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Topic: I just feel so lost today, advice cards please
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SereneDaze
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 26, 2015 10:16 AM
  
Im currently in a really complicated relationship with someone, and the worst thing is I keep pulling cards for myself and how the relationship is going to go in the future. Everytime the cards are negative I cant take it and agonize over what is going to happen next. Its such a terrible cycle and I shouldnt pull anymore cards on this but its hard.I feel very clouded over whats happening with this relationship and most importantly, myself. I dont know what I'm doing right and what I'm doing wrong. I would really appreciate it if someone pull some advice cards for me. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 1788
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted March 26, 2015 11:44 AM
Hi I can't pull cards for you but maybe you shouldn't pull them for yourself. Since your situation and emotions are negative it might be reflecting in the cards you pull for yourself. Give it a little time and try to approach it with a more clear head and maybe you will get a straighter answer. IP: Logged |
VacantGazer
Knowflake Posts: 344
From: The Sky
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 26, 2015 12:01 PM
When you're feeling emotional,is best not to read for yourself, as the reading will probably be inaccurate. They will either be biased, or can show you your worst fears, which will then heighten your emotions and you will try reading again, confusing you even more.
Pls dont quote might edit later
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SereneDaze
Knowflake Posts: 74
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posted March 26, 2015 01:54 PM
I think so too, sometimes the cards I pull are showing my worst fears and sometimes I might interpret my cards a little too positively. I think its always tough reading for yourself. Maybe I shouldnt even read for myself anymore.IP: Logged |
VacantGazer
Knowflake Posts: 344
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Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 26, 2015 02:13 PM
Don't worry, I did it too  . I don't think it's impossible to read for yourself but the only time I want to read for myself is during an emotional time, so is pointless for me IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 535
From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 26, 2015 06:56 PM
I pulled a few angel cards for you. ^^Where the relationship is now: Chemistry - Wedding - This Could Be The One So, there's definitely attraction between the two of you right now. From the last card I get the sense that this person will feature in your life for a very long time. What will happen in the near future: Attraction - Past-life Relationship - Let Go Of Control I get the vibes that your relationship is definitely a soul mate relationship at the very least. You will have to step back a little bit and concentrate on yourself. The cards suggest that you shouldn't be in a hurry and give more time to the whole connection to blossom. Enjoy your life, have fun and don't try to rush things. The right person is in your life, but don't spoil the whole thing. The purpose of the relationship: New Love - Past-life Relationship - Children Again, the cards indicate a soul mate relationship, and along with it come lessons to be learned. Somehow I feel that in the past either of you had problems with some family members and therefore has mother/father issues and complete lack of trust. This is why you need to slow down the pace - healing has to be done in order to have a healthy relationship. It is here to make you work on yourselves and heal your inner children in order to become balanced and be completely ready for a healthy relationship. Summary/advice card: Simply Love When I look at this card I feel it is about unconditional love. Don't be afraid of your feelings, if you feel the need to share it then just do it. I immediately thought of a movie scene from Eat Pray Love and a line which is: "Send him some love and light every time you think about him, then drop it." Some keywords that popped up in my mind: Innocence and true love.  IP: Logged |
SereneDaze
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 26, 2015 08:55 PM
@emsieI have to say wow, you picked up details that some of my readers did not do for me. I always sensed that it would take a few more years for him to really come around because he has a lot of healing and growing up to do. Yes, he has issues with his mother which he has never talked about. Your cards confirmed all of that for me. Im not sure if we are soul mates but I do feel such a strong connection and could never walk away from him. Some readers I go to see the complications and advice me to leave this relationship. Heres where you're different though, you're picking up the same complications but also letting me know how to deal with them. Im so thankful for your reading, the advice really resonates with me. IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 535
From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 27, 2015 06:50 AM
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Originally posted by SereneDaze:
@emsieI have to say wow, you picked up details that some of my readers did not do for me. I always sensed that it would take a few more years for him to really come around because he has a lot of healing and growing up to do. Yes, he has issues with his mother which he has never talked about. Your cards confirmed all of that for me. Im not sure if we are soul mates but I do feel such a strong connection and could never walk away from him. Some readers I go to see the complications and advice me to leave this relationship. Heres where you're different though, you're picking up the same complications but also letting me know how to deal with them. Im so thankful for your reading, the advice really resonates with me.
I'm glad I could help you at least a little bit. The strange thing is that I'm in the exact same situation. I've already met my soul mate, I already know him, but he's still coping with a previous break-up, tho it's been like 4 years now... Lots of burdens on him... We tried to get together and make it work, but the timing was off as I also had to deal with my father issues and co-dependency. These days we aren't communicating at all, but soon he'll get back in touch with me again. This time I don't have any expectations, because I know that the timing is still offish...  All I can do is love him and then let him go for a while to have his space and work out stuff in solitude. Currently he's planning to get back to school and move to another town, because he's stuck in a rut, but I really hope this will make the difference.  IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 535
From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 27, 2015 06:52 AM
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