posted January 25, 2015 02:45 PM            

I was wondering if someone would be able to give me a love life reading over the next year. I do not have any specific requirements, except for please use whatever methods suits you.

I have had a few free/paid readings, including a reading from a local psychic and now I've reached a stage where I think all of the short-term predictions have manifested themselves.

Now, I am not too sure what I should be doing. I am taking this opportunity to focus on work and my individual pursuits, but at one point last year, I read on Cafe Astrology that I was likely to get into a serious relationship lol.

Fast forward 6 months and I am yet to see evidence of that.

I don't know what to do in this area, very confused.

Help would be very welcome

posted January 25, 2015 03:43 PM            

Thanks for your response
That's interesting. Not sure whether I'm happy or sad about the time frame.

Are you able to say anything else about who the person is/could be?

posted January 25, 2015 03:59 PM            

Sorry I don't have any info. I do think you'll meet him before then, but a in a committed rel. 1.5

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Originally posted by ikja:
Cherful!

Thanks for your response
That's interesting. Not sure whether I'm happy or sad about the time frame.

Are you able to say anything else about who the person is/could be?

In a way, I feel that I'm now wasting my time messing with this particular guy and now I want to move on. Move on to what though? (The question that probably prompted me to write this post) - maybe the answer is... Move on to myself lol

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posted January 25, 2015 04:33 PM            

I really appreciate you taking the time out.
I had a feeling this guy wasn't someone that I should be investing my time in tbh.
You've just confirmed what I've been thinking; but I keep allowing this dude back in and it sets me back 1000 steps.

posted January 25, 2015 05:04 PM            

I feel as though right now you are eager to find your soulmate, as it shows through you actions everyday. You appear to wake up with a fairly positive attitude about love,(Sometimes you get a bit frustrated like, "Why is everyone else in love,why not me?",but overall positive. Regardless, you seem to be actively inviting people into your life by being outgoing, flirting with people who catch your eye or feel comfortable with, and having an overall pleasing demeanor in public. This is a great attitude to have,but unfortunately no new SERIOUS suitors yet. This period right now is for you to gain confidence, decide what you want in life, and get yourself together so right now you won't find what you are looking for(a real commitment). Divine timing is a factor in you finding love, but 8 months to a year from now he will come, and it will be everything you have hoped it would be.

I drew:
Flirt
Calling in Your Soul mate
Worth Waiting For.

posted January 25, 2015 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by ReeseC:
Hi Ikja, hope you don't mind me practicing and pulling a few cards for you regarding your love life.

I feel as though right now you are eager to find your soulmate, as it shows through you actions everyday. You appear to wake up with a fairly positive attitude about love,(Sometimes you get a bit frustrated like, "Why is everyone else in love,why not me?",but overall positive. Regardless, you seem to be actively inviting people into your life by being outgoing, flirting with people who catch your eye or feel comfortable with, and having an overall pleasing demeanor in public. This is a great attitude to have,but unfortunately no new SERIOUS suitors yet. This period right now is for you to gain confidence, decide what you want in life, and get yourself together so right now you won't find what you are looking for(a real commitment). Divine timing is a factor in you finding love, but 8 months to a year from now he will come, and it will be everything you have hoped it would be.

I drew:
Flirt
Calling in Your Soul mate
Worth Waiting For.

I hope this resonates for you.

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I do not mind at all RC

I 100% agree with everything you said. My hope for love has only recently returned, I definitely have my days when I feel like things are not moving at all; and when I feel like everyone is moving around me - whilst I remain still and without a partner. Even my two friends from university are now in relationships, and I am once again, the only person without a girlfriend.

I am flirting and trying to make conversation with various people. However, in my opinion, they are unserious and I do not want to waste time (as I have done in the past) entertaining things that I know are not right for me.

After my last relationship, I am slowly coming into my own. Getting in shape and building up my confidence and creditials (in relation to work and my material achievements). I definitely feel like God is telling me to take a step back, to slow down and to understand how I have to improve to proceed into the type of relationship that I want - not need.

posted January 25, 2015 06:35 PM            

Sorry I don't have any info. I do think you'll meet him before then, but a in a committed rel. 1.5

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Originally posted by ikja:
Cherful!

Thanks for your response
That's interesting. Not sure whether I'm happy or sad about the time frame.

Are you able to say anything else about who the person is/could be?

In a way, I feel that I'm now wasting my time messing with this particular guy and now I want to move on. Move on to what though? (The question that probably prompted me to write this post) - maybe the answer is... Move on to myself lol

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posted January 25, 2015 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
He's not going to give u a relationship. If u completely shut him out... Then maybe a new guy will come in a it sooner.

Sorry I don't have any info. I do think you'll meet him before then, but a in a committed rel. 1.5

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Cherful x
I really appreciate you taking the time out.
I had a feeling this guy wasn't someone that I should be investing my time in tbh.
You've just confirmed what I've been thinking; but I keep allowing this dude back in and it sets me back 1000 steps.

Thank you so much x

posted January 26, 2015 09:26 AM            

Sorry for jumping into your thread guys.

Please don't quote will edit later.

posted January 27, 2015 03:09 AM            

Thank you for your insights.
Do you think that the person will be someone I already know, or someone completely new?

posted January 27, 2015 06:46 PM            

you have recent past hurt or is this hurt from long ago but you haven't quite dissolve the painful feelings? For whatever reason I need to say don't trust someone who might come back and even if its just to be a friend...or if you keep revisiting this person in your head let it go. I don't see your love life is hopeless. I don't think in 3 months will have a long term relationship with someone but there does look to be someone that you'll have an interest in. I I think it's safe to say you'll actually speed dating this person, within this three month. So again its not hopeless at all. But I just get a sense that there might be some pain or aggravation left over from someone vs you being bored because you have no one to date.

I don't know if you're in school and that's how the connection comes about or if the person works at a school. s/He seems to be one of those nice safe person.

When you say you can read charts what kind is it natal, Solar Return chart or what?