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Topic: Let him go – please, prayer or spell or anyting.
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LostSoulRebecca
Knowflake Posts: 484
From: Europe
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 27, 2015 02:11 PM
  
Dear my LL friends.*** EDIT*** Any kind of help will be really appreciated. Again, thank you!  
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St@r2013
Knowflake Posts: 1757
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted February 27, 2015 03:49 PM
I think everyone experienced what you're going through. Someone wants described it as your brain having anchors to the memories - so it's difficult to move on because you remember that you used to talk a lot, go out a lot etc and now when he's not there there's a void. Anyway, there's a few things you can do:
- Visualize - just close your eyes see the person in front of you and see that there are ropes connecting you - cut those ropes in your mind and set him free. You can also perhaps talk to him and set him free in your mind. - Write down your wish, for example, you need help letting him go. Fold the paper in four and burn it. Watching as the smoke goes and knowing it's going to the angels and they will help you. - Setting a candle, I've done it with 2 exs and with one of them it helped, not so much with the other (but it was a much much stronger bond) - http://www.missionaryindependent.org/candle-altar-cut-and-clear.html - this is the site I used. You basically write in your petition that you would like to let go of X and it's also a good idea to write who you'd like to meet/enter your life instead. Best of luck! IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca
Knowflake Posts: 484
From: Europe
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 28, 2015 12:24 AM
Thank you, star.*** EDIT*** It really helps to read either advices or similar personal experiences from other members of LL community. Thank you!
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 872
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 28, 2015 02:00 PM
Call me naive, but I'm of the belief that if you're still alive... There's room to talk your feelings out with him. I think in this instance, this would help? Alternatively, write him a letter?I'm suggesting this because it seems that you want to be a part of his life, and him a part of yours; but there has to be distance. Just explain that to him and come to an agreement.
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LostSoulRebecca
Knowflake Posts: 484
From: Europe
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 01, 2015 06:50 AM
ikja, thank you so much for your advice.*** EDIT*** Thank you.
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