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Topic: Stay or Go?
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lotus_flower Knowflake Posts: 444 From: New York Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 08, 2014 03:45 PM
Hi!I spoke of my job situation a few weeks ago....since then, I've had 4 interviews, for 3 positions. Two were viable options....was waiting for them to contact me. I did not get the job (although they said I interviewed well. Have attempted to follow up with the other job with no response from them) I am big into signs and prayer, I've asked for help and have really put a lot of energy into staying in the city as it has been my dream to work in publishing, etc....but now I feel that I have to move on and wrap it up--Return home (where the chances of being in my industry are small) but perhaps I can regroup there and call this a loss. **Also, I had a recruiter (the one that contacted me about the last job offer that fell through) ask if I could be considered for an Editor position they just won a contract on....but I'm not sure how that is going to pan out...although of course I told her to consider me. Tired to read this for myself, but who knows what I see in the cards for myself anymore! (LOL.) If you feel that you can give me an reading, I would appreciate it. Would be glad to give one back of course as always! IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2094 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 04:01 PM
I feel something will come about for you but you would have to wait a little bit longer. Its up most important for you to be patientso if you see opportunities coming your way but not now if you do go home then I feel your industry would change in terms of what you would be doing you would find some other opportuniTY not because you'll have a hard time finding an opportunity in your field but because a new opp pops up. this could be really exciting for you but eventually I feel you wanting to leave and we consider moving somewhere else like back to where you are now. if you feel you want some new blood new energy then I go with moving I think if your heart is at in terms of the the job / ur career, then then stay my question is.... Have I hurt his feelings in any way what his rational in terms of me IP: Logged |
lotus_flower Knowflake Posts: 444 From: New York Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 08, 2014 07:48 PM
Hi Cherful,thanks for looking into the situation for me. Here is what I am getting--no, you have not hurt his feelings! If anything, there is a great love and positive energy and motivation to move forward in your relationship with each other, very supportive in terms of affection/caring and action. It seems as if yes--he is going through something at the moment--this is about confidence, control and being a "man" and all that entails. I think this is just something he is going through as a man and his personal power, issues with asserting himself--he is trying to gain control of his life it seems. Issues with confidence. In advice, continue to be there for him and there will be quick development or explanation of circumstances, the potential for continued success in the friendship is there. Cards showed no strife! In fact, potential and new information regarding the friendship! IP: Logged |
lotus_flower Knowflake Posts: 444 From: New York Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 09, 2014 02:34 PM
Bump! Hope you saw this Cherful.....IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2094 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 09, 2014 03:17 PM
Yes, TY!I ended up sending him a thank you Starbucks card via facebokk and I let him know that if he ever need anything that he can reach out. it's a fine balance since he is now married and yet there seems to be emotional ties to us... so maybe I shoot him down more than I ever realized IP: Logged |