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Topic: @LostTaurus
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dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 08, 2015 02:24 PM
  
I am wondering if you'd be interested in exchanging. ML has disappeared again and there were a few texts today between us with him asking me to see him....I asked for a time and he again disappeared. What is he doing? Is he just playing a game to see how much of a fool I will act when he comes back around and not really interested? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1490
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 08, 2015 02:28 PM
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Originally posted by dustib:
I am wondering if you'd be interested in exchanging. ML has disappeared again and there were a few texts today between us with him asking me to see him....I asked for a time and he again disappeared. What is he doing? Is he just playing a game to see how much of a fool I will act when he comes back around and not really interested?
Nah, it feels like he's in the middle of something. I do think he'll respond. Just breathe 
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dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 08, 2015 02:30 PM
he just sent me a text and told me to quit texting him IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1490
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 08, 2015 02:33 PM
How many texts did you send to which he didn't respond after his request to see you? Still feels transient, like he's in the middle of something and can't give you the response you require. (i.e., not like "Don't ever text me again") IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 08, 2015 02:36 PM
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LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1490
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 08, 2015 02:39 PM
Doesn't make sense. That doesn't feel consistent with the energy he's putting off. That makes me think that perhaps he is playing games. If he is, drop him. Make him work for it for a while. And DON'T BACK DOWN from that.IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 08, 2015 02:51 PM
he responded and said I saw where he said meet him today so that meant when I got off of work....responded back I'm not a mind reader. I think he was mad because I told him I had other plans maybe instead of waiting for him to respond? I don't know with him anymore....IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1490
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 08, 2015 03:15 PM
He likes you. Just don't read anything into anything and let it happen as it will. Seriously, I'd tell you if I felt anything different, and I don't answer questions unless I can feel a legitimate connection to them. He likes you.IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 08, 2015 03:22 PM
Thanks. He's just very frustrating....he disappears a lot. So, will I see him tonight? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1490
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 08, 2015 03:24 PM
That still feels 'up in the air'. I don't think he's figured out yet, so I can't predict. IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 08, 2015 03:36 PM
ugh....sounds just like him so I'm not gonna hold my breath cause I'm guessing it won't happen. IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 08, 2015 04:36 PM
ok I'm off work in 30 minutes and am supposed to text him after I leave.....has he made up his mind yet? LOLIP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1490
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 08, 2015 04:53 PM
Lol!!!  I don;t think he has entirely, but I do feel like he;s leaning toward making time to connect. Hope this helps. Let me know!IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 08, 2015 08:48 PM
We did see each other tonight. He said something that threw me though when I was getting ready to leave and has me wonder why he said it since we have only really been dating for a few months. He mentioned going to back to work to make money for "us". I questioned him on it and he responded...well just in case in the future. But when I asked about taking dating profiles down, he was against that. So can you tell me what's going thru his mind? IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 09, 2015 09:53 PM
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LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1490
From: Conway, AR, USA
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posted June 10, 2015 04:38 AM
He's just taking it one day at a time, getting to know you. He genuinely likes you, but it doesn't feel like he'll rush a commitment. Really, that's a good thing.IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 10, 2015 09:14 AM
No I agree...but I have figured out he's only contacting me when he's not going online to the dating site. If he's on there at all, I don't hear from him. This guy is confusing! IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1490
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 01:35 PM
His frequency of the dating site feels more like a defense mechanism than an actual pursuit (i.e., trying to 'keep things in check'). Just give it time. IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 10, 2015 01:35 PM
why is he always on the dating site? He will do fabalous with texting me when he's not getting on there but then I am forgotten about when he's on there. He mentioned trying to see me tonight...will it happen? And am I fooling myself thinking he will ever change? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1490
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 01:41 PM
I noticed your question to VacantGazer - it feels to me like just the opposite: the dating site is a pasttime, not you. It's a way for him to keep developing feelings at a pace he's comfortable with.Yes, I think you may see him tonight. Doesn't seem like for long, but it feels like he's trying to make it happen. IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1490
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 01:49 PM
...and you're fooling yourself to think he won't  IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 10, 2015 03:45 PM
Thank you! He's just so frustrating and I need to stop getting readings on him as I think it's confusing me even more when I get good ones like this and then bad ones. Do you have any questions? IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 10, 2015 07:54 PM
I did not see him tonight.  IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
Knowflake Posts: 3393
From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted June 10, 2015 08:33 PM
DustiDo you want to exchange? IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 10, 2015 08:40 PM
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
DustiDo you want to exchange?
sure! what's your question? IP: Logged |
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