got pregnant and he didn't tell me that but he totally stopped all communication... his friend told me that she was pregnant and his friend also told me that the things he was saying we're just lies just to keep me there, such as him having a break down and him buying his way out of a DUI all these things I was so worried over about and I would talk to himhim and send emails like how is he doing, Exedra. I was really mad and really ****** off really hurt and I ended up sending an email to his wife about my time with him when I came into his life all the things he would say, what he was doing now for the past 6 months while they were married. I actually did not know she was pregnant at this time, I found out after I had sent the letters. but anyways that was a year ago and like I said since he then I never heard from him they now moved down south to be by his family.

posted March 14, 2014 03:30 PM            

nope I don't need his name

QUOTE]Originally posted by Adimi:
Sure cheerful, I'll look into that for you, no problem. I've done already several readings today and I'm a bit tired, plus I still have some other work to do. So I'll either do yours later today or tommorrow, would that be alright?

My question in this topic would be the same, if that's okay! Please let me know if you need his name too and I'll write it, then edit it.[/QUOTE]