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Topic: How come its so difficult for me to "fall in love"?
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NYCdodger
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posted May 19, 2016 07:35 AM
  
I've never really experienced love, or a truly intimate relationship before. Most of them would be cordial to lustful, or lustful to cordial. Could never understand why and I began asking myself why.So I drew a card asking why and I got the Empress clarified by 5 of cups Anyone wanna share some insight on this? IP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted May 19, 2016 07:38 AM
you don't want to  empress = life partner, gorgeous lady 5 of cups = no thanks IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted May 19, 2016 07:47 AM
You've been hurt 3-5 times and now are shielding yourself from feeling and being vunerable. My interp of 5 of cups. IP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted May 19, 2016 07:59 AM
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Originally posted by Enneline:
you don't want to empress = life partner, gorgeous lady 5 of cups = no thanks
another interp. you once met your lady = empress but she rejected you = 5 of cups IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted May 19, 2016 08:06 AM
I can never really be interested long enough. I don't know why but I tend to lose interest rather quickly and then I want out.I don't recall meeting a woman I was truly head over heels for..not since I was 12 at least lol As for rejection, I don't know. I've both rejected women and been rejected by them several times Sometimes I want to know what its like, other times I feel like its a burden I don't want to handle. Maybe I'm looking for something beyond superficial IP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted May 19, 2016 08:14 AM
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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
I can never really be interested long enough. I don't know why but I tend to lose interest rather quickly and then I want out.I don't recall meeting a woman I was truly head over heels for..not since I was 12 at least lol As for rejection, I don't know. I've both rejected women and been rejected by them several times Sometimes I want to know what its like, other times I feel like its a burden I don't want to handle. Maybe I'm looking for something beyond superficial
HA! my first Interpretation!  you don't want to
i understand you...i also never fall in love. I have crushes, Dates and always hoping it would work out but actually i never find myself falling in love 
thanks for this thread, i will pull Cards on that IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted May 19, 2016 10:12 AM
Thank you guys. Thank you both IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 4564
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 19, 2016 11:17 AM
How is your relationship with your mother? empress=mother, followed by 5 of cups IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted May 19, 2016 11:24 AM
We're ok. Im closer to my father than my mother.As for relationships, she isn't really involved with them because i don't tell anyone in my family about who i see... IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 4564
From: Georgia
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posted May 19, 2016 11:45 AM
No, im saying she may have colored your perception of what love isIP: Logged |
-Chelsey-
Knowflake Posts: 171
From: Colorado
Registered: Dec 2015
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posted May 19, 2016 11:56 AM
What's your sign?IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted May 19, 2016 01:52 PM
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Originally posted by -Chelsey-:
What's your sign?
lol don't ask me this. I tell people all the time that I don't have a "sign"... I have a galaxy.. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted May 19, 2016 01:53 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
No, im saying she may have colored your perception of what love is
Well she's been sick for most of my life. Very clingy and smothering...yeah i guess so. Im more like my father when it comes to relationships. Im loyal and dedicated...but leave me alone and don't smother me lol IP: Logged |
poochycat
Knowflake Posts: 2646
From: Vancouver, Canada
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 19, 2016 02:02 PM
O.K. I know you don't want to share but if you are a Gemini? Rising or Mars? They get bored, restless easily and shy away from commitment.IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted May 19, 2016 02:40 PM
Gemini IC/4th house Very restless I am... IP: Logged |
-Chelsey-
Knowflake Posts: 171
From: Colorado
Registered: Dec 2015
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posted May 19, 2016 03:28 PM
I was going to guess you are an Aquarius, even though you don't want to tell me haha I am the same way in relationships. Don't want to be smothered or controlled, need my freedom and tend to keep a safe distance from everyone so I don't let them get too attached. ------------------
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Aquarius Sun ♒☀
Pisces Moon ♓🌙
Libra Rising ♎ 💫
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NYCdodger
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posted May 19, 2016 03:36 PM
^^^^^^^Aquarius/Pisces 1st house... IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 4564
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 20, 2016 05:19 PM
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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
...but leave me alone and don't smother me lol
well, there you go. Your mom was clingy and smothering and sick - Empress + 5 of cups, so you fear of being cornered and smothered..
you can't fully fall in love until you are ready to surrender. That is what is keeping you afloat and at an arm distance. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted May 20, 2016 05:36 PM
^^^^^^^Im gonna buy you a gift soon...  lol IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 4564
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 20, 2016 05:54 PM
Thank you in advance :-)IP: Logged |
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