posted May 13, 2014 07:49 AM            

you did a reading for me on the *draw a card* thread. could you tell me if you used two decks, i recognize the *Daniel* (angel of marriage) card from an angel deck that i have, but didn't know where the other cards came from. thanks very much, the reading was very interesting!!

posted May 13, 2014 09:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
You're very welcome, glad it resonated! Yes, I've mixed multiple Doreen Virtue decks. The other 2 cards were "a new dawn" & "a helpful person".

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posted May 13, 2014 01:29 PM            

if you are up to it, can you ask if he is going to try contact me again and if ever i would get involved with him again (romantically or otherwise)?

posted May 13, 2014 05:58 PM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
yes he is a recent ex...can you believe that? :O

if you are up to it, can you ask if he is going to try contact me again and if ever i would get involved with him again (romantically or otherwise)?

i will read for you too

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Hi Redshoes,
So I get yes he'll contact you again and yes you'll be involved. At least as things are now, but there is free will so outcomes can change. I pulled some cards asking what you need to know about your relationship with Daniel and got 'new dawn' and 'treasure chest'...meaning new beginnings and unforeseen abundance, so it seems that yes, you will be in contact again.

posted May 13, 2014 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Hi Redshoes,
So I get yes he'll contact you again and yes you'll be involved. At least as things are now, but there is free will so outcomes can change. I pulled some cards asking what you need to know about your relationship with Daniel and got 'new dawn' and 'treasure chest'...meaning new beginnings and unforeseen abundance, so it seems that yes, you will be in contact again.

For me, I'm debating telling HJ my feelings for him and that I want to be exclusive. My concern is the timing, I'm not sure if now is the right time or if I wait, go with the flow it would be better. My Q is what can I expect if I tell him soon? What can I expect if I wait? Thanks

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Thanks Spiritual *groan* ....i am not surprised but it is not really a good option for me, so will try and stay open and away from him if i can...or maybe just friends? He got so much more from the r.ship than i did and always said i was *his one*?

Here is yours!

if you tell him now ~~

ring-birds-coffin

it will change something...ring is a committed thing, birds are talking and coffin is a change or end of something..so i would hold fire for a while if you can, it may be too soon?

If you wait ~~

letter-lady-fox

okay..this is talking about you communicating your message to him but being a little bit sneaky. i found it interesting that as i was shuffling i thought you need to be a little bit more casual with this, as though you arent bothered either way...do you get me.....sometimes that puts the other person at ease and allows them to come forward....i told my last guy i was with that he was free to do as he pleased (for the first year or so)...it worked and he became very loyal to me...even though it didnt work out. Hope that helps..

Can i ask one more...what can you see about the r.ship with him...would it be just friends or sexual or romantic etc?

Ask another too

posted May 13, 2014 06:37 PM            

I totally got the same feeling, that I should be casual about how I bring it up...I don't want to freak him out but also, we're friends/colleagues so I don't want to make things awkward. With the coffin card, could that represent an ending to how things are now? So, a positive card?

posted May 13, 2014 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Ok, I pulled 'time to move on', so my guess would be that it would be casual/friendship maybe even. I pulled a few more times just to see if any of the romance cards came up and they didn't. Interestingly, Celeste which points to change in home or employment did. Does he live far from you now by any chance?

I totally got the same feeling, that I should be casual about how I bring it up...I don't want to freak him out but also, we're friends/colleagues so I don't want to make things awkward. With the coffin card, could that represent an ending to how things are now? So, a positive card?

Can I ask, how does he feel toward me? Also, if I do say something, where is our relationship headed? Thx

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Oh that is good thanks...i dont really want to go back there again as it drained me so much! I would prefer if i didnt see him again, but will keep open. Yes he lives in a different country so that card may mean he is moving again do you think? Not too near me i hope

Yes coffin can be positive as in positive change..sure!

how he feels bout you ~

sun-garden-ship

very positive and would like to take you to a gathering that is coming up (maybe something outside). the ship can indicate travel but also moving forward...so i think he likes you. there are no romance cards (heart, ring) but there is a fondness for sure and this could develop into something stronger

where is it headed?

man-rider-fish

this shows him, the man coming towards you ,,this is a good card as it means someone on the way...also with the fish there could be some finances involved as in the future this could be part of the r.ship...is he wealthy? if so he will be pleased to share his money with you, which is good

posted May 13, 2014 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Thanks Redshoes I'm a bit worried that no romance cards came up though...maybe he thinks of me as just a really good friend

Oh my, Daniel may just be moving closer or potentially coming for a visit? If romance is not something you're interested in, then I think as long as you're clear from the beginning, it should be OK.

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Are you just friends at the moment? I was wondering why you mention exclusive if that is the case? . Daniel comes back and forth to see his family, so that is possible...i didnt see him for 8mths, so i am letting go now.

posted May 14, 2014 02:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Ah interesting, so he may just contact you on one of those visits.

We're seeing each other, but have no official commitment...and he is also seeing someone else. We're also friends though, were before this started, which makes this so confusing for me because sometimes i can't tell if it's him being a friend or him being the 'boyfriend'. Yes, that would be great, thanks redshoes

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I hope he doesnt in a way...although it would be good to make up our differences?

Let me lay some romance oracle cards for you...

Passion
Playfulness
Pay attention to the red flags

This says there could be great feelings of passion between the two of you and also a sense of fun could build up but there is also a warning here that all is not well. Something could not be good for you and i am seeing it as a potentially difficult situation (maybe this refers to the other woman). I would say unless you just want sex or even a FWB arrangement to be careful as you could get hurt. Also if there is another woman who he is with, maybe you decide whether this may hurt you if not addressed? I also pulled a card from another deck ~ the Lovers Oracle ~

*Friendship* ~ nurture the bonds of friendship . This may be telling to to focus on the platonic side ... for now

Sorry it is not great news....try and mind your if you can and remember this is only for now ~ things can change and do change in a heartbeat but it is good to be warned beforehand too. You may need to tell him at some point that one cannot have his cake and eat it too?

When you have time, if you could read on the *traits* the next man i will be romantically involved with, will have? Thanks

posted May 14, 2014 05:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Hi Redshoes!
Sorry about the delay. Take this with a grain of salt as I'm not that good at predicting traits but here's what I got:
-he will be generous
-he might have 2 sisters
Celeste: He will likely have relocated to where you are either home or work
Rosetta: He will want children
Worthiness: He will make you worthy

I asked about this appearance & all the cards I pulled had a water theme...so I'm thinking that he may have the built of a swimmer.

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Thanks for this Spiritual....sounds lovely although if i do meet him i will let him go quickly as i am not able to have any more children. One (of many) reasons i let my last r.ship go is because he would probably would have wanted kids and i have my family, so that part of my life is done with now. It would be unfair to hold onto a man that wanted to become a dad!! Great to have some warning too!

posted May 14, 2014 06:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
You're welcome Redshoes!

Just adding my two cents to your comment. I completely understand what your saying, but maybe give them the choice? You don't have to let them go because you feel you're depriving them, let them decide.

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Great advice....i would much prefer to meet a man that had done it all though...it would make things much easier, instead of worrying? . The last two guys i was with both needed to go off and do *more* ~ twice bitten and all that?

Do you have a question at all?

posted May 14, 2014 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
I completely understand...but the next could be different

I'm good for now, thank you I'll call on you if I get more Qs. Feel free to ask more if you want

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Yes of course...i must stay open to *different* thank you.

posted May 14, 2014 07:51 PM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
yes he is a recent ex...can you believe that? :O

if you are up to it, can you ask if he is going to try contact me again and if ever i would get involved with him again (romantically or otherwise)?

i will read for you too

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Wow.

posted May 15, 2014 08:55 AM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Wow.

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