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Topic: Why is my love life so terrible?
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Libracorn
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From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 08, 2016 08:50 PM
  
Considering the fact that I have Venus Trine Jupiter exact, you would think I'd be lucky in love. That's absolutely NOT the case. I've been single for a very long time and I can't seem to find the person for me. Is there anything in my chart that points to me having a hard time with relationships? I don't know how to analyze my 7th house and my Venus and the aspects it's making. Any insights will be appreciated! Here's my chart:  IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted May 08, 2016 09:21 PM
The feeling I get from your chart is that the person you were meant to be with hasn't come into your life yet but you know him already on a soul level and you think its terrible and things keep failing because you are meant to be with him and wait for him. Its like there is already an agreement that was signed before this lifetime.When Pluto gets at 21 Cap and Jupiter conjuncts your Moon/Sun expect something great to happen you may meet him then. IP: Logged |
aquagembaby
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posted May 08, 2016 11:55 PM
With Venus in 8H and Venus square Pluto, you cannot settle for a half-*** relationship. Even if you have in the past, ultimately you need somebody that's going to bring a certain depth to your life. This in itself can be difficult b/c it's hard enough to meet people, period. But to meet somebody 'real' is a difficult task these days. So once you meet somebody, you may feel that the relationship just doesn't have that special something. It's not that you have too high of standards, but you just don't settle for superficiality. So this can make dating hard as I have this aspect as well but w/ a wide orb. People w/ this aspect may have tendencies to get caught up in negative patterns when it comes to dating. Like repeating bad habits or getting caught up in negative attitude towards love/relationships. So positivity is important I think. If it makes you feel any better, I've been in 4 relationships and none of them had any true meaning or substance to it at all. It's almost like I've never even been in a relationship. I've been single for the last 3yrs and I'm actually enjoying it. I've been able to get deeper into astrology and do things like travel and spend time w/ people, which I wouldn't have been able to do if I wasn't single. You can't really "force" yourself to meet someone so you might as well enjoy other aspects of your life in the meantime. When it's the right time, you will meet somebody.  IP: Logged |
aquagembaby
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posted May 09, 2016 12:55 AM
Also the perfect person for you may be somebody that's a bit stern and aloof but has a visionary or artistic side to them that may not be apparent at firstIP: Logged |
harmonicvibes
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posted May 09, 2016 01:39 AM
Mine is TERRIBLE as well 😦IP: Logged |
Libracorn
Knowflake Posts: 266
From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 09, 2016 11:21 AM
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
The feeling I get from your chart is that the person you were meant to be with hasn't come into your life yet but you know him already on a soul level and you think its terrible and things keep failing because you are meant to be with him and wait for him. Its like there is already an agreement that was signed before this lifetime.When Pluto gets at 21 Cap and Jupiter conjuncts your Moon/Sun expect something great to happen you may meet him then.
Hmmm.. you might be onto something. Although Jupiter is going to touch my Sun and Moon before the Pluto touches my Ascendant. This makes a lot of sense though, I need to pay more attention to my transits lol I totally forgot about Jupiter. Thanks for your reply!! IP: Logged |
Libracorn
Knowflake Posts: 266
From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 09, 2016 11:25 AM
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Originally posted by aquagembaby:
With Venus in 8H and Venus square Pluto, you cannot settle for a half-*** relationship. Even if you have in the past, ultimately you need somebody that's going to bring a certain depth to your life. This in itself can be difficult b/c it's hard enough to meet people, period. But to meet somebody 'real' is a difficult task these days. So once you meet somebody, you may feel that the relationship just doesn't have that special something. It's not that you have too high of standards, but you just don't settle for superficiality. So this can make dating hard as I have this aspect as well but w/ a wide orb.
Actually, I don't think I have Venus Square Pluto. My orbs are too wide for it. For whatever reason on Astro.com, the orbs allow for a wider square.
If you put my information into Astrotheme, the square doesn't even show up. Sometimes, I don't know whether if I should count the square into my horoscope or not. But typically I don't, I can say however that I DO relate to the traits of a person with Venus Square Pluto, but I feel as if that comes from my Venus just being in the 8th house.
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Libracorn
Knowflake Posts: 266
From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus
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posted May 09, 2016 11:27 AM
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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Mine is TERRIBLE as well 😦
Really? How is your Venus aspected? And what is the condition of your 7th house? IP: Logged |
harmonicvibes
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posted May 09, 2016 01:43 PM
Venus in Scorpio,Venus in 9th house,venus conjunct pluto,moon in 7th houseIP: Logged |
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