LibraGirl92 Knowflake Posts: 33 From: Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 01, 2015 02:34 AM
So i am having a debate on whether me and my fiancee should stay in WA where we have been for almost a year in march. we have been staying with friends of ours and lately i have been having doubts about staying here. as much as it is nice out here and my fiancee is finally back in the northwest where he grew up i feel like i am not getting anywhere here in WA guess you can say i have been having extreme doubting :-( and i feel that it should be best to go back home in IL where my family are at where i feel that we can do so much better and have the help we need but the problem is that i put $800 down $200 left on a house we are about to own that we got from our roomates since they are moving somewhere else. I know that if i ask for my money back it will screw up everything as they our roomates girlfriend's dad house. My fiancee has been on job search since april of last year (please do not judge i have heard about this sooo much about this subject it's not the point not to be mean). i would just like to know that if it would be a smarter move for us to go back to IL or stick it out here in WA. It would be nice if my fiancee's mother who lives in Oregon would help us out but her and my fiancee have not talked to each other for years and hate each other with a purple passion (i wish they could just get along but that just me). The last last resort would be to go back to AZ as to where my fiancee's youngest son resides but the problem there would be there is no one to turn to get on our feet there. If anyone is willing to help me out with this i would be very very very thankful :-)IP: Logged |