posted March 18, 2016 03:33 PM            

the thing is, no reader, unless a God-realized master, is 100% accurate all the time. Even IF a God-realized master, they may not choose to "tell you" your fate and instead tell you what you need to hear to work through ego-based beliefs and desires.

I have been to some of the best and most statistically accurate (and expensive) readers in the US and some of them have been drastically wrong in some regards. When anyone is identified with their lower self/ego (Which we are all to some degree- otherwise we would not be in these bodies) there is always a chance for self-projection and error. Even those with very advanced and highly-developed spiritual gifts can misread a situation! Even if someone is a clear channel most of the time, unless they are in an ever-balanced state of inner calmness, achieved through DEEP, consistent meditation, their perspectives will too be altered by the waves of life.

So, when getting a reading, in my humble opinion, I believe there are a few things you can do to ensure you are getting the most out of it. First of all, do not undermine your knowing. Open your mind to the possibility of what is being said, but use your discrimination to analyze it. Do not come at it in fear and think "oh no have I been delusional?" even if told something "you don't want to hear" you really have no idea if it is right. If a reading arouses a negative feeling in you, use it as an opportunity to rid yourself of that feeling. Meditate on it, see what it has triggered, and allow it to heal. What you were told in the reading could very well have no truth to it (or only be true on a minisimal level) but could be incredibly important for you to hear as it stirs up deeply held feelings which can now be released!

It is also important to understand that energies can change. something that someone is picking up on at one time could be one fascet of a very complicate, multifaceted situation. It doesn't have to be the end-all-be-all. Energies ebb and flow. The energies presented could also be mirroring YOUR feelings on the situation or your fears/ worries/ beliefs.

If something from the reading DOES resonate with you, after careful discrimination, then take it to heart. Perhaps the whole purpose of the reading was to bring to surface a possibility that you had not yet examined so that you can either observe it and release it or observe it and take it to heart and expand your perception of the situation Perhaps the purpose was to expose a wounded part of your ego so that you could heal it. The purpose is certainly not ALWAYS to expose you to the 100% truth. You will only draw in what you yourself need at that time. Do you really think the universe is going to allow you to know all simply because you asked once in an online forum? You and I know that the truest answer lies within yourself! You are the only one who can access it through sheer determination, willpower, and continued effort!

I have had homeless people off the street walk up to me and tell me a truth greater than I have received from some very spiritually advanced people. The truth is, that you will only be presented with the "truth" that is NEEDED for you to hear at the time, the reason why you needed to hear that information, and whether or not it is true is entirely up to you to figure out. Just know that you are drawing in exactly what you need!

posted March 18, 2016 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Thank you for posting this. I am greatly struggling and this helped me with an honest perspective. Thank you.

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posted March 18, 2016 04:31 PM            

She told me he was going to prison for 12 years, so I did things I wouldn't have done for my daughter's custody. I put SO much trust in her. Well, it turns out she was ENTIRELY wrong. It is my opinion that once we keep going back to the same person, our stories and perceptions end up penetrating their minds and clouding their perception on the matter. I think it is the universe/God's way of not having us rely entirely on others no matter how spiritually gifted they are. There is a great lesson here for you and it is TRUST YOURSELF. The clarity these psychics have is found within you, through meditation....You may even need to spend the first few meditations sorting through "brain garbage" aka perceptions and ideas that these psychics have told you.. YOU decide if they are true.

posted March 18, 2016 04:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Leonisces:
Yes, I agree. I also wanted to add that at the end of the day we are all creators and free will pay a big part in our lives. Cards are also reflecting on our vibration, so one day we may be this way but If we for example meditate we can raise our vibration and change curcumstances and vice versa. This is just my humble opinion and I don't mean this is a rule. 💖

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posted March 18, 2016 04:37 PM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
honey, I wholeheartedly understand where you are coming from. I have been where you are right now. I want to share this story with you as I think it could help. About a year ago I began getting readings from an incredible psychic out of Seattle. At first, I was utterly blown away. She knew little details such as my EXACT career path, she accurately interpreted the energies of my last relationship, and of myself and my daughter. After feeling such validation, I resigned my trust over to her 100%. She seemed SO accurate, such a clear channel! I began taking her word as if it was absolute truth, because I trusted her to that extent. Now, my ex-husband was arrested for a crime in which he had a fake gun. She told me the gun was actually real, which sparked a deep fear in me. One night, he called me cussing me out and because I felt he had a real gun, I thought my life may be in danger. I called the police on him. It turns out, there was actual PROOF, real evidence that the gun was not real and not even his and the case ended up being dropped. I felt HORRIBLY, I turned something that should have just been an argument and made it a legal matter....

She told me he was going to prison for 12 years, so I did things I wouldn't have done for my daughter's custody. I put SO much trust in her. Well, it turns out she was ENTIRELY wrong. It is my opinion that once we keep going back to the same person, our stories and perceptions end up penetrating their minds and clouding their perception on the matter. I think it is the universe/God's way of not having us rely entirely on others no matter how spiritually gifted they are. There is a great lesson here for you and it is TRUST YOURSELF. The clarity these psychics have is found within you, through meditation....You may even need to spend the first few meditations sorting through "brain garbage" aka perceptions and ideas that these psychics have told you.. YOU decide if they are true.

Lots of love to you

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posted March 18, 2016 04:50 PM            

I used to have too many paid and unpaid readings. And looking back instead of having readings, all I had to do was take action. Many of my questions were when will I get a new job and when will I meet someone.

I would get different dates for both (in two months, in 3 months) and I'd wait... and nothing would happen. And I'd ask again and be given another prediction for 2 months/3 months.

What I should have done was apply and go out more without worrying about specific timeline.

posted March 18, 2016 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
You are right Leo. Instead of thinking of the negative think of the positive. I do believe we can attract the unwanted outcome by focusing on it and dwelling on it. If we can create positive situations we certainly can create negative situations.

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posted March 18, 2016 05:55 PM            

I spent so much money on bitwine & if anything it just made things worst thats why I try my best to stay off readings. Knowing the future changes the future. So many readers would say so & so would come back, but in reality they never did.

posted March 19, 2016 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi missblyss,

I am so glad that you made a thread regarding this. It has gotten to the point that I too got caught up with asking question after question that it became an obsession. I admit it I feel it has to do with insecurity in your own judgement and not trusting your intuition. At least that is how it was for me.
Tarot and others forms of divination are only tools. Like others have said energies change constantly and YOU have the final say. You ALWAYS have a choice. Card readings will show the energy around a situation. Positive or negative. I feel you already know the answer to your question(s) intuitively. We just need to listen.

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