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Topic: Offering readings for feedback ⭐️
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SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 08:39 AM
***closed***Hey guys, I feel like doing readings today. I'm going to read without cards this time, so this is practice for me. Let me know the connection you have with the other person ( if you're asking about someone else) and a brief history of past events that have taken place. Please only sit if you can give feedback, and one question for each sitter only 😊 IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 4231 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted August 25, 2015 08:44 AM
Hey SD, thanks for the offer. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 15485 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 08:52 AM
Hi Serene Is this relationship focus? I could ask about my love, we've fought and had a separation period, and recently got back in contact. We get along well and love each other, there were some insecurities in need to be overcome. We face a major life decision (relocation). What do you see as upcoming events between us or for us? And please let me know if you want to exchange, I am here ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... AstroMandala New Profiles IP: Logged |
FairyDust75 Knowflake Posts: 2300 From: USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 25, 2015 08:55 AM
Hi SD, I would like to know about my relationship with E. How do you feel things will continue to progress between us? We've been seeing one another for quite a few months now. Lately I feel he's been a little pulled back because of stress that he has going on. So I guess just any insight you can give me on how we will continue and the way in which I should handle him during this stressful time he is having would be helpful to me. Thanks!IP: Logged |
onlythegoodthings Knowflake Posts: 252 From: Italy Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 25, 2015 08:57 AM
Hello serene! May I sit please? I would like some advices for self improvements (internal and external). Thank you! IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 08:58 AM
@tgemHe does think about you from time to time, he has a nice impression of you. I don't feel that he is as strongly attracted to you like you are to him. He likes you and he finds you physically attractive too it's pretty much an open door as to things between the both of you, it's up to you if you want to approach him. I feel like he will be friendly to you if you do go up and talk to him. IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 4231 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted August 25, 2015 08:59 AM
Ok thank you!IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 09:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by tgem: Ok thank you!
Did the reading resonate with you? Please give me feedback how things went with him. IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 4231 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted August 25, 2015 09:04 AM
Yes, absolutely, he's got a fabulous smile and when we have briefly spoken, he has always flashed that friendly smile that's good that he likes me as I think I catch him looking at me out of the corner of his eye and I just wanted to make sure I wasn't reading into anything that wasn't there.I will definitely let you know if something happens... IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 09:13 AM
@LeeLooI cant pick up events without cards but things are going to be stuck for a while. I mostly feel like his pride is hurt and this stops him from using the rational part of himself to figure out a solution to this. Hmm he is difficult to read...there are heavy feelings that he's experiencing. He is hurt by what happened, the both of you need to work things out calmly. I'm mostly getting that you should reassure him for him to come out of his shell. Did this resonate? Thanks for offering to exchange. Would it do any good if I don't contact him for a month or two? IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 15485 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 09:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: @LeeLooI cant pick up events without cards but things are going to be stuck for a while. I mostly feel like his pride is hurt and this stops him from using the rational part of himself to figure out a solution to this. Hmm he is difficult to read...there are heavy feelings that he's experiencing. He is hurt by what happened, the both of you need to work things out calmly. I'm mostly getting that you should reassure him for him to come out of his shell. Did this resonate? Thanks for offering to exchange. Would it do any good if I don't contact him for a month or two?
It resonates very well indeed It's as if we're both wearing a shell now, and he is generally more insecure about himself than I am so I am not surprised you picked that. Thank you! brb with your reading... ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... AstroMandala New Profiles IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 09:22 AM
@fairydust75I don't feel this relationship is too balanced now. This came clearly to me that you need to develop and focus on yourself more. You seem to lose your identity to whomever you're dating and it's not helping you. Sometimes he feels stressed out that he needs to take care of you while at the same time figure out the troubles that he's facing. You need to give him space because he cant think straight when he's stressed. I feel things will get better when his troubles are sorted out and things will more or less stay the same this year. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 09:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by onlythegoodthings: Hello serene! May I sit please? I would like some advices for self improvements (internal and external). Thank you!
Your question is a bit too vague for me. Please specify improvements regarding what? IP: Logged |
FairyDust75 Knowflake Posts: 2300 From: USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 25, 2015 09:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: @fairydust75I don't feel this relationship is too balanced now.his came clearly to me that you need to develop and focus on yourself more. You seem to lose your identity to whomever you're dating and it's not helping you. Sometimes he feels stressed out that he needs to take care of you while at the same time figure out the troubles that he's facing. You need to give him space because he cant think straight when he's stressed. I feel things will get better when his troubles are sorted out and things will more or less stay the same this year.
I think you are right. I am trying to back off and give him space. But at the same time he does come to me for help. So it can be confusing as to when I should back off and let him sort things out or when I should try and help, or offer to help. When you say things will more or less stay the same this year what do you mean by that? That we will continue together?
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SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 09:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by FairyDust75: I think you are right. I am trying to back off and give him space. But at the same time he does come to me for help. So it can be confusing as to when I should back off and let him sort things out or when I should try and help, or offer to help. When you say things will more or less stay the same this year what do you mean by that? That we will continue together?
Oh of course, let him know that you're there for him and open to help whenever he needs it. Just don't push him when he's preferring to stay quiet about his troubles. Yes, you will both remain together IP: Logged |
FairyDust75 Knowflake Posts: 2300 From: USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 25, 2015 09:35 AM
Thanks so much. I appreciate your insight. I am trying not to be too pushy and let him come to me. I do hope I'm doing ok with it. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 15485 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 09:39 AM
What is the consequence on this relationship if you don't contact him anymore for a while?8 of wands Hermit Hierophant 3 of swords Temperance Tough to read! I think no matter if you call him or not, there are things bound to happen within the interval, some news, or events, that will put the relationship into a new light for you or simply some inner events and developments changing the perspective. But the spread does suggest you should keep it to yourself now, since both Hermit and Hierophant are about seeking guidance and advice, from a retreat position (they are both hermits, form a certain POV). The things that will happen in or out will lead to healing of any heart break.. On the other hand, we have here a mythical pair, the antagonism between doing what the heart desires, one's own truth and inner light (Hermit, 3 of sw) vs. doing what is right or traditional or in conformity (Hierophant) and seeking the balance between those (Temperance). Doing what one wants in the heart ( to seek for him - Hermit) vs the rules of the dating game (Hierophant). I think the cards advice is to stick to the rules of the game, which is not pushing it with a guy ho doesn't chase you (since Hierophant was the last position in my initial spread, the last two cards are clarifiers) ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... AstroMandala New Profiles IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 09:46 AM
@LeeLooI know he is tough to read, you're not the first to say that lol. Thanks for the reading, I know what to do now IP: Logged |
onlythegoodthings Knowflake Posts: 252 From: Italy Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 25, 2015 10:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Your question is a bit too vague for me. Please specify improvements regarding what?
Oh uhm improvements on face, hair ect and also internal self like how should I act with people to have more friends or to be succesful at school. I feel like Im always been invisible to everyone... I want to be seen as special too for once. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 10:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by onlythegoodthings: Oh uhm improvements on face, hair ect and also internal self like how should I act with people to have more friends or to be succesful at school. I feel like Im always been invisible to everyone... I want to be seen as special too for once.
Improvements on hair and face? This needs to be asked in a beauty forum instead I don't think a reading is what you need, based on the question you asked. You don't need to learn how to act around other people, it should be natural and come from within. The main thing I pick up is that you don't have a passion in life. I understand this is easier said than done but you need to find something that you're passionate about that will motivate you in life. IP: Logged |
onlythegoodthings Knowflake Posts: 252 From: Italy Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 25, 2015 11:01 AM
Yes I know. the real thing is that I don't really know what I'm searching for and what I really want to do, I'm a little indecisive when it comes to myself. I think you're right about finding something I'm passionate about. I feel like I'm not living my life the way I want. i think as you said I should find something and get out of my routine. Thank you!
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SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 11:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by onlythegoodthings: Yes I know. the real thing is that I don't really know what I'm searching for and what I really want to do, I'm a little indecisive when it comes to myself. I think you're right about finding something I'm passionate about. I feel like I'm not living my life the way I want. i think as you said I should find something and get out of my routine. Thank you!
All the best, I know you can do it! IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 01, 2015 03:15 PM
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