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Topic: Is this person perfect for me?
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Leo-Dave
Newflake Posts: 20
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Registered: May 2014
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posted May 24, 2014 04:44 AM
  
From my limited understanding, her Venus is really good for me. This person and I fall down with regards to communication. We CANNOT communicate properly and it's the cause of many problems in our relationship.She is without a doubt the most kind hearted person I've ever met, could ever dream of being with, very giving and caring. But as I said above, we run into problems with communication. Can someone critique these 2 charts and see what the good and bad parts are? This chart is for my wife, whom I have separated from. Since she has gone, we have had alot of problems, alot of fighting, mostly from me as I haven't dealt with it well. But, when I think about her, I feel like she is so good for me in so many ways. She has taught me things, and I am not one to be taught. She has opened my eyes to many things, things I wouldn't have seen or done without her.
http://s27.photobucket.com/user/syntax351/media/Astrology/image_zpsf5826667.jpg.html http://s27.photobucket.com/user/syntax351/media/Astrology/astro_w2at_02_paula_hp618750744_zps2d821b25.gif.html IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted May 24, 2014 04:48 AM
No, there are too many clashes of the serious kind that could easily end up very bad. And by bad I mean possibly death bad. don't feel sad. you have had a hard life because it is meant to make you move past human nonsense. and the only way a soul can move past human stuff is by being in so much pain that you start to search for truth that transcends the physical world. you must be like a phoenix rising from the ashes so that you can become whats true instead of what your chart represents. let her go because she needs to learn lessons and I think that both of your purpose for coming together has been fulfilled. at the end of the day self love is the highest kind of love. once you find it there isn't a soul that you will long for or need to make you happy. IP: Logged |
Leo-Dave
Newflake Posts: 20
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posted May 24, 2014 06:22 AM
Thank you for the reply.What clashes can you see and why? IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 1237
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posted May 24, 2014 11:04 AM
the synastry is very poor here. I don't know what your communication troubles are and whom would play what role, but you have a tremendous amount of fire in your personal planets and she would likely feel quite dominated by you since she is more earth/water in her chart. the two biggest problems I see are: her Capricorn mars sits opposite your leo planets; that opposition likely causes a lot of the friction. Capricorn and leo are both very strong signs and neither wants to back down. the second problem is the mercury signs - they sit opposite one another as well. since mercury is the sign of the communication, when they are in opposing signs you have partners who come at arguments from different angles, and who problem-solve and communicate very differently. this is definitely not a perfect matchIP: Logged |
athenegoddess
Knowflake Posts: 1806
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posted May 24, 2014 05:27 PM
your sun/moon/venus/mars/Saturn are conflicting with her Pluto.. but most importantly Saturn conjunct Pluto afflicted. IP: Logged |
Leo-Dave
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posted May 25, 2014 04:10 AM
Thanks for the replies.When looking at chart compatibility, take mercury for example, is it better to be with someone whos Mercury sits in your sign, or close to it for there to be compatibility? So for me, my Mercury is Virgo. Would I communicate better with someone with their Mercury in Leo or Libra? Am I right in assuming that if my planets are in Leo and someone else has a lot in Capricorn/Aquarius area, there would be conflicts? IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted May 25, 2014 04:17 AM
If you have a Mercury in Virgo, it's best to go with Mercury in Taurus, Cap, Scorp etcMercury in Leo and Mercury in Virgo will clash as Leo will be too flamboyant for the Virgo. IP: Logged |
Leo-Dave
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posted June 09, 2014 10:17 PM
This is the overlay of both our birth charts.[IMG]http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c175/syntax351/Astrology/Davean dPaulawithAsteroids_zpseefd6549.gif[/IMG] IP: Logged |
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