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posted April 18, 2016 04:35 PM            

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Hey there

Sorry for a late reply, I fell sick quite unexpectedly

Thank you for reading for me and for exchanging, best of luck
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posted April 18, 2016 04:37 PM            

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ohhhh I forgot about that hahahah I hope u are feeling better!

can I ask, are you up for another exchange?

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posted April 18, 2016 05:01 PM            

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I am fine now, thanks

Sure, why not exchange again? Only it's bedtime in my time zone and I''ll do yours tomorrow morning if that's ok?

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posted April 19, 2016 09:17 AM            

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hi! went to sleep too last night, post ur Q whenever u want to!

my question: -What does C feel or think about me? (female friend)

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posted April 19, 2016 10:18 AM            

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ok brill!

mine is what i need to do to get out of the rut i have found myself in (or rather what options not to miss out on to do that)?

thanks !! will be getting down to yours within a couple of hours

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posted April 19, 2016 03:30 PM            

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hi andstuff, I'm here with your answer!

-I think that, what stands in front of a change and yourself is yourself (hahahahaha). I think you are the one that resists some kind of change. Let me explain: you say you want to get out of the routine you are in, and maybe you are thinking about doing it in a way, and that way isn't working so that's why you asked me. Well, maybe you need to go another way. There are some aspects about yourself that you still don't want to change because you feel comfortable being like that, but those are the ones that stand in your way, and if you'd change them you would be really able to change everything you want. These traits could be that maybe you are too independent and maybe even materialistic, and you kinda want always to "get your way". Also, maybe your way of speaking is sometimes too "I'm going to tell it like it is and I don't care abt nothing else's"

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posted April 19, 2016 03:30 PM            

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what C thinks

9 swords - the star - the high priestess

I might need your feedback on this

on one level she feels you are friends, there is trust and loyalty and all that

on a deeper level, however, she is uneasy, but this is where I'm struggling. It's either she finds you too screened off and mysterious whilst she'd like to be close to you to understand that part of you that you hide. Or could be the other way round, she is struggling to protect some parts of her inner life that she wants to be secret from you and most people - but this is probably me over-projecting? As I was shuffling I felt something weird, like brain cells at work super fast, like ants in an anthill a little bit, little hectic currents, lots of inapparent action... I'd really appreciate your feedback on this, bc it feels weird

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posted April 19, 2016 03:33 PM            

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on the second part, I think it's me being "mysterious", but not because I am mysterious myself, just because lately I've been wanting to distance myself from her, and she doesn't know what's going on

can you explain those ants references? I didn't quite get them

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posted April 19, 2016 03:37 PM            

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sorry, I just get vibes sometimes when I shuffle cards

I felt there were lots of impulses as far as this friendship goes, little undercurrents, as if someone's mind was at work an awful lot re: what's going on, in a somewhat fussy manner

I didn't think it's being mysterious per se, I thought it was your choice to keep some parts of your personality separate from this friendship and she wants this to be otherwise perhaps. Choosing your own boundaries is not mysterious, it's sort of legitimate But yeah, sometimes it comes across as being mysterious

Thanks for the feedback!!

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posted April 19, 2016 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:

I felt there were lots of impulses as far as this friendship goes, little undercurrents, as if someone's mind was at work an awful lot re: what's going on, in a somewhat fussy manner

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I'm sorry andstuff... I still don't get this... and I'm really interested in this part!

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posted April 19, 2016 03:53 PM            

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Ok, let me try again. I am a natural born empath, not a psychic, just to be clear, so the way I get vibes is a little bit weird. Sometimes I am reminded of a song, sometimes I get a feeling of total peace or a wave of sadness, it can be all sorts of sensations. It can be hard to explain sometimes though.

So, going back to what I felt while shuffling for you, it was a) unrest b) hectic fussy movements, not literally obvs, felt like someone nosing/sneaking around, but not too cheekily c) something that's going on permanently, without pausing

Countless little digging movements, like I said, someone's mind at work, rather in vain. Someone's mind going in circles, trying to find something out and not managing to.

I am so sorry, I know I should learn to explain this sort of thing properly T_T

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posted April 19, 2016 04:00 PM            

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oooookay okay okay I think I got this

could those feelings come from her? trying to know what is going on with me and why I'm acting weird? or her trying to literally sneak her nose in my life because of the sake of gossip

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posted April 19, 2016 04:06 PM            

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I don't think she wants to gossip about you, she prob wants a shorter distance between you and her. So she wants to get closer and to figure out why you pull away.

You could be nervous / anxious as well because something feels unnatural and there's a certain tension.

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posted April 19, 2016 04:27 PM            

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hmmmm, okay, that makes sense

thank you a lot andstuff!

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posted April 19, 2016 04:37 PM            

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Thank you for doing mine too! i think it makes a lot of sense, let's see where i go from here lol. Basically I think what you got could be defs a major factor, so defs needs working on

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posted April 19, 2016 04:43 PM            

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glad to hear that! keep me updated if u can!

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