posted February 19, 2016 08:48 PM
Thank you very much, Poochy.
I am really not surprised about the ending. I have been feeling unsettled in the recent days because I can see that we are very incompatible. I'm very Scorpionic and he is very Uranian. My Scorpio moon and his Aquarius moon, plus his Uranus conjunct my moon. On top of that a Venus-Uranus conjunction in composite. I can feel the erratic energy in our dynamic and I am not comfortable with it and I knew it's a recipe for disaster. My moon would never feel safe/comfortable/secure with his Uranian ways.We are sort of long distance, and he wanted me to move to a new place where we he could visit me and where we could of course be intimate (not possible with my current housing situation). He gave me the funds and everything. But for the past one month I couldn't find the right place, or maybe subconsciously I didn't want to find the right place because deep inside me I really didn't want things between us to go to the next level. He believes I'm not serious about us and that's why I dilly-dallied about finding a place.
We were friends a long time ago, but we had no contact for 7 years. We reconnected 3 months ago and admitted to liking each other. So we had a 3 month online relationship punctuated by a few meetings in person. My moving to a new place would have signified us being in an official relationship. But I guess fate has a different plan. 
I think my feeling of relief and the lack of deep sadness also means this is all for the best. We are and will still be friends. He says I am his best friend. *shakes fist at Uranus*
Anyway, interesting that this ending happened very close to a full moon. And also i read that it ties in with a full moon or something in Feb 2008, the year when I walked away from our connection. I didn't know he liked me then. He dated someone else and I left. When we had a misunderstanding last month, he sort of blamed me for why we didn't get to be together then... he said I walked away and denied my feelings, and he was correct.
Anyway, just thought I'd give u a brief story about the moon etc.. lol... Please reply that you've read this and I will delete this post.
Thank you again for your time and energy. Truly and deeply appreciated.
Just read the 8 of Swords interpretation on priania.com and I think it's spot on. Also the 4 of cups, although I think I'm the one who should have shown more interest/love/caring, because really he's a great guy and deserves more.
EDIT: Adding this full moon link. http://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogs/Maharani_Rutan/Astro-Changes/default.aspx
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posted February 19, 2016 07:32 PM
posted February 19, 2016 08:23 PM
Seven of pentacles is showing that you need to be open to other possibilities however because unfortunately your future was the eight of swords. This is showing that you need to seriously re-evaluate the relationship. Your clarifier was the ten of swords. So sorry, Fabulous, this is showing endings so I don't feel there is going to be a reconciliation. Poochy